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I can offer you a ray of hope, and a bit of strategy to go with it.
It's likely that his new GF's distrust is directed mainly towards HIM, not you. If so – while she may have taken a very hot line with your friend, it's just possible that she will listen to your appeal. While you can't very well PROVE that you and your friend have never had a tender moment, your friend group surely includes people who have known both of you for a long time, and can at least support your claim.
Easing her fears will likely turn out to be a project rather than a conversation, and I suggest that you plan accordingly. IMHO the decision whether to show resentment and hostility versus cultivating her goodwill is a no-brainer. The former will only help her separate you from your friend.
You may want to establish the friendship first, THEN talk to her about whether there are any conditions under which you can go back to having private dialogues with your friend. Along the way, show her a ton of sympathy for having been cheated on, and present yourself as one who despises cheaters as much as she. Perhaps as long as you're never alone together with your friend, she will relent.
I don't deny that your odds are only so-so, but you may be pleasantly surprised. There's at least a chance that the new GF will see value in turning to you as her confidant. After all, you have known her BF far longer than she, and he's been telling you HIS secrets. You could offer her a deal, in which she lets you reestablish private dialogues with your friend, on the understanding that you will tell her if your friend is cheating.
You may be playing a long game here. “He was never my lover, but he WAS my confidant” is a tough line for a distrustful GF to cross, and she may need more than 4 months with your friend before she can cross it. Patience and persistence will be your allies. Good luck.
Find the boyfriend tell her, you would want to know if you were in his place. He has the right to know
Very odd youd keep something very NSFW with an ex. Most people scrub their phones clean of their exes. If it was a regular picture i could see you coming back from this completely but based on the content idk man. If i was your girl id be thinking why is that the ONE thing he kept. Even if you “forgot” its very offputting that you didnt delete it after you broke up considering if it ever got accidentally sent to someone that is revenge porn. All i can say is give her time, suggest therapy if youre willing and actually care about this person. Her brain doesn't work the same as the average janes.
If you'd been dating long enough for a commitment to be logical (at least six months) and she still wouldn't commit you'd determine that you and she aren't a good match. But it's still very early in this relationship. Also your complaints seem more about a lack of sex than a lack of commitment. So figure out what your real issue is here. To most people a commitment is a promise that you won't date other people and that you're working toward being together forever. That's very different from having sex, which is something that can be done at any time with or without a commitment. Figure that out in your head but also know that if she's got medical issues that's probably not going to improve much. So if in the grand scheme you don't think she's capable of giving you the relationship you want you need to end this. Good luck.
Just go to her place. It can't be that far… There's other places you could meet also, like a car, restaurant, friends place, park, etc.
I specifically said they weren’t there.
Anyone who gets so drunk and out of control at a party should expect that some bad things could happen. She’s not responsible as an adult.
About 18 months.
I’m thinking the same. Part of it isn’t even about the money, it’s the principal of watching me work almost a month solid and then asking me for money, then 10 minutes later talking about the best interest rates for his money and how much he can make from saving right now.
Personally if my dad started dating someone with an age gap closer to me than him I would question it too. Specially at 13. I don’t know any 13 year olds who don’t have some type of attitude.
This is how the post is coming off to me as well. OP is looking too validate what he wants to hear.
You'd have to know the various tenant laws in the place where this is happening. In some jurisdictions simply living in a place for a period of time conveys certain rights. In others it wouldn't be a problem to move someone in with you then just ask them to leave. You might need to draft up a rental contract with this person making it clear that they're a tenant (meaning they can be evicted) and that any money they pay toward the mortgage is rent rather than a stake in the property. Probably worth talking to a lawyer about this.
I’m thinking that you’re not really sure if he’s serious about the relationship. He dumped you and then you guys are back together. Maybe he’s not indicating that he’s in it for the long term? Maybe you’re holding on to resentment for him dumping you the first time and maybe you’re feeling like the second choice?
I wouldn’t trust her to follow the treatment plan.
For some people, finding out that you took drugs is a dealbreaker, even if he never articulated it before. For someone with anxiety, it might be too much for him to handle and worry about.
“I would’ve given you a child but that’s not possible”
Holy shit, does he think that you can’t or won’t give him that child? Just because you had an abortion back then because of the situation you were in then compared to now does not mean you’d abort any and all pregnancies after the fact.
