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Don't let him control when you see your dad. He can suck it up or go
Leave him cause that isn’t cheating. Your boyfriend is a possessive shithead and you deserve better.
5 years together and he needs closure from his ex?? This would have definitely turned into something more if you hadn’t caught the messages.
Yes, very much so. All this nonsense about dragging things along only ends up hurting people. The wast majority of people are pretty simple and you can find out everything you want to know about them in a few days. If they don't trust you enough to open up to you in a year of being together, they are not a match. Move on.
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I struggled with this in the past. In the end, I knew that I needed to do what was right for me, which meant it was also right for him- it would be cruel to string along someone you knew you had no future with.
This might actually end up great for him. By ending it, you’re opening the opportunity for you to both move on to bigger and better things. You are doing the right thing. Remember, you should not proverbially light yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
I’d be as clear as possible. You have the benefit of knowing this is coming, so use that to make it easier for both of you. Line up somewhere to stay so that you can give him space to process. Sit him down, say you’ve given it a lot of thought and you’re sorry but you want to end things. Tell him it’s not negotiable, you’ve made up your mind, and you’ll be back on x day to talk about next steps re the lease and living arrangements. I would personally avoid going into the reasons you’re breaking up- don’t give him something to debate with you. I’d keep it high level if I could and say that you think he’s a sweetheart but it’s not the relationship for you, and you need to be honest. It’s naked but you can do it.
I listened to “Where I stood” by Missy Higgins a lot at the time.
Updateme!
Yes he just claims that he is just forgetful in general
Thanks! What do you mean regarding how a teenage treats a shower ?
I think for now I have to, I can work my way slowly to more eventually though! I just have to get her pointing in the right direction.
I don't know how around you but as for the other photos I could say that I'm the kind of person who keeps things as well.
I don't believe in the concept of breaking up with someone and then deleting everything about them from your life, including for example, pictures . They are someone who impacted me and I will have memories of them.
So I definitely wouldn't want someone doing it without even talking to me about it.
Because the relationship is still relatively short, to the point that she's now showing her personality and not necessarily hiding some of the traits she has, then I'd say that it's worthy of considering a real break up over this.
I think of it as a destruction of property where she has no regrets or remorse about it and even thinks she was within her right to do so , without any kind of word to you.
How you get them is how you lose them.
Cheaters that get together usually end up cheating on each other.
Cheaters are the cause of trust issues right behind not trusting the government. And they spread coodies.
Sadly it is a reality of life, that when people are no longer in close proximity or within the same environment, friendships often end. I’ve made a lot of “best friends for life” who I no longer talk to. Everyone has moved on. It is a cycle that will repeat over and over in life. Sometimes you are lucky and get individuals, who will genuinely continue to be close with you, despite all circumstances – those are awesome, but even those friendships might change. A new partner, children, moving…all will have an impact and if the friendship can’t adapt, it will die – normally not in a bam, but with a whimper of silence.
Mourning friendships is quite normal, but it might also imply that you haven’t moved on. You are not ears-deep in the new environment and running around with new friends, trying to explore the new city etc. It hurts, because they have moved on and you haven’t. I’d get involved with your local world, rather than mourning the past. You seem to feel super strongly about friendships, while limiting yourself in what you actually do, as you don’t want to overdo it – I’d discuss that with a professional. You do need to be happy within yourself. Other people should always be an awesome bonus.
How to move on from the hurt? Have a cry and then find a hobby group or study group or go exploring. Immerse yourself in the world around you.
Um, have you never heard of the term “casual dating”? Cus no, dates do not equal immediate relationships.
Dates are for getting to know each other more and see what kind of chemistry you have. Dates don’t guarantee sex but can and often do lead to sex.
FWB to most people means fucking and nothing else. It means no going to lunches or movies or anything, just meeting to fuck without any intention to consider a committed relationship.
If what you want is to test out the waters before deciding to be in a relationship or not, that’s called casual dating.
Keep that in mind for the future. The way you phrase things is important when communicating and you need to make sure your words mean the same to others as they do to you.
then she should have let us do the testing when she demanded it. Granted, he should have demanded it long ago which makes me feel bad for the kid most of all.
She has always told the child he is her dad.
So 8 months and already had been cohabitating and pregnant? It kinda sounds like she needed space and you didn't give it to her. The only way to fix it is give space
While dating and living together, I would suggest you either split joint expenses evenly or directly in proportion to your incomes.
If you can't reach an agreement about this in a respectful manner you aren't cut out to live together
Tbh, I thought I figured that one out. This was the first time he showed this kind of behaviour within a year. That's why I was not sure if I'm over reacting here by feeling so betrayed. But I will do some more retrospectiv analytics once I'm back to being less emotional.
Thank you.
This is not sex related. Not a chance, as young as he is. He needs to see a doctor YESTERDAY. It could save his life.
This isn’t a 10 year marriage. They’re not even engaged to be married. There’s a huge difference between marriage and dating. If you overlook all the bad things bc you write them off as small that’s gonna come back to bite you in the ass. Y’all always tell women they should’ve paid attention to red flags then when they do they’re overreacting. There’s no winning with people like you. Soooo there’s nothing else for me to say here. I feel bad for whoever you treat like shit then just say “it’s a small thing don’t be mad!” Shitty asf tbh
Like what the fuck is there to love?
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Why is an alcohol based social event evidence that she's not the right partner for OP?
You will heal. I was married for 12 years and he cheated on me it was a definite punch in the gut. At the time I thought my life was over. I didn’t know how I was going to go on everyone would say YOULL BE OK, which is true but you don’t want to hear any of that when you’re heartbroken. My advise is to give your self time to mourn. This is the death of not just an 8 year relationship but the life you had built with someone you loved deeply. I found that treating it as a death helped me move on might not work for everyone but we’re all different and deal with things differently. It’s ok to be sad. It’s more than fine to cry. Just don’t let it consume you. You are already doing better than I ever was in your position by knowing your worth.
You… Put the house in both your names but the loan only in yours? Why did you do this to yourself.
It literally doesn't matter what we think, YOU GET TO DECIDE HOW THAT FELT, not us, and DEFINITELY not her. You said how it made you feel and she told you you were wrong?????? You dodged a bullet. You get to decide how someone breaking into your apartment, ignoring your feelings, and persisting in the face of a now feels, and you do NOT have to feel like it was 'romantic.' (BARF- her behavior was not romantic)
True and he has every reason to be too.
Wow, you nailed it.