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“i’m fine — i’m fine” ?
“Do you understand that there's no set of exercises I can do to gain height?”
Make it up to him? No no… no… do you not see the horrific red flags here? You’re just gonna let this man abuse your cat? Can you really see a future with a cat abuser?
What are you looking for, dating wise? A relationship with long term potential, with someone compatible, smart, reliable and into you? Cos that's not this guy.
If instead you're looking to get messed around by someone who wants to have sex a few times, when it suits him and who lives an hour and a half away, bingo!
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I'm talking about using your mother for free dog sitting and not even sending enough food for the stay.
You should be giving her a lovely gift every time she looks after your dog and sending more than enough supplies.
Your boyfriend is a terrible person. Break up with him.
It is better to be single than having to drag a giant stinking pile of trash around with you.
Yeah I hate how he acted during this time, but if it makes you feel any better, I did throw up a banana all over the passenger's side of his car on the way to the clinic
No he doesn't. He hasn't lost his job, he's job has periods of busy which causes high stress but then periods where it slows down resulting in not as much stress.. He has lost his father this year, but the issue was around before he's father passed, & also why I just gave him space to somewhat work through everything these past few months.
Why is your relationship with people you’ve sexted in the past more important than your boyfriends feelings and your relationship with your boyfriend? Do you not have close friends with whom you haven’t traded nudes?
I would be uncomfortable if my partner kept in close contact with people he had traded nudes with. It’s not something I would like, and short of distancing himself from those people I’m not sure how I would get over it and it seems your bf is the same.
It’s a level of intimacy that some people are not comfortable with.
You have to decide if you want to continue your relationship with these people knowing that it makes your boyfriend upset/uncomfortable.
alternate theory about the birth control pill:
She thought about having sex with you and it reminded her to take her pill lol
Untrue all the way around. /sigh
Everything has been said, multiple times.\
EDIT: She's supposed to love me too, ya know
Falling out of love is a serious problem.
The first thing to do is to sit yourself down somewhere quiet, where you have a little time to think. Try to find a space where you won’t be interrupted by the kids or him, or anything else.
Make a list of the reasons that you fell in love with this man. Literally write them down. It doesn’t matter if the reasons are fair or proper or deep. You might have loved his blue eyes, or the fact that he was a good provider – it doesn’t matter. Only you will see this list. Be honest with yourself.
Once you’ve done this, have a look at that list. How much of that stuff is still true?
He’s an addict. That’s a straight-up fact, based on your post. He’s perpetually unemployed. He allows you to take most of the load in your household. These things he is not willing to change.
What is left that you fell in love with? Are those things enough to make you stay?
If they are not – and I suspect that they will not be – then it’s time to leave. You didn’t “fall out” of love. He changed.
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG
Leave him though. He’ll destroy you if you let him
thank you so much i really appreciate it! he’s already blocked me everywhere but i do have some of his belongings that i’ll just throw away
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This is fake. 10 days ago you said you need to go to therapy. Three days later you’re in therapy already? Doesn’t seem plausible, especially around the holidays.
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Thanks for your response. I have been thinking long and hot and I just simply do not know how to handle things when I’m upset. My first instinct is to escape the situation. I have contacted all the therapist in my area hopefully someone will be able to give me more tools in order to not react poorly.
This person is being vile. I promise you he is only worth blocking.
Very misleading title.
Try this: “My bf is an absolute dick”.
This is nowhere near safe or healthy. You know that right?
Run. Do not look back. Block her everything.
Unless you want a boob job for you don't do it. Don't ever have a procedure done because a guy wants yiu to. Even if they offer to pay. Also if you have a boob job yiu may not be able to breastfeed and implants font last forever and can cause problems. Also big boobs cause back pain so depending on how big he wants them yiu may not like that either. He doesn't love you no matter what. If you don't get it doen he will likely not liek it at all. If you were perfect he'd never have brought it up. For the records I mean perfect in his eyes because the size of boobs has nothign to do with whether or not your body is perfect or not. And liek someone else said will it stop after a boob job or will he want you to do botox etc. What happens after yiu get pregnant and your body changes? I'd dump him and fins a man who actually appreciates yiu for the person you are and the body you have. This guy cares about physical appearance too much..
Why isn’t she invited? I’m confused.
If she decides to stick around, why not tell her you‘d be ready to pay for what you took from him but you won’t be blackmailed? See what she thinks. Her brother isn’t innocent in all this and he definitely stopped being the victim when he tried to blackmail you. She may not even want him to get extra cash the minute she finds out he is (or was) a dealer. It’s likely she will need time to process all that.
Ask his mom if hes been staying there 3 nights a week, bet she didnt know at all….. hes a pos to do this to u both
I´m in your mid-upper age range. I wouldn´t go for you just because of the different life experiences. I want smth serious, a partner that I can meet on equal footing. I´d feel or fear that I´d feel that I can´t connect with you on deeper levels. You might wanna go party till 5AM and do the stuff I did years ago. I´d feel that I can´t keep up with your assumed lifestyle and I doubt you want to settle at your age.