Whether you are keeping the baby or not, dumping him is something you need to do. He felt worse than you? Sheesh, he should get pregnant to know. Are you sure you want a weak whiny diva like him? He doesn’t even sound like a man.
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How many more times do you think until you’ve had enough?
Occam's razor for his behavior. If it is stressing you out this much to the point it is affecting most aspects of your life, no friendship is worth that.
I was in a fraction of a similar situation as yourself, but sadly I had to end the friendship to keep my sanity.
Lol nvm. No matter what I say here ppl will nitpick. We have used toys together for years (safely), cleaned and stored them correctly. I'm not trying to convince anyone of anything
You don’t have any idea how commenters utilize this concept. Love Language is a fancier way of describing needs in a relationship which are very important.
Also thank you for the comment!
The real issue isn’t the sweaty hairy stuff tbh, it’s that there are underlying issues in your relationship, which have affected your ability to be intimate with him. You could shave him bald and hose him off all you want, if the underlying relationship issues aren’t resolved it still won’t help your attraction to him.
Sometimes relationships have run their course, and end. It sounds like yours is mostly over. Best to pull the plug rather than subject both of you to six more miserable sexless months.
He seems like the opposite of fun. Or joy. You should move on and have someone by your side who enjoys being with you. No time to waste here
I disagree, if they encouraged it and told their partner how into it they’d be I think that person bares the blame. It’s confusing to have your partner tell you “this is what would turn me on” so you give it a chance and suddenly they’re not into it. They just tried to do what they said would turn them on, it’s kind of odd to say they have blame in that situation if they were doing exactly what they were told. It’s like someone asking for a cake, so you make them a cake and suddenly they go “I fucking hate cake”. It’s fine that they hate cake, but how could the baker magically predict they wouldn’t actually like what they asked for?
Understanding is not the same as condoning. People who can't make that distinction can be PITA, just because I understand the reasons some people commit terrorist attacks doesn't mean I think it's okay for them to do it.
IMO dad is on the wrong here, but I can understand him getting upset as he is emotionally involved in the question.
“because she says they've been friends for 10 years”
One of the most important life lessons I've learnt is that it DOES NOT matter how long you've known someone. I had a friend who I knew since early childhood and it turned into a very toxic friendship. Infact, during that friendship, alot of bad things happened and she ended up doing something pretty unforgivable in my eyes.
Yet someone I have known for 4 years now has been an incredible friend. They drove me 2 hours to my parents house and stayed with me for the weekend when I was having a huge depressive episode.
Never hang on to friendships just because of how you know them or how long you have known them. If they are toxic and make you unhappy, you should walk away.
You don't need to just tolerate this. Film her then show it to her. You have every right to give her an ultimatum. Hopefully the video will be a wake-up call.
You're the friend.
I thought freedom of speech and opinion was lawful in the USA?
Is there any reason you can't just say no? You have enough reason. You don't even have to explain why. It's your house.
I did not get why so many people were calling you the AH. Your update is awesome and sad. I hope you figure things out but don't need to forgive your parents to move on and be great.
the thing is, when you adopt a dog, you always know that dog isn't going to live! a long life. Your brother knows this. The fact that dogs have short lives is sad and unfortunate, but your brother wants to spend time with the dog he loves while he can. It's not up to you or your husband to interfere on his relationship with his dog. Your brother will deal with the loss of the dog when the time comes. it probably won't be easy for him, but it's a part of life he has chosen to accept being a dog owner. If you care about him like you say you do, just let him on-line his life with the dog he loves however he sees fit. You're worrying too much about him. let him live!.
If her thoughts around something are giving her this degree of stress, then she needs to work on that, not try to legislate away any potential stressors.
No STD and no desire to cheat in the future? Don't tell.
The truth sometimes will only cause pain. She'll not respect you, she'll worry you'll cheat in the future, etc.
And before that he says
I want to blame the wine bug that's not fair
Yeah, your gf is totally wrong and needs to let it go. She, I'm guessing either walked in in the middle of your Mom's conversation, or overheard decided it was about her based on nothing.
She doesn't get to withhold your kids because of a conversation that wasn't even about her. Your Mom did nothing wrong and doesn't deserve to be treated like this.
