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Your trans friend is very passionate about politics right now because the politicians you agree with are, in fact, trying to remove the rights of transgendered people. Google up a list of anti-trans bills and actions in various states to see for yourself.
The fact that politicians are doing this is putting trans people in a negative spotlight … and that puts them at more risk of violence. This is not dissimilar to when we had a certain President speaking badly about China…and there was an uptick in violence against Asian people. Their rhetoric literally harms people.
So…do,you bring up how upset you are? In front of a group of people….one of whom is deeply impacted? I honestly don’t see how it could go well.
You could propose to the group that politics are left out of things. But that’s you speaking from a place of Privilege. You don’t need to educate people like your trans friend does. You don’t need to fight for the right to marry your person, dress how you like, change your body.
Bleh.
Be a good friend. Become Democrat.
Yes in the past she's had coworkers actively sabotage her and too the point of stalking and following her home. The issue is that, fighting these negative thoughts all day can be tiresome especially after making progress. So I just don't have the energy and I feel like she's incapable of working out her own insecurities without me holding her hand. If I said that to her though I'd get “fine i won't tell you anything then” sigh is exhausting
that’s why ive tried the things he’s expressed interest in. but that is a very one sided opinion it feels. ive asked him to finish me off a few times and most times he’ll say he’s too tired, or he’ll gesture to the drawer i have my toys in implying i could do it myself. we also havent had sex in awhile because of me feeling this way. im the only one that initiates it even though i like being dominated, and then i do all the work just for it to be over after he’s satisfied. satisfying him is no longer satisfying for me. im not sure what else to do
This wasn't about the tongue
So it’s definitely bull?
She must fight back rather than simply stand there and be bullied. Shit happens and will continue to happen unless she learns to defend herself. These clowns who suggest she tell her parents or a counselor are weak.
I talked to and met up with a man who told me he was in his mid 30’s, I find out after the fact not only is he almost 45, he has two kids as well. I wish I would’ve caught the age lie earlier because the meet up just never would’ve happened. She’s letting you dodge a bullet, dodge it.
Perhaps order a dessert and request that instead of doing a happy birthday song, do a “Happy Anniversary to you”
Kids are stressful, thats just the nature of dealing with child related things. Never did I once think it wouldn't be stressful. Raising a new born baby vs a kid who's idk 10, different challenges and different commitments.
It was an idea for this couple to potentially mull over and see if that was something that was in the cards given their lifestyle and family.
Thanks very much. I imagine this kind of advice on this sub is quite rare, but you seem to understand the nature of how I'm feeling. Thank you
And that’s understandable OP! As many on this thread have said, to me it’s not tip-toeing if I don’t tell my partner explicitly about all the details of the sex I’ve had with who and where. I don’t do this because it hurts and offends me when my partner does this (because really, what relevance does any of this has to do and why do they want to paint a vivid picture in my head of them having sex with others?). A good chunk of people feel this way and hence, oversharing might create some problems in the relationship.
A good rule of thumb is to monitor how you would feel if your partner told you everything you tell him. If this doesn’t make you feel anything negative, then that’s good. This just means you need a partner who functions the same way as you do. Oversharing about the past can be a compatibility issue with some, but there are many people who feel the same as you do. Focus on finding your match with someone who wants to know and wants to share everything. This way you can have your absolute candidness with a partner and you don’t have to worry about ”oversharing”.
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She didn’t take the time to do things right… he did. She wasn’t abstaining from sex, just sex with him.
If I said hey Plantirina let’s become vegetarians! You agree and then I only eat vegetarian around you but when we’re apart I eat as much meat as I want.. am I “doing things right”?
She had her cake and ate it too.
No guy wants to find out he was putting in genuine effort to get to know someone and being told “let’s take it slow and wait to have sex” only to find out some random guy was able to have sex with the woman whenever he wanted by simply inviting her over to his place… while he was experiencing the joys of a new relationship with someone he thought valued the same things.
Omg so what is the question? Low sperm count does not mean you’re sterile, numb nuts
They’ve already told you they’re not interested in having a third so if you want to keep what you have then say nothing.
You can incorporate toys in the bedroom. Foreplay before and after. I mean it’s not really like lesbian sex as many straight couples do this?
I don’t think he’d act on it, but I still do hate the comments. I subtly hinted at it one time to his mom “oh will I see you at the cabin tomorrow night too? Oh stepdad didn’t invite you?” And she cried about it for days and started complaining about him to the kids. (Went back to normal a week later)?
Err yeah she would, she vaguely enjoyed it back then
NO. Why in the world would you do that?
The only reason I can think of for you to speak to him again is when you testify against him in court for his RAPE TRIAL.
That is fine I mean, its not wrong to take your time to reflect and think by yourself, if she notices it you can just explain it to her like “Im sorry some stuff is going on in my life so I may feel distant because I am thinking about it, will let you know once its over”
Will this be her first child?
Was afraid of this being a thing as English isn’t my first language and all examples of this phrase that I know of have been used with a negative connotation. Thank you!
Get an actual paternity test, not Ancestry DNA.
Guys don’t express their emotions too well and they aren’t big “updaters”. Even mine now on a Friday night will be like “alright I’m gonna go to bed so I can get a good night sleep for work tomorrow” meanwhile all night he didn’t mention that he has to work on a Saturday (happens maybe once every other month). Try to let it slide and gage how it feels in person again.
I’m mid 30s. There’s no fucking way I’m paying some 20 year old to hear their thoughts on life. If anything they would have to pay me, and even then I’d probably pass.
