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To compliment a stranger without being weird is a tricky question!
Personally, if a stranger were to give me a compliment, I would prefer if it was kept simple and genuine, polite, appropriate and also that the person giving the compliment is confident.
Avoid making inappropriate comments or compliments that could be taken the wrong way. A compliment can be a great way to make someone's day and to brighten their mood.
If she's not open to couple's counseling, you can still go alone. You say you're quite unhappy with your life right now and it is something you can work on.
From what you say, it might be entirely that your wife feels she's the only one pulling the weight when it comes to your kids. Resentment build easily and without that feeling of partnership, intimacy with you is the last thing on her mind. It's a bit if a guess, but a very common scenario.
Be real. You’re not going to just stay home and read a book every single weekend. Not at our age. We have our own friends and we’ve also all gone together. You’re right when you say you shouldn’t act single when not and my girl and I have sat and talked about that. We both agreed we wouldn’t spend every night out because that’s just not right. But that doesn’t mean that it’s never going to happen. And The last thing I want to do is make her feel trapped because what makes humans want to escape a situation is when they feel trapped. I go out with my boys and get drunk and have never wanted to cheat. Also thinking back on my single days id strike out with girls at clubs and many would say “I have a boyfriend.” I want to think my girl is one those kinds. Like I said I recognize that this is my own issue that I want to resolve because when I get that gut feeling it takes me back to my ex’s.
No maybe I was a bit unclear, he bought full price and offered me to buy for 70% in pristine condition. Anyway we exchanged messages and both got to our senses. Seems like everything will be good.
Yup. Unless you are a huge name normally you are just travelling and DJing for the cost of going. Maybe your flight and hotel is taken care of but that's your paycheck right there
You already left just stay gone and send divorce papers. He doesn't want custody but call his bluff and tell him to come pick her up for a 50/50 time split. He wont be able to manage and you'll have all the proof you need in a custody battle.
Some people genuinely have a difficult time admitting their addiction most of my family were and some still are addicted to something or another honestly i think its linda stupid that you left without a word of discussion if you cared about her, it would have been better to have a discussion about recovery and getting help rather than just ditching them.
Obviously it not all addicts but alot of people that suffer from drug abuse have experienced certain traumas in their life that causes them to experience things such as this
His illness is at the expense of her own mental health. In what world is that fair? She needs to look after herself now. You are being so one sided. It’s cruel and very, very shortsighted.
I think she lied about sleeping with other people just to hurt you….let her go and focus on yourself. She was put in your life as a lesson. Lots to learn from this.
What a bunch of disgusting people in the comments. Fighting and breaking up for a couple of days is normal, it happens in most relationships especially when you are younger. If it happens literally every week sure, maybe you might reconsider the relationship. But it matters not, seeing a sex worker (or any kind of casual sex, really) in the brief period of time when you are not “technically” with your girlfriend/boyfriend is extremely disrespecting and wrong. Yes, you should tell her, and don't be surprised if that's enough for her to never want to talk to you again. It's not cheating, don't get me wrong, but it's still pretty vile to do.
I can agree on that though OP didn't elaborate much on how the conversation went when she brought it up. He may have apologized. Maybe not. We don't really know but I agree he needs to understand that she's sensitive about her parts, as many women tend to be, and he can accommodate for that in the future as he writes his terrible jokes.
I understand it is difficult to believe but it is real… I think we have always been strongly united and we have mixed feelings: me with the breakup with my wife and them with their relationship situation…
I don’t think he’s cheated physically/ sexually because we are always together and text all the time which I know sounds super naive but definitely via text messages
You keep saying her degree won’t bring in money but she is studying to be a pharmaceutical technical writer and they make 70k a year. And you don’t contribute to groceries and are squirreling away money instead when she has asked for your help.
Oh i plan on keeping the apartment, my name is first on the lease and i actually really like it here. Ideally, may not be realistic but ideally, i break up with him and get a new roomie hopefully quickly. But yeah i agree on breaking up and leaving the same day.
One: you're being a whole new level of drama queen by demanding that she changes her number just cause some random dude from a bar now has it.
Two: she wanted to give him her number (and snapchat). When us girls don't want to give people our personal info (number, snapchat, Facebook etc) we play the “I have a boyfriend”-card, even if we're single. Your gf actually has a boyfriend, and said bf was sitting in walking distance from her, and she STILL DIDN'T USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE. Plus, the first few times you asked her, she tried to keep it a secret from you that she gave a stranger her snapchat. Don't be naive, dude. She wanted this. And if you hadn't been there, who knows what she might have done? Blown him? Had sex?
So you met someone else then broke up with your previous boyfriend. Don’t try to dance around it. Quit trying to leave the door open to run back to your old relationship if things don’t work out with your new guy. Leave your ex alone.