A sex therapist, have you discussed that with him ?
To know that your gf would've probably gone for your bestie, if he only lasted longer.
OP knows this and still “forgave” his girl, which is now eating him from within. He needs therapy too, but for completely different things.
There's no indication at all that he wants his ex back.
Try lying on the edge of the bed(legs off) facing right on your left side. Put your right leg on his right shoulder. Curl your left leg up to your chest.
He'll penitrate you while he's standing. You may need to scootch to the end of the bed.
Once he's inside you, try moving your right leg to his left shoulder and try moving your left leg around on the bed.
Basically, you are looking for sweet spots. You'll have to experiment.
Why is your wife not considered your best friend? You married her, you made children with her, dude, why are you not getting a babysitter and taking your wife to the museum for lunch?
Tell him it’s unattractive and you want him to advocate for his freedom or move out
Doesn’t fucking matter if he invaded her privacy or not, it’s not his fault she cheated.
That is SO fucking stupid. You are going to be single for a long time doing this shit
Don’t break up with him just because you feel you aren’t good enough. I am sure he thinks you are plenty good. Talk to him about it and be very honest about the expectations he can have from you at this point and time. If he is willing to work through it then maybe it can be worth it?
But if you feel you need time to focus on yourself and you don’t have the energy to put into a relationship then that is a valid reason to break up.
Do what you think is best for you, but don’t think you know what is best for him before you talk to him about it first.
Take all the time you need to grow as a person and trust me you will feel better and more confident one day
Him and his friends are POS, they know he had a wife and baby at home.
I'd rather raise my baby alone and show them my worth and you ain't no push over, staying for a child ruins them and any future relationships they have in the future.
They learn about love and relationships through us, what will you and that POS show them.
That this is ok.
Tell him he is no longer welcome in the house, and if he doesn't leave you will call the police.. tell them tour frightened for your safety as he was threatening his little side girl, have them call her for clarification.
Throw him out and have your mom or sister or friend take the baby to see him so you don't have to, and file for divorce, get tested ASAP.
Also if any of those friends have wifes ir gfs, I would also inform them that they knew your husband was having an affair and even met her, says alot about who they are and what they are all willing to accept.
You can do this alone.
My SIL stayed with a POS for 17 years, he dipped his dick in anything, ex's her friends, work colleagues the lot and she stayed 'for the kids' thinking it would be easier on her and them. It had the opposite effect.
There all now in there late 20s early 30s and none have had a serious relationship and if they even date, its toxic and cheating and lots of back and forth,
Because they watched there parents growing up and thought this is how you love, this is what a healthy relationship looks like, and it's not.
Be rid of him honey.
This is not an accident. You need to cut your losses and leave
Just a little whoop
So she threw a tantrum over an overpriced purse? That ain’t love, that’s gold digging, drop her like a hot potato.
He’s manipulating you into being his affair partner. He doesn’t really like you, and you’re not going to have a real relationship with him. He’s just going to use you for sex and then dump you when he loses interest. Nothing good can come if this, even if you like the attention.
“sports are dumb and a waste of time”
“I refuse to be around your family because I only care about making relationships with people that agree with my views on the world”
Just some examples of things she has said.
I don't think the signs can get any more clearer. The universe is literally yelling at you to leave this guy.
And stop taking him back.
He's a piece of shit.
Lmaoo
This is not the one.
This sounds like your gf was drugged and raped. I think you need to do some research on how violating that can be…and perhaps look into fight, flight and freeze. She is in a dangerous and unpredictable situation when she wakes up, she doesn't know where she is, and she's aware she was likely raped based on the physical pain she's in. If this is difficult for you, imagine how she feels (maybe think about it from the perspective of how you would feel if you were drugged at a bar and woke up in a strange place with a man much larger and stronger than you and a sore butt). Have some compassion.
As a male, I have shared my eating utensils with literally all of my friends male and female. I don’t know a single dude personally that would get upset with something so dumb unless it’s like a germ issue which then they wouldn’t share with anyone. The man sound immature and needs to get over himself. I’d be sure to set health boundaries with what you are ok with and if he can not respect that then bye bye Mr. Insecure.
So she knew you were gonna sign the lease and still signed with her friend? Yea I'd be single so I could figure out how to afford this rent.
