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Date: February 23, 2023
I didn't ask him to leave his apartment just go back to the room so I can collect my things and leave as I didn't want to argue anymore.
You deleted your comment after sending this reply, that is intellectually dishonest because it prevents me from being able to provide citations to prove what you said and how you said it. The rest of your response is also intellectually dishonest, as is the whole premise of your post because you pretend to be asking a question but you are instead trying to have the same intellectually dishonest argument you had with your boyfriend – but by proxy.
Anyway, he gave you the space you screeched for … But even when he was in the kitchen you insisted for even more space. That implies leaving the apartment entirely. Either way, he did give you space but you kept screeching anyways.
That isn't civilised conversation.
Your response was wildly disproportionate. No one claimed he is an angel. But him finding your disproportionate response amusing is not justification for you to make your response even more disproportionate.
You've really alerted him to what you're really like, which is unhinged, unstable,and easy to fly off the handle. And given the manner in which you've conducted yourself here, I doubt you will change.
Good luck.
She doesn’t need to do anything. These posts are never about health concerns. If you don’t want to date an overweight woman you can break up with her.
You don’t get to dictate what other people eat or how they move their bodies. Clearly you are not a good fit on a fundamental level. Go find someone who shares your values.
Dont have a kid with this woman, unless you want it to have divorced parents…
Humans can be immature. But most humans don’t say so many things that can be used against them like you have.
Next time she threatens harm to herself, call police to check on her. Tell her parents that this is not a second chance, this is her 10th chance or whatever the number is. Then tell them to stop calling you and get her some help. Then, dude, you need to book a therapist pronto to see why you have allowed yourself to settle for a serial cheater who clearly doesn’t care about you?! Seriously, do this now and never talk to this person again.
Surely your ex.
Ummmmm….: did you ever stop to think that a friend of hers at work wore that watch to cover her ass?
I'm UK. £500 is astronomical where we live. Most dads pay around £100-150. The dads not working pay £5 a week. Things like rent and mortgage payments are so much less here.
Plus the mum gets child benefit, child tax, working tax (or universal credit), she will get most of her rent paid, most of her council tax paid. 30 free hours childcare etc, free prescriptions for both, free meals once kid is in school, free dentist etc.
So £500 is more than enough.
Ya I didn’t know that lol. Interesting, you learn something new everyday.
I’m glad you broke up with her. The situation was horrible for you and it WOULD NEVER GET BETTER.
Now you need to make a list of all the things you need to do to separate you life from hers.
Then work on the list.
Get therapy. Get boundaries, ghost her and Move on.
Your monogamous never get involved with a polygamous person it is doomed to be heart break.
She also seemed a bit abusive demeaning her nights out when you were screamed at it another girl even looked at you. If she is polly right jealousy is bad she needs to let it go.
Why is he leaving to smoke?
Seems like something is up and he's doing a bad job hiding it
Sorry about that
Yes. After I was better we were pretty much back on track to our normal routine. It’s just sometimes things are badly timed and I’m bed ridden with cramps and all the other ailments that come with my period
That tells me that she didn't care enough about his feelings until it was too late. OP next time, if your partner expresses that something is important to them, they ask repeatedly, or they tell you that not doing something bothers them, you need to make an effort and be honest about how you feel because they wouldn't bring it up if it was not important to them.
Whoosh.
Might seem like a dumb question so with my situation how much detail do you think is enough I was thinking about saying I lost it on a one night stand because technically it was to a massage therapist
Might seem like a dumb question so with my situation how much detail do you think is enough I was thinking about saying I lost it on a one night stand because technically it was to a massage therapist
I know it’s cliche but have you tried therapy?
He's not over his ex so he has no business dating you. Why would you want to stay in a relationship with a person who clearly prefers another woman? If you do this, expect to feel like the third wheel (because that's what you are currently and it will only get worse). Then after he has completely forgiven her cheating (which he clearly wants to do), he'll break up with you to be with her full time.
