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He's not acting like a “mini-jerk”. He's protecting himself in the only
way he knows how; to keep people at a distance.
Stop trying to be his teacher and care-giver and simply strive to
express your status as a safe and accepting place to be.
Thats all you can do.
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That makes sense. Are there certain factors that can tell us that the relationship may or may not survive? Or anything else to do with these feelings?
Honestly, you might as well just separate finances at this point. Considering his history, he won't keep his job for long and you've supported him enough. Cut the cord before he starts using you again.
My husband and I pretty much just share the finances. I have never paid him anything. We both have bank accounts with the other person listed on them. We each take care of certain bills (i.e. I pay the mortgage since we set it up out of my account, he pays the car, ect.). If one of us is a little low for the week we just transfer whatever the other person needs. We both buy whatever we want from our accounts (if it's more than $50ish we will talk about it first, usually just to give a heads up).
It's all very..fluid? The way we both see it, we are a unit, our bills are OUR bills. We both work, we both pay bills. It's never 'my bills cost more' or 'You make more so you cover more' . We are a team and we treat our money, as OUR money.
We also spilt the chores pretty evenly and the childcare duties.
Tbh, it was never really a discussion for us. It's just kinda how it worked out. Almost 15 years together and he has never asked me to 'pay him back'
Oh I misunderstood a little. Well, you can still be happy with who you are and still appreciate how she helped you become that and move on (nothing is wasted if you learned something) But you shouldn’t lead someone else on. It honestly all takes time, and a shift of focus. It can be really hard and painful to “get over” a relationship. One thing that has helped me in any break up situation, is focusing solely on myself and exploring my interests/maybe finding new ones. And becoming closer with my friends.
Your feelings are valid. I don’t want to come off like I’m bashing you. Hateful comments and DMs aren’t helpful when someone needs advice.
We all do dumb shit when we’re young. Learning from it is what’s important though. Yes, you were too young. Yes, it wasn’t a great idea. And he may have absolutely taken advantage of you. But now is the time to reflect and do something with these feelings and information.
You’re too young to be stuck in a toxic marriage. I’d say the same thing if you were 60, 70, 80 years old. No one deserves that. I think you should take some time for yourself. Learn to love yourself and it will be easier to weed out and find someone you deserve.
You have plenty of time to do the adult shit. It’s not all that great anyway.