If she watched you sign that lease knowing she had another place already…..THATS TRASH
Sounds like maybe you have some sort of resentment towards your current boyfriend. Have you tried talking to him about the way he is acting towards you? Have you both worked on the relationship and communicated what is working and what isn’t? Is he Is he seeking therapy for his mental health? I would have a serious conversation with basically everything you said in this post about him to him.
As for the other guy, I think you are fantasizing about the life you could have with him. It’s not really fair to your current boyfriend but I get the relationship is falling apart. If you do go after this other relationship, who’s to say it won’t be better? What if this new guy is all in your head of what you think he is.. What if he doesn’t have feelings for you back?
Right? I feel like I’m pretty easy going but sharing a hotel ROOM with another non relative WOMAN!?!? Hello!?!?! In what world is that appropriate!!
The fuck I can’t. Ask me how I know.
Very good point, thanks for pointing this out. I was also referring to a past version of myself, so I thought it might be relevant to use that language
Seriously, you are the most immature person on here by miles! 'Me saying it was an accident means it was an accident'! Ok, so me saying I'm a millionaire means I'm a millionaire! To quote Forrest Gump 'stupid is as stupid does.' Your husband has been a saint to put up with this level of stupidity for so long.
You mean move from feelings right? I want to have our platonic friendship back and I think we can since my feelings for her we not extremely sexual.
Run away.
So finish with her
I'm fine with a lot of stuff if I'm told about it upfront. Lying to me because you can't own your shit is an instant breakup for me.
yeah communication is one issue I think it is here, thanks for highlighting:)
I moved out when I was 34 with $150k saved and we paid for our house outright between me and my wife. It’s fine to live! at home
I moved out when I was 34 with $150k saved and we paid for our house outright between me and my wife. It’s fine to live! at home
I moved out when I was 34 with $150k saved and we paid for our house outright between me and my wife. It’s fine to live! at home
Because they are afraid to be alone. It’s sucks that so many people are their own silver medal
I will suggest this today! He's almost always willing to try.
Thank you so much! You give great advice!
Are you married?
Same
He was a creep at “he put his hand on my knee” and everything after that just proved it further.
I didn’t talk about my thought process and she didn’t offer up a way to break the news to my friend. We just never talked about it again. Obviously that’s both of our faults but idk where that leaves me specifically other than in a shitty spot.
No dude, it's not her fault. This is all on you. Why on earth do you think it's her responsibility to say no to your friend for you?? Because that's exactly what you're asking. You expect her to write you a fucking script and give you a play-by-play because you're so spineless that you can't – or refuse to – take responsibility for your own decisions and speak for yourself. It's ridiculous! How does “I would need to figure out how to tell my friend I’m not coming” translate to “she didn’t offer up a way to break the news to my friend”?? You want everyone else to make your decisions for you and then you want everyone else to communicate those decisions for you as well. Where are you in this?
“Oh, we just never talked about it again” Gee, do you think that's because you didn't bring it up again?? How are you just letting this slide over and over again for months on end and then blaming it on her. This is not her decision to make, it's yours. Make it. Are you going with her or not? Buck up, make the decision and accept responsibility for it. This is ridiculously infuriating of you. The longer you wait, the more you're going to piss everyone off and fuck them over. Both of these events are paying good money for a seat and a plate for you and you're wasting it. That's another person they could've had at their event but instead, it's minimum $30+ cash right in the trash. Stop being an ass. And fyi? This:
“I’m leaning towards going with you but let’s talk about it together. I would need to figure out how to tell my friend I’m not coming.”
Sounds a lot like a 'Yes, but..' so essentially a yes. I wouldn't be surprised if that's how she took it. You didn't say “I would need to figure out how to tell him if I decide not to go”. You said “how to tell him I'm not coming” which she almost certainly heard as you're not going. Mostly because that's pretty much what you said*!
Dang guy. Just … grow a spine.
Does this even count as a fetish? This is the next closest thing to saying “women in sundresses is my fetish”. It’s not a fetish, it’s both normal and probably basically anyone can agree.
And don’t say “seeing a girl in puffer drives me crazy”, say that you find her sexy in a puffer.
Side note: Winter must be a true wonderland for you.
She was playing both of you. Do you think he knows about you?
