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No there are not “lots of programs” — there are some and since COVID they’re waitlisted out.
And OPs sister doesn’t need a DV shelter. She needs to learn some basic life skills. There are people in very desperate situations. Her sister is a fully functioning young adult with no children currently not in an abusive relationship.
She just needs to focus on getting her license and a job. OP can give her a crash course in adulting and then she should find a place with roommates.
So she doesn’t trust her partner enough to be open and honest and this is somehow a positive?
Talk about mental gymnastics. They had the initial conversation together so why couldn’t she admit she changed her mind to him?
I doubt she is doing so for any real nefarious reason, but at the same time she is also not really helping her son.
She is trading the short term satisfaction of him winning with the long term benefit of actually learning and building skill in the game. She isn’t doing him any favours.
It doesn’t even sound like she’s trying to teach him, just self sabotaging so she loses.
But the worst of it all is that she is lying to OP, it is a big red flag and will likely harm his ability to instantly trust her in the future. Especially if she continues to lie about this.
I really fail to understand the defending of the wife. I am curious as to why she has gone out of her way to actively ignore her partner and even go against wishes they had previously both agreed on. Unless OP is purposefully leaving some incriminating evidence against themselves out this seems like the issue is in his partners court.
Maybe she just can’t stand seeing her son lose, or maybe there is more to it. Frankly I’m leaning toward the latter, because why blatantly lie to OP?
That's so inconvenient for the “she's manipulating you on purpose brigade!”
Uh, no? ACookie has been quite specific that this happens for any similar stress event. OPs gf only has this happen when she's not getting her way with OP. No one else in any situation ever, even similar things. Ever. That is still the key difference.
Manipulation not done on purpose due to a busted coping mechanism is still manipulation. Manipulation doesn't have to be calculated.
My wife wasn't the best with managing her money. And like yourself, I am very frugal with mine. Over time, my wife has become more like myself and understands the importance of saving and investing.. and on the flip I have become more like my wife and understand that money just that – money, and it's great to be used to make memories and spend quality time with your partner. Maybe over time she will develop your habits and you develop hers.
Communicate with her first, understand where she is coming from, and find a way to find a middle ground. Create a budget with her, go over finances with her, make her feel included in what's happening and set goals with her.
However if she does not want to change or care about money, ask yourself if that is something you can deal with the rest of your life. That is a major reason for divorce is money. If you plan on marrying her one day knowing she doesn't want to change, you have to accept that fact, otherwise that would be very unfair for her when you knew this about her.