Slippery slope is not a fallacy. Instead of facing her issues head on you indulged her complexes, and she got confident in her demands. You should have never hidden convos with other girls, if anything you tell her she is free to read them, but you will not stop tslking with them (assuming nithng flirty or otherwise inappropriate was said).
If you give in, it will not be the last of it. Reject her ultimatum, explain you are willing to be completely transparent with her, but will not cut your female friends off anymore (well, of course unless they express romantic feelings for you, or you start developing some for them).
It is not that she is worth losing your relationship over, cause she is not. You just shouldn't be with someone, who does not trust you and throw delusional ultimatums at you.
Maybe this is unpopular opinion and I'll get downvoted into oblivion but why shouldn't you be upset about this? Of course nobody owes anyone anything they don't want to do in the bedroom but I think it's fair to say a good partner should want their partner to enjoy sex with them. If you had the big O before him and then just rolled over do you think he'd feel hunky dory about it? Probably not.
There is this ridiculous standard that still exists in cis-hetero relationships that of course the cis-male gets to cum and the cis-woman cumming is more a bonus and frankly I'm tired of it. We should all be tired of it. There's really no good excuse to not at least trying to help your partner finish.
it is rape.
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Slippery slope is not a fallacy. Instead of facing her issues head on you indulged her complexes, and she got confident in her demands. You should have never hidden convos with other girls, if anything you tell her she is free to read them, but you will not stop tslking with them (assuming nithng flirty or otherwise inappropriate was said).
If you give in, it will not be the last of it. Reject her ultimatum, explain you are willing to be completely transparent with her, but will not cut your female friends off anymore (well, of course unless they express romantic feelings for you, or you start developing some for them).
It is not that she is worth losing your relationship over, cause she is not. You just shouldn't be with someone, who does not trust you and throw delusional ultimatums at you.
Maybe this is unpopular opinion and I'll get downvoted into oblivion but why shouldn't you be upset about this? Of course nobody owes anyone anything they don't want to do in the bedroom but I think it's fair to say a good partner should want their partner to enjoy sex with them. If you had the big O before him and then just rolled over do you think he'd feel hunky dory about it? Probably not.
There is this ridiculous standard that still exists in cis-hetero relationships that of course the cis-male gets to cum and the cis-woman cumming is more a bonus and frankly I'm tired of it. We should all be tired of it. There's really no good excuse to not at least trying to help your partner finish.