You should have broken up with him the moment you realized he wasn't over her. You are nothing more to him than a rebound so have some respect and just end it
I don't think they mean it's OP's problem in his case either. What they mean is, if a few pounds are enough to make your SO unattractive to you then the problem is not theirs but your own.
Bob is just trying to stir up more drama by doing this.
BS. The boss is responsible for his own behavior. She’s not responsible for fixing him by reporting him. That’s some serious victim blaming right there.
Personally I wouldn’t care. I use concealer to help cover up the little imperfections in my skin. It makes my face glow, and I feel a little more confident in myself. Why can’t a dude wear concealer? For one, it’s 2023 for gods sake. People use makeup for all kinds of reasons. Second of all, you guys are grown ups here, why is there so much passive communication and tiptoeing, just because you use a little makeup, and to cover up circles under the eyes- oh the shame!
I may be a girl, but I wanna give you some advice my older brother gave me:
A real man does whatever the fuck he wants
You have no rights to his phone. That's his property and his privacy.
He thought it was OK to cheat on his last girlfriend with you. Why do you think he would change?
Once a cheater, always a cheater
The men defending it are literally just snitching on themselves that they're attracted to underage girls. Doesn't matter if she's technically legal, it's fucking vile.
Your friend sounds like an asshole.
This may sound bad, but put your phone on speaker and mute it. Let him complain to his hearts content and watch a movie. Ignore him. He’s yelling into the void.
He’s a sad old man living the sad life of his own making. He’ll never own that, because he’s the victim. And to your point, you’re pretty much it relationship wise.
Let him ‘old man shouts at the sky’ himself into some comfort, but stop internalizing and feeling guilty about how his choices are effecting him, when he has never cared how his choices effect literally everyone.
Each couple has to decide what cheating is.
Personally? No, I do not think what you said is cheating. I have told Alexa I love her and my wife has not left me.
So you'll be ok when he brings a date over as long as they stay downstairs?
I think it’s probably easy to see Kyle as a villain here, but it seems much more likely that he was groomed by his mom’s cousin after the loss of her husband and kids. It is very unlikely he asked her for money but rather that she offered it. It can sometimes be hot to see our friends, especially young men, as victims of grooming and sexual abuse (especially when they seem to enjoy it), but that’s often how it goes. You are allowed to set and enforce boundaries and decide what kind of people you want in your life and if Kyle isn’t someone you want around them so be it. But it sounds like Kyle is the one being taken advantage of. If you have it in you, it may be worth it to share this with Kyle and let him know that you are worried about what he’s doing and the effect it may have on him.
scheduled for monday
I 1000% want a relationship, I’ve never been in one! I work from home so don’t really go out to meet people unless it’s from a dating app. Currently been on 3 dates with a man but I don’t think I’m interested but because of what I’m feeling with this guy from uni I don’t know if I should give it a shot or not as I don’t want this feeling again if that makes sense?
If you 1000% want a relationship then you will have to meet people. No one is going to show up at your door just straight-up ready to get into a relationship with you. You have to put yourself out there. Ask your friends to set you up, keep using the apps, go out on a bunch of first dates and see what happens.
It is fine if you aren't feeling sparks with this 3-date guy or any guy, but I advise you to NOT compare every date you go on to this one dude you never even dated in university. You have built him up so much in your mind – way beyond anything reasonable.
You told her she's always second place? Tf???? I've loved powerfully and lost hot too, but each love is different from the other. They are NOT in competition or a replacement. And clair is not second to anyone. You def need therapy.
He literally wrote a description of what he is doing re: nudes in the first comment replying directly to you. You carried on the conversation with him, still blaming her. Ugh.
I love this so much.
No problem and yeah, it sounds like your sister left out some important parts of the story.
I think if you think the relationship between you and your grandma is worth repairing. Then take a weekend or a day and just visit her, try to set things straight regarding what happened between you and your sister and how you wanted to include your grandma in the dress buying, but your sister wasn't able to (due to her needing to go shopping) and that, yeah sure you got upset, but mainly because it was important for you, that your grandma, was apart of this experience.