My age range is 28-35
My mother did the same. Very manipulative, and years later she's ended up with a family that hardly talks to her because of how she handled the situation.
Expected everyone to run to come and “save” her, and would criticise any contact people had with my father.
Narcissistic behaviour
Honestly. You seem like an empathetic compassionate person. If you go into everything with that empathy and compassion I don't think you have anything to worry about. Your doing great
Thank you!
I agree. That’s what I’ve been thinking as well
I went in thinking you were heartless. Then read on and now think you're being too kind.
I'd break it off. His brother has obvious issues. That his brother causes all these issues, and your fiancé is willing to postpone the wedding and waste all that money? Nah.
This will never end, obviously. If he's willing to postpone your wedding, there's not much he won't put on the back burner.
Your future brother in law can take hospital trips the day before your wedding but can’t go to the doctor and get his own script or swing by a pharmacy and get his own melatonin? Your fiancé is enabling this and his brother knows it.
Jesus. Why didn't you drop all this info in the post to begin with?
Why the hell are you even with this person? Dating them sounds like being in hell. I'm not trying to be rude at all when I say this: Time to grow a pair and dump her. Don't you have any self-respect? You deserve better than this.
If he is suggesting sleeping with other people, that's an open relationship. If you don't want it, tell him that. If he doesn't agree, then its time to break up, you aren't compatible. Which, if he's not paying attention to you, you should probably do anyway. Sleeping with others won't fix it.
OP, can you tell us one positive thing about this guy? Or tell us at least one way in which he enriches your life in a meaningful way? Because from the sounds of it, he's just dragging you down. And if you can't think of an answer to my question, that should tell you a lot about him and about your relationship. I don't mean to be confrontational. But after reading your post, I can't even think of one good reason why you should stay with him.
I will.
Not sure how long you guys dated, but unfortunately sometimes people move on faster. And sometimes the next person is “Mr.Right”. Keep working on yourself and find someone more local to you. Also, you’re hearing information second hand and it’s probably missing details that would help fill in the blanks for you. Part of self growth is letting this stuff go. So close the book and start on the next portion of your life.
Well, your post history doesn't make you look good.
Grow up.
I used to follow a subreddit for ESL students. Can't remember what it was called, but the learners could post essays or journal entries in English, and native speakers could volunteer to edit the writing and give tips to sound more natural. relationship_advice is 30% the bot that says “the relationship is something to consider,” 30% ESL students who are responding to prompts on the wrong sub, 20% “why has my husband never wiped his ass,” and 20% “I [18f] feel like my boyfriend [62m] doesn't want to have sex with me anymore.” The only one who isn't trolling is the bot and I hope they're doing ok
my ex using my obviously private thoughts against me (same situation – a notepad) where i was actually saying how another person was bad for me but he interpreted as me preferring them, then using it against me over and over, was in the top 5 reasons i left him 3yrs later
realize you overstepped and let it go or leave now. i wish i had left in that moment.
I don’t know he wants to be poly but he def wants to bang Logan. Poly people will tell you this is not how poly works.
My last comment. Like I said, you requested to open up the relationship, you claim he is all these nice things but immediately calling someone superior to him, you said in another comment that your gonna use this as a learning experience on trying to train yourself to not want to go and fuck someone else while during a monogamous relationship which is weird as fuck in all honesty that you have to train yourself to not want to cheat?! I don’t know how much more clear you will have to be to show him you honestly don’t care for him lol his is just an experiment/ experience for you. Their is not much else to say really just that it’s unfortunate how humans will let themselves be disrespected, stay in a loveless relationship with someone who obviously doesn’t care for them, just so they don’t feel alone or that their is someone out their that does care for them, unfortunate their are people who will put up with this behavior so that it can continue and enable more people to do it to each other. Like I said not my heart or really my problem at first I thought you wanted actual advice but with every comment you make clearly shows that you don’t care for this guy one bit
You're probably right, She rejected just coming to the gym with me so I don't think she even wants to be friends lol, thats why I don't say hi to her.
Go get a lawyer and get everything you can on here…
You are 26…I don't know how much you possibly obtained in your marriage or what you saved for retirement…I wouldn't worry too much but get a good lawyer and pray a judge cab see through her cheating greedy ass ways.
Get him out of your apartment now. Have a friend or two with you when you break up with him. He can go online in the dorms or whatever. It’s not your problem where he goes, your safety is on the line here.
There’s absolutely nothing wrong with discussing one’s timeline but is that what she did? Casually mentioning she’ll be moving in when her lease is up? Pregnancy scare. Nope, this girl is on a mission.
I would care, but that comes from experiences. Not everyone is trash and there are lots of friends that are just friends, but I just don’t feel comfortable with it anymore.