Is it possible that he just has a lot on the go right now raising one kid, working, and having a girlfriend? He already has a failed parental relationship, what if he is afraid of you two breaking up and having to deal with two ex-baby mammas? I mean, you are not married and only together for 3 years. How permanent is this relationship? Perhaps you are rushing things.
It could be that he did want more kids, but the further you get from the baby days, the harder it is to get back into it. Him wanting to wait a few years, might just be him stalling to buy himself time, or maybe he really feels like he can't mentally handle a baby right now.
My ex did this. Said he “just wanted to talk to people.” Found out later he was cheating on me for our entire 3 year relationship. Don't ignore red flags or you'll waste years of your life with this pos.
I will be blunt. Your BF is emotionally abusive to you and is pissed that someone else got to abuse you besides him. None of this is healthy or normal.
'Hey, I wanted to talk about the toy you bought. It's really thrown me off that you bought this sleeve without us ever discussing it together, and it's brought up a brand new insecurity about my size which I don't know how to deal with. I'm all for trying out different toys but this one feels a bit pointed and I wanted to know why you chose it. Have you felt like I'm lacking in that department or is it just a bit of experimentation?'
If she responds with a) she does feel you're not big enough to satisfy her, you need to be ready to be very vulnerable and open with how that makes her feel. And then you either work together on finding solutions (such as trying out the sleeve, or just trying some new positions perhaps) or you reassess your compatibility and your relationships
If she responds with b) there's no problem, she just thought it would be fun to try, you can say something along the lines of: 'I'm really up for bringing toys into the bedroom but I feel uncomfortable with you choosing something like this alone, and I would rather we do some (live!) shopping together so we can pick out things that make us both excited.' You'd also hope that she can understand your hurt and apologise for not thinking about how this gift might land – if she doesn't do that or tries to belittle your insecurity at all then you might also need to reassess compatibility…
I think you're reading into it too much. Stick to your decision. He may want your attention back, but if he wanted a relationship he would have told you. So, he still doesn't want one
To compliment a stranger without being weird is a tricky question!
Personally, if a stranger were to give me a compliment, I would prefer if it was kept simple and genuine, polite, appropriate and also that the person giving the compliment is confident.
Avoid making inappropriate comments or compliments that could be taken the wrong way. A compliment can be a great way to make someone's day and to brighten their mood.
Only men can’t , it seems married women can do no wrong
thanks man
Please update this afterwards
Thank you for the advice, i will try my best!
Just don’t go.
If she's not open to couple's counseling, you can still go alone. You say you're quite unhappy with your life right now and it is something you can work on.
From what you say, it might be entirely that your wife feels she's the only one pulling the weight when it comes to your kids. Resentment build easily and without that feeling of partnership, intimacy with you is the last thing on her mind. It's a bit if a guess, but a very common scenario.
Be real. You’re not going to just stay home and read a book every single weekend. Not at our age. We have our own friends and we’ve also all gone together. You’re right when you say you shouldn’t act single when not and my girl and I have sat and talked about that. We both agreed we wouldn’t spend every night out because that’s just not right. But that doesn’t mean that it’s never going to happen. And The last thing I want to do is make her feel trapped because what makes humans want to escape a situation is when they feel trapped. I go out with my boys and get drunk and have never wanted to cheat. Also thinking back on my single days id strike out with girls at clubs and many would say “I have a boyfriend.” I want to think my girl is one those kinds. Like I said I recognize that this is my own issue that I want to resolve because when I get that gut feeling it takes me back to my ex’s.
No maybe I was a bit unclear, he bought full price and offered me to buy for 70% in pristine condition. Anyway we exchanged messages and both got to our senses. Seems like everything will be good.
There has been many times where I just give him a blow job and he doesn’t have to do anything.
Get a better GF!!
Thank you so so much
Yup. Unless you are a huge name normally you are just travelling and DJing for the cost of going. Maybe your flight and hotel is taken care of but that's your paycheck right there
You already left just stay gone and send divorce papers. He doesn't want custody but call his bluff and tell him to come pick her up for a 50/50 time split. He wont be able to manage and you'll have all the proof you need in a custody battle.
Some people genuinely have a difficult time admitting their addiction most of my family were and some still are addicted to something or another honestly i think its linda stupid that you left without a word of discussion if you cared about her, it would have been better to have a discussion about recovery and getting help rather than just ditching them.
Obviously it not all addicts but alot of people that suffer from drug abuse have experienced certain traumas in their life that causes them to experience things such as this
His illness is at the expense of her own mental health. In what world is that fair? She needs to look after herself now. You are being so one sided. It’s cruel and very, very shortsighted.
I think she lied about sleeping with other people just to hurt you….let her go and focus on yourself. She was put in your life as a lesson. Lots to learn from this.
