Tell him. You aren't insecure or jealous to be very taken aback by the fact that his female friend is testing the waters, more than once, for at least a threesome/polyam relationship and has openly said that she talked to him about having sex with him, and he responded in a not-negative fashion. I mean, if she “asked him a question” about sex & he responded, he already knows about this…right? His response wasn't extremely trustworthy…right? You could also tell her “hey, knock it off with the sex talk. it's really weird and feels like you're fishing for a sexual relationship” Her: I'm just joking You: Jokes are funny. This feels like you're jokingon the square, and i want you to stop.
Lol. Make up your mind, Op.
It was a “couples ring” it was A ring, it was an “engagement” ring!
Tell him. You aren't insecure or jealous to be very taken aback by the fact that his female friend is testing the waters, more than once, for at least a threesome/polyam relationship and has openly said that she talked to him about having sex with him, and he responded in a not-negative fashion. I mean, if she “asked him a question” about sex & he responded, he already knows about this…right? His response wasn't extremely trustworthy…right? You could also tell her “hey, knock it off with the sex talk. it's really weird and feels like you're fishing for a sexual relationship” Her: I'm just joking You: Jokes are funny. This feels like you're jokingon the square, and i want you to stop.
I don’t think it’s necessarily something you need to be ashamed by or feel the need to hide, people have different sex drives.
But it also depends on frequency. How many times a day/week do you masterbate? How many times a day/week do you and your partner become intimate?
Masterbating excessively is probably not healthy, for your body or your mental health.