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I agree in a way but I don’t think abandoning them is right for me, I tried it. It didn’t work because I just felt a mountain of guilt. Like it was spiritually wrong of me. It’s very difficult but also I feel like I’m gaining wisdom, I see all the wrong, I see exactly where it stems from, I examine those areas within myself and make sure nothing “grows” there if get that I mean. It’s like a strange kind of x mode therapy in itself. That’s the way I think of it anyway. I’ll gain more space soon of course but I don’t want to exile him from my life, he literally has no one else because he’s so prickly. I don’t know… I probably need more therapy. ?
it's pretty obvious that op has one foot out the door ( after one year of separation, he would have to be but I digress.
at the same time, the wife wants him to make permanent body modifications. yes a vasectomy is vastly less taxing on the body than tubal ligation … but this is not the way to go.
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I agree in a way but I don’t think abandoning them is right for me, I tried it. It didn’t work because I just felt a mountain of guilt. Like it was spiritually wrong of me. It’s very difficult but also I feel like I’m gaining wisdom, I see all the wrong, I see exactly where it stems from, I examine those areas within myself and make sure nothing “grows” there if get that I mean. It’s like a strange kind of x mode therapy in itself. That’s the way I think of it anyway. I’ll gain more space soon of course but I don’t want to exile him from my life, he literally has no one else because he’s so prickly. I don’t know… I probably need more therapy. ?
I would never watch a friend self destruct. I would hope for the best for him and accept that he wants to see how it feels down done dark roads.
Some people can only help themselves.
it's pretty obvious that op has one foot out the door ( after one year of separation, he would have to be but I digress.
at the same time, the wife wants him to make permanent body modifications. yes a vasectomy is vastly less taxing on the body than tubal ligation … but this is not the way to go.
Being with a girls who's had sexual relations with your friends? Personally, I couldn't be in a relationship like that.