This is a terrible take. I’ve literally been told “you’re not old enough to have had that tough of a life” and then in the same breath my age has been used to assess my accomplishments saying I should have done “this this and that” by such age.
Like no. I’m sorry but age isn’t a measure of human experience. There are far too many socio- economic and case-specific factors in a person's life to then be assessed in any way by age.
You don’t know OPs life. For all we know she could’ve gone through some shit that made her mature and “figure out” all of those things you mentioned, at a younger age. I know I did.
I’m afraid if you are not comfortable with this kind of situation, breakups might be necessary. That is okay! You just need to find a right match for you.
Why are you even asking him about this? You don't need his permission!!! You TELL him you bought one and if he doesn't like it, too bad. He can't tell you what to do. Don't let him control you. JFC.
Another relationship going towards disaster because some friends influence one partner about their adventures.
I wouldn’t co-sign with you either. Your credit isn’t even that good
You and your sister wouldn't have attend high school at the same time. You're 7 years apart in age. Unless you were held back and/or she skipped a few grades. My brother and I are three years apart and we didn't attend high school together.
There’s a lot of assumptions happening here. OP – can you address how of this is accurate?
I, personally, would cut my losses.
If she had said that she got cold feet and then apologized, I would give her another chance. But “I was freaked out because you didn’t text me the day before” and then led you on the entire day and wasted your time…is a weird and uncool response. I wouldn’t want to date someone who’s in their late 20s and acting that way. That’s some “I’m 18 and don’t know how to be a functioning adult” shit.
Losing weight for someone else never works.
YOU ARE NOT FINE. what you are doing is FUCKING CRAZY. I would be more inclined to tell her to get a restraining order than anything else.
Might seem like a dumb question so with my situation how much detail do you think is enough I was thinking about saying I lost it on a one night stand because technically it was to a massage therapist
I don’t care if he finds other girls attractive but like it makes me uncomfortable that he’s outwardly said my friend is beautiful but then told my outfit wasn’t good. Don’t think he understands how that makes me feel.
No, he’s at home with his parents. The police took him straight home as apparently he has a stable home there
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Thank you for the book recommendation, I will look into it!
No way shoukd you ever have to put up with this.
I am in a relationship where my amazing girlfriend has some mental health issues and sometimes gets a little defensive to avoid dealing with issues. It seems your partner is doing something similar. To make him understand you could ask him to talk to his friends or other family about this situation. I'm sure if he genuinely talked to somebody else, they would also agree with your position and how it's inappropriate for a couple I your position to essentially start looking after his family.
This guy has way too much baggage. And although I understand that it will break your heart to leave, I think your heart will break far worse if you stay.
He lies, he cheats, and he has two children by two women. Don’t be the one that makes that 3 for 3. And he says he wants nothing to do with the baby, but what if he falls in love with it and has it every other weekend? And the other child on the other weekends? How convenient to have you there to babysit.
Don’t let your heart race ahead. Use your head to see what a bad deal for you this is. You are far too young to settle for less than what you want.
Find a guy your own age, who wouldn’t dream of hurting you, and who would never lie or cheat on you. You’re at the very beginning of your adult life—don’t waste it on someone you’ll regret staying with later, after he does more of the same and you have more life experience.
Don’t let love blind you. Listen to the feedback you’re getting about him by those of us with more wisdom and less blinded than you.
You’ll get over him. And one day you’ll actually be oh so happy you didn’t stay with him.
Yes. Someone who takes marriage seriously. Unfortunately, women today don't which is why marriage is off the table for me. I'm happy just having a girlfriend.
No, it's that the “friend” confessed his feelings for OP, and the fiance dealt with it.
I injected k for a year. Now I have a decent job with bennys. My k ptsd treatment must not be that bad
I am not you partner, but if I were then I’d be hella annoyed that I’ve been talking this trip up and planning it, you insist you can’t go, then at the last minute you manage to swing it (after all the plans have been finalized and after you repeatedly insisted it was impossible)
I know it’s not intentional, but it comes off as a weird combination of controlling and disinterested – like you didn’t care to make time until you realized she was serious about going without you, and then you magically manage to get the time off. She’s annoyed the vacation wasn’t important enough to take time off for, and annoyed that you want to tag along now because you don’t have anything better to do, plus now you’re crashing her alone time with the kids once she’s gotten the plans nailed down and started looking forward to it.
She may also be worried that if you’re off because you’re too sick to work then you may be too sick to enjoy the vacation – having a last-minute tag-along who complains or is in a bad mood the whole trip is a recipe for disaster.
You might just have to write this trip off as a loss for you, and try to mend whatever bridge is damaged with your partner. I would recommend first, assessing if you’re well enough to go on the trip and not be a drag. If you’re not well enough, stay home and enjoy the empty house. If you are well enough, then you need to sit down with her, apologize for not being able to plan the time off (you are doing damage control here you do not need to actually mean it), and ask if she’d be okay with you tagging along because she made the trip sound fun – but if she wants to go just her and the kids, that’s fine (this part you need to mean).
You also need to consider that it may be too late now to add you – flights, cars, tickets, rooms, etc may have been booked with the original numbers and it may not be easy to add another person (for example she may have booked a hotel room with exactly enough sleeping spaces for her and the kids, and to add you means someone will whine about sleeping on a cot, or she may need to change the room booking, etc)
He will never change. He will never go to therapy bc he doesn’t believe what he’s doing is wrong.
There’s no reason for you to stay with him.
He says you’re trying to change who he is – which means that he believes that a sloppy, dirty, smelly, unhygienic person is just “who he is” and he has no desire to change that. So, control the only person you can control (that’s you!) and leave.
Can I get to know you?