Oh, I understand. Either way thanks for the advice. I was going to go to therapy either way and I wanted to “vent” a bit lol
Ah I wish I could get away with that excuse but it’s not gonna be that small of a group and some other friends will have +1s, plus it’s too far for just 1 night. Totally agree I just need to bite the bullet and talk to her, and also do what’s best for me at this time even though I care about her feelings.
at least 3 kids actually, 1 with this new guy. yikes
Stop being nice to these dirty ass men who can’t wash their genitals BULLY HIM GIRL
that you said you were jealous of his gold chain and nice clothing, because I’m trying to provide for both of us, I’m trying to work hot so we can both eventually have those things. It felt like you were telling me that you wish that I had a thick gold chain, that my shirts aren’t as nice as his, that you wish that I had shirts like his. And you touching a 14 year old kid’s gold chain, is extremely sexual.”
I think he's pushing his insecurities onto you. Seems to me like he feels threatened because he can't afford these things.
Your BF sounds really childish. Maybe he's still stuck in 9th grade.
I recommend /r/personalfinance and /r/legaladvice
You’ll have to decide if him and the child are worth the effort to fix your part of it. He has to be willing to fix his part. Those are two things only you guys can decide to take on.
CALL THE FUCKING POLICE!
Thank you ☺️
The first boundary he needed to set was that you can go no-contact. The fact that you felt like you had to see his family says a lot. If he wanted to see his family, that is one thing, but it’s another to force you to attend as well. That actually might have helped him start setting other boundaries too, maybe. OP, I’m so sorry you went through this.
Thats a good idea, I'll bring it up to him but I am worried he will blow it off too because he is worried about making a fortune and having half of it taken through a seperation.
Friendship is a two way street and unfortunately in life we often come across people who constantly have dramas and want our support but the moment something is going on in your life they don’t want to know about it
Someone like this is not a true friend, is selfish and it’s all about her
Time to accept the friendship is over and walk away
Time to find someone new….. do the hot (but right) thing
You just have to tell yourself oh well while you sip some tea. My man is going to Cancun in two weeks. The thought of him taking peeks at bikini girls enrages me. But hey I gotta sip my tea and tell myself oh well. I love my boyfriend but he is a man. Men like to glance. Don't take it personally. Its biological mostly. Life is too short and precious to be stressed out all the time with jealousy and envy. It's also bad for your health. I am so attracted to my man. I notice him glance at women here and there but he is so good to me and loving and affectionate. He is all about me. He makes me feel special and he prioritizes me. So I tell myself that when he takes a glance and I feel hurt. He loves me not the other pretty girls he notices.
You're not even married a year? And he's already flirting with the idea of cheating if not actually cheating? I don't know how you found out but he certainly didn't hide it, he put himself out there publicly where any of your family or friends could see. You haven't even made it to your first wedding anniversary and he's seeking out other women. I don't see how this is worth salvaging.
Talk to a therapist to sort out your emotional state and feelings and leave him. If any one else’s opinion about his physical appearance matters more than yours then you shouldn’t even be in the picture
that was sarcastic she's gonna steal him.
I dated a guy like that in college. He lived around the corner from the college, I lived half an hour away. Plus as a woman it took me a lot longer to get ready than him. He was always 30+ minutes late.
We ended up breaking up because I was sick and tired of being somewhere on time and wondering when (or if) he'd ever show up.
I can see how you would think that, but for many people thats not the case in practice. Ill throw away an entire weekend to help any of my friends with anything, but am often 15-30 minutes late if we all meet for drinks or something.
It helps these days that im older, more mature, and (usually) properly medicated, but even I still struggle and not everybodys as fortunate as me.
But who knows maybe this woman is just a piece of shit but i like to give people the benefit of the doubt.
This would be hard to come back from. He won’t want to set boundaries with her especially if he like her attention. He absolutely does not respect you. Do you live! together? Pack his things and put them at the door or you leave and ghost him. Horrible. This attitude will seep into the parts of your relationship. He sees it hurts you but doesn’t care. That’s just cruel
Understandable. Nothing you can do for now but stay strong and hang on!
Feel free to vent thru people like us here in reddit if it helps.
That poor girl. She probably sees him as a father figure and has no idea what his true feelings are. He should be ashamed of himself. Gross.