Try not to bring how your Grandma has acted into this, as, even though your words might be true. It's not going to do you any favours regarding repairing the relationship. Be humble, be honest, stay true and hopefully she'll come around.
Also, since you mentioned it, I think if you uninvite your grandma from the wedding, then well, that's a bridge that you'll never be able to repair. So unless your intent is to completely cut your family out, without any hope in reconcile, then I wouldn't advise that you do this.
Why do you want to stir the pot, if it doesn’t bother you
INFO: are they all actually two middle schoolers in trench coats instead of actual adults? Because this is psycho child bullying behavior.
He appears to turn into less of a person when with his 'friends', so I'd assume that will continue as I don't see him choosing you over them, so I'd act accordingly.
I am so very sorry this happened to you, it's a ghastly thing and you reacted with dignity and calm – I applaud you.
Look, my guy. I get where you are coming from. It's true that she did needed some form of a wake-up call if she thought she could overpower an average man. It's not sexist, just basic Biology that men are, most often then not, physically stronger.
You were worried that she might find herself in a situation in which she thinks she would be stronger and then get assaulted as a result of it. So better there in a controlled environment than out on the streets which would do lasting damage.
Here is where I think you went heavily wrong:
You both agreed to do a sort of demonstration/spar(?). That's fine there's consent from both.
Starting position was you being pinned by her, you demonstrate that you could easily slip out and hold her down for like 2-5 sec. That's it. You made your point. And that's where you went in the wrong, you continued, you saw she was in tears and fighting against you.
Just stop.
As other commenters said, you showed her that you'd do anything to push your point until she agrees. That's scary for a woman.
I hope for your sake you'll prove her wrong, if there's a relationship left to begin with.
You keep making yourself the victim. Considering EVERYTHING from a woman's point of view. Stop making things about yourself.
I'm saying that as a married couple, you make sacrifices for each.
When is hubby planning to make any sacrifices for OP? It's been a one-way street for TEN YEARS!
A bit of a stretch that she put her life on hold – she was still able to pursue a career and build a life.
The problem is the parents situation – if they move then husband will be away from his parents.
Of course neither one wants to budge.
I’m not sending my daughter to live with anyone? I don’t know where you got them from. I said that there’s no one who could take in my daughter that she would with. If her mom was in a better position, sure? But my daughter is staying with me and will for the foreseeable future
Why? Where you’re coming from is a place of insecurity and controlling bull crap. Nobody has to listen to that
FYI this could be something sensory AND also not your cross to bear.
He needs help, it is not your responsibility to get it for him.
You have your own life to live and you've already been burnt out by his current behavior.
Frankly, if he hasn't attempted to get help, your leaving might be the wake up call he needs for his NEXT relationship. But, if he's not motivated to fix this himself now, you should not spend your energy trying to drag him to a solution.
I trust my judgment I really believe he is so faithful, but I have been letting specially to what happened to my mother effect me and i really don’t know how to get this out of my head.
I’m a 47yo woman with 3 children who still plays games. You’re too young to be so judgmental.
Most switch games are for kids because I love him I'm OK with it but I don't think grown men should be playing games like Mario kart, splatoon, Zelda, mario party etc.
big chunk of his paycheck
That's for child support and is totally normal. He's got money he's got to spend some on the children he brought into the world.
Maybe you could try counseling first, maybe a counselor could explain your point of view to her. Everyone here got it straight away, it's weird that she has such a complete blind spot in that regard.
It can work, but you will likely end up as a caregiver before you even retire.
Thank you. This helps a lot.
Break up with him, this is just a taste of what a hell being married to him will be. He sides with your abuser because he is one too
Sure ,no problem
He's trying to turn a side piece into a straight out member of the fam. If you're okay with that, cool. If you're not, cool. Either way, looks like that's his goal.
I'm not calling him a perv. I'm saying that OP implied that he is a perv. By saying the she was “judging him heavily” by the average age of girls at a Taylor Swift concert, she's implying that a grown man has no place at a concert predominantly patronized by young underage women.