Lmao that comment really made me lose a few braincells(I'm on my last one).
Marriage doesn't fix problems my love…
Marriage is a full time commitment, a full time job, not a cure all end all action that will fix all of the issues you had in this relationship… People don't change because you marry them, people change because they want to and because they put in the hot yard to change… You ensure they're doing this BEFORE you even consider marriage….
Babies and getting married DONT fix problems…. If you marry this person, they will still lie, and manipulate you… you'll come to regret it… Move on and treat yourself with the dignity you deserve.
Something screwy about her waiting to tell you this till now.
That ‘friend’ wants to cause trouble in your marriage. Be wary.
At some point you should ask your wife why she thinks this ‘friend’ did this now.
Other than that, the whole situation sucks and you will have to find out what you are comfortable with.
Hopefully it was a one time drunk thing, but who can know.
Perhaps the friend knows more about your wife’s activities and this was the only proof she had. Perhaps it’s something else.
Insist that you both get tested for STDs and then talk about the details and why should you believe it was a one time thing.
So you're dating a cunt
Enjoy!
Wow OP you have sent so many mixed messages 1. I do trust him 2. I don’t trust her 3. I’m not worried about anything actually happening 4. But it doesn’t mean it won’t hurt if something does happen 5. I’m not worried about him cheating 6. Whether he puts a stop to it or not It’s not nice to hear about about her trying to have sex with my boyfriend.
First you clearly don’t trust him “it doesn’t mean it won’t hurt if something happens”
Second your boyfriend should be 100% capable of shutting this girl down so hot that she can neither talk to him or talk about you
Third if you felt secure in your relationship you would give zero f**ks about what she says about you. It’s not like anything she says is going to change his opinion of you. If he really loves you his feelings aren’t flexible or fragile.
I would pull your self-confidence together and let him go. If you’re together, long-term, this will not be the only test for loyalty, he faces.
Also ultimatums are terrible for relationships, and they never work long-term.
I won’t dissect your relationship as others will be on that. What I will say is get a lawyer now, and make sure you file for shared or primary custody. First, given your soon to be ex-wife’s nature, she likely has some mental issues, and would likely be putting the children in a bad position later on life. Second, the reason you should file for shared custody, regardless of the savings and offer of the house is because if your children matter to you that much, you’ll barely see them (as in the case with many divorces), she will likely try and poison them against you as they grow up (“he was unfaithful”, “he couldn’t have just one family,” “loved his ex and other child more,” etc.) Its happened before, so be cautious. Also, any and all agreements need to be made in WRITING. Given that she was willing to initiate divorce on a dime (regardless of how you perceive the relationship), is a testament to her trustworthiness, so anchor her to legal agreements stipulating exactly the kind of time you can see the kids (alternating weeks, weekends, etc) otherwise she may just disappear/only show up occasionally (and this is one people forget, but get her to agree to things like birthdays, holidays, and events like graduations, etc. divorced parents often take it on faith they’ll get invited or notified and will be completely blotted out). Hope this helps, just get a damn good lawyer!
You haven't done anything wrong. Your friend is correct. Your fiance sounds like he's been taken in by these stupid purity cults.
You have to have a really hot discussion with yourself if you want to have a life with someone who has this mentality. Would you want to raise children with this mentality?
Holy cow 3/4 of a paycheck? Why is this friend always in need of so much money?
I've learned this the hot way but I don't loan money. If someone is desperate I would rather give them the money and write it off. Otherwise it just gets in the way.
Anyway if your fiance insists on this kind of behavior I definitely would not give them access to my paycheck.
So, Sunday is too soon, but 2 weeks is too much. This guy better run, Goldilocks, because you're being ridiculous.
A counsellor from a church agrees with a husband when the wife wants a divorce and he doesn’t?
Shocker.
So how much more time do you need to see that your in a relationship that's not going anywhere? It's been 3 years holding up for this man show initiative and so far you have come empty handed. The only thing you will achieve by marrying him is becoming his maid. You know what you want and it's not his sloppiness.
A therapist really is what she needs. However for some that isn't an option.
For me what really helped my self esteem was surrounding myself with good friends and people who saw me for who I was, and helped me see my value. They did that by simply being there for me, and building me up when I was feeling low. Honestly just by doing the things that you already seem to be doing for her.
No problem. Happy to help.
OP not necessarily it has something to do with you, stop being egocentric. Try to give him a break, do not push him, don’t initiate. See if he’ll come himself after he recovers. Maybe he is stressed out or tired or something…
Listen, I play time-sensitive games. Know what I do when my partner has news? I shut that shit down immediately and listen. My partner is far more important than a game. And it doesn't even have to be big news. Sometimes it's just to vent about a situation at work, or share something that he needed to say. She's inconsiderate at best, rude at worst. You had every right to call someone to tell them your news.