What a bunch of disgusting people in the comments. Fighting and breaking up for a couple of days is normal, it happens in most relationships especially when you are younger. If it happens literally every week sure, maybe you might reconsider the relationship. But it matters not, seeing a sex worker (or any kind of casual sex, really) in the brief period of time when you are not “technically” with your girlfriend/boyfriend is extremely disrespecting and wrong. Yes, you should tell her, and don't be surprised if that's enough for her to never want to talk to you again. It's not cheating, don't get me wrong, but it's still pretty vile to do.
No, how is she taking advantage of his naïveté?
I can agree on that though OP didn't elaborate much on how the conversation went when she brought it up. He may have apologized. Maybe not. We don't really know but I agree he needs to understand that she's sensitive about her parts, as many women tend to be, and he can accommodate for that in the future as he writes his terrible jokes.
I understand it is difficult to believe but it is real… I think we have always been strongly united and we have mixed feelings: me with the breakup with my wife and them with their relationship situation…
I don’t think he’s cheated physically/ sexually because we are always together and text all the time which I know sounds super naive but definitely via text messages
You keep saying her degree won’t bring in money but she is studying to be a pharmaceutical technical writer and they make 70k a year. And you don’t contribute to groceries and are squirreling away money instead when she has asked for your help.
Oh i plan on keeping the apartment, my name is first on the lease and i actually really like it here. Ideally, may not be realistic but ideally, i break up with him and get a new roomie hopefully quickly. But yeah i agree on breaking up and leaving the same day.
Either breakup with her or go and join r/deadbedrooms and get a glimpse of what your life will be like.
No. I usually just respond and say “ok” because we really never argue and I don’t want to start something when she hasn’t really did anything wrong
One: you're being a whole new level of drama queen by demanding that she changes her number just cause some random dude from a bar now has it.
Two: she wanted to give him her number (and snapchat). When us girls don't want to give people our personal info (number, snapchat, Facebook etc) we play the “I have a boyfriend”-card, even if we're single. Your gf actually has a boyfriend, and said bf was sitting in walking distance from her, and she STILL DIDN'T USE THAT AS AN EXCUSE. Plus, the first few times you asked her, she tried to keep it a secret from you that she gave a stranger her snapchat. Don't be naive, dude. She wanted this. And if you hadn't been there, who knows what she might have done? Blown him? Had sex?
So you met someone else then broke up with your previous boyfriend. Don’t try to dance around it. Quit trying to leave the door open to run back to your old relationship if things don’t work out with your new guy. Leave your ex alone.
Is it possible that he just has a lot on the go right now raising one kid, working, and having a girlfriend? He already has a failed parental relationship, what if he is afraid of you two breaking up and having to deal with two ex-baby mammas? I mean, you are not married and only together for 3 years. How permanent is this relationship? Perhaps you are rushing things.
It could be that he did want more kids, but the further you get from the baby days, the harder it is to get back into it. Him wanting to wait a few years, might just be him stalling to buy himself time, or maybe he really feels like he can't mentally handle a baby right now.
My ex did this. Said he “just wanted to talk to people.” Found out later he was cheating on me for our entire 3 year relationship. Don't ignore red flags or you'll waste years of your life with this pos.
What?
“What’s best for my dick”
Fixed it for you
No they dont hang a sheet, but they do have separate beds tho. They have a two bedroom apartment and the other room is being used by his parents
Yeah. I don't either.
I will be blunt. Your BF is emotionally abusive to you and is pissed that someone else got to abuse you besides him. None of this is healthy or normal.
what do I say word for word?
'Hey, I wanted to talk about the toy you bought. It's really thrown me off that you bought this sleeve without us ever discussing it together, and it's brought up a brand new insecurity about my size which I don't know how to deal with. I'm all for trying out different toys but this one feels a bit pointed and I wanted to know why you chose it. Have you felt like I'm lacking in that department or is it just a bit of experimentation?'
If she responds with a) she does feel you're not big enough to satisfy her, you need to be ready to be very vulnerable and open with how that makes her feel. And then you either work together on finding solutions (such as trying out the sleeve, or just trying some new positions perhaps) or you reassess your compatibility and your relationships
If she responds with b) there's no problem, she just thought it would be fun to try, you can say something along the lines of: 'I'm really up for bringing toys into the bedroom but I feel uncomfortable with you choosing something like this alone, and I would rather we do some (live!) shopping together so we can pick out things that make us both excited.' You'd also hope that she can understand your hurt and apologise for not thinking about how this gift might land – if she doesn't do that or tries to belittle your insecurity at all then you might also need to reassess compatibility…
I think you're reading into it too much. Stick to your decision. He may want your attention back, but if he wanted a relationship he would have told you. So, he still doesn't want one