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Lara, 34 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
Lara, 34 y.o.
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She does not respect you.
Thanks, I think this was a more helpful response than all of the “get her a puppy” suggestions. To be fair, I’d be fine with a puppy, but I don’t think that’ll help the situation.
Being the only one left in the dark while everyone around you knows, because they all know you will act differently if you knew and they'd prefer you just to remain kind of the fool… That was always the issue for me in these kind of situations.
Where did she work before that?
It’s not childish for you to bring any of this up. How much longer is she going to share a bed with him? This kid is in puberty and he should be sleeping in his own bed. I’m not a psychologist so what do I know, but a 13 year old who probably wakes up with a morning wood or the results of a wet dream shouldn’t be waking up next to his mother; seems like it could cause confusion, developmental issues, and sexual dysfunction since he’s going through puberty. Does the son also take on “man of the house” type of role like a substitute husband?
You should talk to her about all of this if your relationship is “serious.” If you’re “serious” and you have gone on vacations all together then you should be able to sleep over the house after almost a year together. Are you expected to wait until the kid moves out? Or will he be staying local after high school and still be living w/ mom and sleeping in her bed?
Yeah, I bet it's a tactic, but I can't risk her life. Leaving and telling her mom (she would be the best option) would probably be effective (and a valuable lesson for her), but it's also very radical, would kinda upset her entire family, and would make our relationship kind of unsalvageable, which I would too prefer to avoid, in case she gets help and returns to sanity. I'll keep this in mind anyway
Have you ever possibly considered … just getting a better partner?!!!!!! Is this the last man in the world?!!!!
But seriously, please write down what your nonnegotiables in a relationship are and STICK by them. Seems to me like you have some (such as no cheating) but don’t abide by them and get yourself in the same mess.
Nah I think he should book her and her friends a nice mid wrestling pit. That's nice and dirty, and a great activity for a group.
If you're actually willing to try, for yourself, look for trainer plugs. Never ever try to just go for it. Tearing, bruising, and extreme discomfort happen, which turn most people off. Then, there's foreplay to lead up. The trainer plugs vary in size, so you can gently and gradually accommodate more. The key factor is if YOU want to try. For YOU. If you're doing it to keep him happy, you'll never be able to relax and enjoy it. You need trust, training, and tons of lubrication, or you'll hate it and end up resenting him for it.
I'm really sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts. Good luck, and thank you for your service.
You might want to consider changing anti depressants. Wellbutrin is a non SSRI medication that tends to have few to no sexual side effects.
I will say this when he called you and told you while you were away that he was suspecting you were hooking up with other people and that’s why he ghosted you that’s red flag 1. And also a lie. He was on tinder and sleeping with other people cause you weren’t around.
Red flag 2 he’s 30
Red flag 3 and probably the biggest red flag out there he swore on his daughters life. Full stop absolutely no, nope. That is disgusting and egregious.
Red flag 4 his explanation for his Reddit comments/posts.
The list can go on. You are a strong person and you don’t need to repeat the relationship your parents have and forgive a cheater. Because honestly I whole heartedly agree that the definition of cheating is anything you can’t do in front of your partner. In your case you both made it clear (obviously he lied about that) that you guys were not seeing other people or hooking up with other people and building a foundation for a romantic relationship so yes it is cheating.
He likely knew about the pregnancy beforehand and hid it and only when he got the CD paperwork could he no longer hide it. And the fact he’s willing to neglect a child for his poor choices is a big ass bright and shiny red flag. The silver lining is you are 23 and this relationship is young. This is a chance to learn and see that you deserve honesty, respect and a safe place with your partner and he does not provide that. Walk away with your dignity and your head held high. You got this.
My sons been delayed since birth but I never once thought family members would care. It’s weird that that’s what she’s concerned about. It really speaks to her as a person but you should never let her or anyone else make you feel less than as a mother.