![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for online sex video chat KatieKross
Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1992-04-12
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture: subcultureNone
Date: November 24, 2022
Dump your boyfriend.
I'm not going to comment on who you should side with etc as others have already told you that and it's pretty clear but I will offer you my experience.
I am not welcome at my in-laws and haven't been for a while now. That's fine, I understand it is their home and their rules, to be honest I don't like spending time there so it's no skin off my nose. My wife still goes to see her family, I would never stop her from doing so and I always ask how they are etc.
BUT if my wife ever came to me and said her family would be ok with me going back if I just asked if I was allowed in then that's a big no from me. They made the choice and I respect it, I am not going to go begging/asking to be let in. It is their home, they would need to invite me.
My in-laws aren't the type to play power games but it seems your dad is, have you considered what happens if your husband were to ask and your dad says no?
This is it. He's being a creepy older guy who has a thing for younger women, which is generally as close as a pedophile can get legally to being with a minor. He groomed OP regardless of whether or not she feels like he did. A man in his 30s has nothing in common with a 20 year old.
Sounds like he needed both motivation and support. Leaving took both away but both are needed. I'm confident he found both elsewhere once supportive partners do go.
Let your phone die (accidentally) and ask to use his. His response will tell you everything.
You should not be seen as a nanny for your grandkid. Of course, if you wanted to, you could experience the first steps of your daughter's motherhood with her and bond more over that. But for few months?
You are your own person and you are allowed to experience the joys of life, other than being a caretaker for your children. It is a form of self-love to choose yourself from time to time. Now it's the time.
It doesn't mean that you would not be there for your daughter and her family in times of need, but you can choose when it is the appropriate time to help.
He is her boyfriend.
She uses exclusively male pronouns to refer to him.
Unless she's decided to start misgendering him for this post, we can assume they were AFAB transitioning to male.
Ohhhman lmao this is good
This boy and his friends are just that. Boys. Dump him. Do t try to change his mind.
You have done the absolute textbook cheater post here. Blamed everything on your ex husband, taken no responsibility for the state of your marriage despite spending the past year or so running it down yourself by cheating. If you were that unhappy you should have just left and filed for divorce.
Your ex may or may not be a bad guy, your marriage may or may not have been bad, we can’t tell. I would never trust the voracity of a cheat on telling the truth about the state of a relationship as it’s too often misrepresented because you want to justify your own shitty actions.
I’m not sure why you posted. You must know by now that people who cheat aren’t considered particularly favourably or sympathetically.
I don't think so. I know there is a lot of stress right now with wedding and family planning, as well as financial stressors (due to increasing prices for goods and services). Her anxiety causes her to always assume the worst, despite my best efforts.
It was a new security job my dad helped me get, and the event was super early in the morning on Friday. I didn’t sleep till 1 PM either, it was Saturday and I wanted to wake up when my body woke up. He said for the first 8 months of the relationship he’s picked me up and drove me to him and he’s burnt out
Your marriage is over and your ex/husband is a rapist!!
You know the answer. You can't fix this person.
No. There is nothing to save. What is the purpose of therapy here (and I'm usually a huge advocate for therapy).
He had an affair.
He had sex with his step sister.
He had sex with his step sister in YOUR house.
He had sex with his step sister in your house and he didn't kick her out.
He had sex with his step sister in your house and he didn't kick her out. He allowed her to stay in your house, sleep in your bed and he continued sleeping with her for days.
This is the end of the relationship. Its not just the sex. It is the total and complete disrespect for you on every single level and the lack of remorse.
First she called me self involved for seeming overly confident
What a weird thing to get upset over.
Then she also said I sometimes got too close to her physically and she doesn't feel okay with that. I never noticed any of this so I was completely caught off guard by it
I think this is the main reason she's upset.
But, anyway, why are you paying for her trip? She's an adult, no matter if you're well off or not, she should be paying for her own trip. That way everything is equal in your friendship.
What are you asking for advice on?
I can’t imagine telling a friend of mine the extents I’m planning to go to to cheat, that’s shameless. Your sons are young enough to learn that it’s normal for you & your wife live! separately, they won’t remember the breakup. Maybe some time apart will give you chance to decide if you can forgive her, and work out if she actually is sorry or just upset about getting caught.
There's a lot of growing up that happens from 21 to 27. You are just now coming into your own, and he realizes you are way out of his league. I love that you don't take his lunch to him when he leaves it on the counter. If he can't get the message from that, he's really pretty dense.
The next few years will determine what the rest of your life is going to look like. Don't lose it for someone who doesn't seem to care that much about you.
Dude, what are you even doing here. What were you doing, too – but what are you doing.
Long distance rarely works and that’s with people who have a solid foundation. Starting there when you can’t afford to see her on a regular basis doesn’t stand a chance.
Maybe he was able to figure out his low libido issue, maybe being left by you set him on a path to try to be better, who knows. I'm sure your husband would be asking “what's wrong with me that has her hung up on what her ex is doing?”
Thank you. That is a really good comment and advise.
I do occasionally compliment her for being smart or an amazing singer (which she is), but I do feel it's definitely skewed towards her exterior. I don't want her to feel objectified so I will definitely try to bring some balance to that.
He’s never going to fully recover from this. OP is a trash human
youre absolutely right. I think it‘s time to forget about her