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Date: October 13, 2022
Kentuckypride1991, 31 y.o.
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A promise ring is not an engagement ring, but it does sound like he's expecting to marry you eventually. If you want to experience other people/things, you're going to have to make moves to make that happen. Why online together and have a cat if you're not interested in the long term?
If she’s explicit with your “friend” then you divorce her and go permanent no contact with both of them.
She’s been raped three times? Each instance occurring in the exact same situation with the same people? Yeah dude what are you trying to do here exactly?
Could be, that’s a good association!
Is there an element to which you find yourself with so little faith in the people around you that you assume everyone’s duties asap instead of just letting them go through the anxiety of needing to figure things out for themselves?
Leave, there’s your obvious answer.
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Sounds like homosexual to me
I feel like I’d be a horrible person if I did so now knowing she may be interested in him.
I mean, he clearly is gay though. Or maybe bi but idk to me this reads in the closet gay guy.
This is some ?? shit. Run.
Yeah super illegal. Do not buy a gun for someone else that can’t legally own one.
Those are valid concerns to end the relationship. I got hives just reading about it.
Your husband like young girls, OP, check his hot drives
OP do you think you and your girlfriend are compatible in any way? You don’t have similar interests or hobbies, you don’t sleep in the same bed, she called you a burden in your own home. She’s using you for stability. You were an easy way to move to the UK and this way, she doesn’t need to look for housing and find that herself. She’s 10 years younger than you. She does not love you. You were an opportunity for her and she took it.
When were you last happy and what changed it?
She can’t handle being your friend. The history between you two makes having a healthy and lasting friendship extremely difficult, if not impossible.
She hasn’t fully grieved the loss of the relationship, and everytime you see her – you reset some progress.
She’s trying not to get hurt. She told you to stop messaging her, and yet you didn’t respect that. She told you she wanted to be left alone – and yet you you ambushed her at work.
Intentionally or not, your actions are that of an asshole.
She doesn’t want a friendship with you. She wants an version of you that can commit to a romantic relationship.
Not everyone can be friends with an ex. It’s part of the gamble. But if a friendship is meant to be, leave her alone and maybe she’ll come to you when she’s ready. Or maybe she’ll never be ready – and you have to learn to be okay with that too.
Then why don't all of you move there and rent the property you own? Or have her parents spend more time where you online?
I chose to forgive her
Everyone pack it up. OP can't be helped.
Good luck with your cheater.
That woman is not a therapist. Stop calling her that and stop allowing your bf to call her that.
This, both OP and wife need to communicate. Seems like both have issues and I feel like if the wife responded as OP indicated, that's a cause for concern for some reason we wont likely ever know. Spouses should be able to communicate and not over react. For OP, I feel a tad sorry because gut feelings end up always being a hind site is 20/20 deal far too often.
One thing that may not be as evident to most of the posters here and what we don't know is what the wife is like when drinking. Alcohol makes men and women utterly stupid and I have worked in places where mass consumption has led to some pretty idiotic moments at company events.
I think there is way more to this story that OP didn't list, from wife's behavior down to the OP dealing with anxiety issues from things changing beyond OP's control (I say this as a male who deals with near extreme anxiety and its taken me years and years to curb “gut” feelings with my spouse) Heavy Anxiety is no joke and so many people don't often take this into account (spouses). Not absolving OP due to that but I feel like the wife may have also missed the mark by not asking OP questions about it.
I think you are getting too hung up on the fact that her friends are guys.
Using the grocery shopping as an example, you admit that you feel like it is something that only couples or girlfriends should do. Grocery shopping is something that *friends* can do, gender shouldn't matter. If the activity that she does wouldn't bother you if it was a girl, then it shouldn't bother you if it was a guy?
You admit that she connects better with guys, and doesn't relate to girly stuff. So ask yourself, what position are you putting her in if you expect her to only be friends with girls, because you are uncomfortable with her being friends with guys? She will either have no friends & no social life, or you will expect her to be friends with people she struggles to connect with & has little in common with. And as someone who has been in that situation, it f*cking sucks.
The bigger problem is that she seems to prioritise her friendships over her relationship with you. It is important to maintain friendships outside of a relationship so I don't think she is wrong for doing that. It could be that you are creating this problem by having issues with her friendships.
So, you could try letting your issues go, and see if that helps. And if it doesn't then you break up, because it means that she doesn't care about you.
He might have said this to tell you that you are special and the other girl isn't. Maybe he sensed some insecurity and told you this to reassure you. Seems like it backfired, though.
???? this can’t be real! Soooo…you’re her option? Her fall back in case? Her 10 at the bottom of the totem pole of importance? Gosh! You’re truly a pathetic simp to keep being ok with being placed on a back burner while she looks for the person she’s meant to be with…