The use of the word “judging” can be viewed as particularly harsh; the only people who await judgment are in court. Judging also implies finality.
Most men(myself included) won't go near or talk to a child that is not his in fear of being arrested over a misunderstanding, carrying a stigma that never goes away.
Judging(court). 15 year old girls(underage). Is it really that much of a reach in your mind?
He threatened to kill you? Definitely file a police report.
Then give him back the ring (with a witness), and be done with him.
You deserve better.
Being a therapist means nothing.
Sounds like the average American fascist using religion to justify their beliefs. His beliefs arent rooted in love, like christianity tells you, but in hate.
Look for one of the many inexpensive hearing test places and go get checked out. It wouldn't be common but even someone 35 could have some kind of hearing deficit. If you've recently had to take any opioid painkillers you could definitely have some temporary hearing loss. You should at least know what you're dealing with. If you don't have any hearing loss you may just get too lost in your own thoughts at times. In which case he may have to stand closer to make sure he's got your attention before he starts speaking.
Looks like you are intent on torpedoing this marriage after one month.
Guys aren't as into wedding stuff as girls are. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you.
Many wives and girlfriends have to compete with gaming for the guy's attention, and that's a legitimate gripe. But if he is starting to respond to some of your gripes, that's a sign to turn on the affection, not to demand more changes while questioning if he loves you “enough.” (What the hell does that mean, anyway?)
You keep on like this, you'll be a divorcee within the year. I hope you heed my advice.
1 You don't ever have to understand why or how someone wants to take advantage of you.
2 It is merely age. He knows you were less experienced and easier to manipulate. Its a tale as old as time.
You can't MAKE her take them. If she doesn't want them, she doesn't want them. Just sell them or give them away. But if you want to get her back, go to the concert with another girl and post about it on social media so she sees it. A week later your text will go off “how've been?”.
Uninvited these women. Talk to your friends and let them know what their spouses pulled was lousy.
This puts your relationship with them in jeopardy.
This is really different stuff and maybe i should explain that in my post. As it already too late i will answer in same way to some other replies. Imagine you born here eastern europe. If its not capital city, they are maybe 5000, 10000 people here. So you are going to school, high school with the same people. If you dont have childhood friend you are f*cked. Yeah then you go to university but even her you meet some people lol. And count if you are maybe shy, and people are simply cold by nature and not welcoming to strangers….as i write to some person i have so many friend that i have to need do two stag parties. But this is extremely uncommon here
By itself, this is a good reasonable and healthy boundary. I think the only time it isn't appropriate is if there is previous infidelity, and reduced privacy was part of the required compromise.
If they haven't given you a reason not to trust them, this isn't a red flag its a healthy boundary.
Run! A guy at this age should know better and you at this age should also know better that he's not the last man on earth and you should not be his Mother. Please, RUN!
Don't bother. You can do better.
BTW, he hasn't divorced his wife. That's why he's dragging his feet.
She's acting a whole lot like a projecting cheater ?
leave him, cheaters should rot in hell
If you’re engaged and living together then you need to stop thinking of the money as “mine” and “his”
Why not make it “ours” and then none of this shit matters?
I make over $100,000 more than my wife, but I have never once thought of it as “ my “ money. Not since the day we moved in together. She has made more than me at times too. It’s “ours” and we have never argued about who pays what because it all comes from the same place.
You can still have your own account and can move a certain amount over monthly or whatever. I like mine for gifts so she doesn’t know what I bought her.
Maybe it’s not something that works for you, I don’t know. I just know that when you start to think of everything, including money, as “ours” it makes life a lot easier.
Like the car. Youre engaged!!! That’s more like a family car. If the payment came from “our” money then it would never have been an issue. I bet if it was your car to begin with you never you have had payment expectations tied to it. He is transactional and he needs to change his way of thinking
Your mom is taking out her grief on you and your unborn child. Has she been in therapy? Now might be a good time for you both to have a heartfelt talk about grief and moving on…