I want to reply to her many messages to me the last month I was in no contact by saying “you’re dead to me”.
I think, not replying at all and staying NC will send the exact same message to her.
Keep the photos of you ditching the wedding ring and throwing the wedding dress in the trash for future reference. Just in case.
However, think of it this way: if she cheated on you and didn’t care that she got pregnant with the affair partner(s), then likely she’s not going to care much whether you throw the wedding dress in the trash or not.
Go out. Live! your life the best you can. Make lots of friends. Learn new hobby. Meet new people. That would be the best revenge, if that’s what you are looking for.
Maybe he feels your feelings might get hurt if he expresses himself, even if a person says they can handle it and mean it at the moment, the moment after words they're feeling change and they get hurt.
Im a real person asshole. He’s the only one who has ever been there for me. I’m asking for real advice. I guess I’m a loser too. Thank you for making my morning that much more worse.
While no relationship can stay pure and bliss, we must never forget that some things do irreparable damage…
While no relationship can stay pure and bliss, we must never forget that some things do irreparable damage…
This guy sucks and you sound like you have your stuff together.
You’ve way over complicated this with how you’ve split your bills.
Sit down and add up every joint bill you have, then split that down the middle 50/50. None of this he pays for X you pay for Y.
Per your estimates, have you paid less overall? It’s not clear because you said he stopped paying some for 8 months but was that to “even things out”?
Shoot your shot. Tell him where you met and acknowledge you feel a but “awkward” but you wanted to say hi and see if he wants to chat some time. The worse thing he can do is say no or ignore you. And if he says anything rude, then you know you dodged a bullet.
Well that’s maybe true but she is also still willing to fight for this relationship. And yes I hope for the best and prepare for the worst I told her I understand that I hurt her feelings. I actually do, I also explained that I am currently not the person I want to be. Maybe I forgot to mention that i have a history with depressions and ADHD which makes my life and feelings rather complicated. This is no excuse for being grumpy in the weekends to her and the kids.
My boundary would be to leave his ass.
When you said 2 months I felt a twinge in my stomach…1 year I felt heart palpitations. I really really would be upset at the prospect of in laws being in my space for that long.
I think you need to ask your partner why the time frame would change? I think expectations being laid out up front would be much more amicable. I would want the consideration of knowing the visit end date.
The ENTIRE POINT of having a partner is to have someone who will love you and support you through hot times. It's not just about sex, and who's making dinner tonight.
Your almost 40yr old boyfriend is so incredibly selfish, that while you are having a week from hell, he has made it all about himself. He is playing the victim, and being horribly manipulative. He should be doing everything in his power to make your life easier right now, and stepping up as your support system. Instead he yells at you, calls you horrible things, and takes a swing at you!
Everything he said is utter crap. It's not self defence to be an asshole to you when you are feeling sad and stressed out. It is absolutely time to end this. He doesn't respect you, doesn't support you, and he sure as shit doesn't love you. I seriously thought you were talking about a teenager, then when I went back to read his age, was completely shocked. His behaviour is not something that can change at this late stage. He's a straight up asshole, and that's who he is going to be forever. The way he talks is how abusers talk. Never take accountability, always blame the real victim. The whole “look what you made me do” thing is the biggest warning sign that you need to get the hell away from him asap.
You deserve a trillion times better. And I'm so so sorry you are having such a terrible week. What an awful time for you. Sending great big hugs xo
You are coming off as disingenuous cuz you keep trying to compare penis enlargement to breast enhancement like it's similar at all. The risk and dangers are not the same so bringing it up and pretending like they are is very disingenuous. But I think The Simple Solution overall would be to just have a conversation with your girlfriend and ask what she wants without pressuring her manipulating her. Why not just do that?
Woooowwwwww. And he is 32? Drop that dead weight girl. Trust me you will feel much better after a little while. It’s not easy at first emotionally but the sense of freedom you will feel is unrivaled. My daughters father was a total f up. I had a dream one night that I was finally rid of him and I felt so Much better. Then I woke up. And he was still in the bed with me. Crushing disappointment. Moral of the story. We don’t shack up with someone so we gain another child. We want a life PARTNER. Someone who helps you be a better person. And likewise. Someone you can build something with. Not a freaken albatross around your neck making every little step feel like hiking Kilimanjaro.