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Just break up and save both of you guys any future wasted time.
Just try to communicate your schedules and follow your education. And most importantly, make time for yourselves and each other.
She didn't say cheek, she said neck. This is someone who clearly isn't bothered by what constitutes sexual assault.
Holy do womens minds ever drive me crazy. You’re garbage break up with your bf and go get fucked around by your ex. Just leave your bf already so hes not waisting his time.
I did. I freed them as soon as my bra felt too constrictive. Me being comfortable was more important than being dressed properly.
i mean yall talked abt this at the beginning of the relationship, you absolutely can and i personally would leave.
It sounds like you aren’t compatible and you should find someone with a good work ethic that you can respect.
DO NOT CONTACT THE BF. She blocked you dude. Take a hint. If she wants to talk to her friend she will. Stop being a stalker.
First off, it wasn’t like it was anything that she was doing. It was like on those days her flaws were just more noticeable to me.
You're sounding pretty dull, sorry to be harsh. It's like wondering can you be a crackhead without being addicted to Crack. Does not compute. Not sure how old you are because of the naivety of how you're sounding, but this isn't okay. You basically enabling him is not okay. The fact that you're willingly dating someone that is endangering people on the road over and over is not okay. Obviously deeper problems are at work here. Please get help and get therapy and dump him in this process. Best of luck.
I’ve just accepted that I’m weak and he’s gonna do what he wants.
And some people can fuck women who would consider you below their standards.
There’s always a bigger fish, you know?
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Thank you so much for actually helping instead of trying to put all the blame on me like the first responder did lol
And this is his basic outfit?
Seems weird that he'd be concerned about how you dress when he's wearing basically the same thing.
I would just say very firmly – “I need you to stop commenting on the way I dress, it makes me uncomfortable”. And when he responds with “I'm not trying to make you uncomfortable but… whatever.” You say again. “I understand that you don't want to make me feel uncomfortable, but you commenting on my outfits does just that, so if you don't want to make me uncomfy, you need to stop.”
If he does it again, you say – “I've asked you to stop commenting on my clothing, and you aren't doing that.”
And then there has to be a breaking point. “I've asked you multiple times to stop commenting on my clothes, it makes me feel very uncomfortable. I do not think it truly affects you at all. But, I do not want to hang around you while I'm uncomfortable, so I'm going to go home now. We can hang out tomorrow.”
Unless y'all on-line together, you can't do that last part. And that's where you just have to keep shutting him talking about it. “I understand you think it's harmless, but it's not. It's making me uncomfortable. Please stop.” “I'm walking away from this conversation because it's making me uncomfortable” “I'm uncomfortable by this conversation and it's really easy for you to make me feel comfortable and you don't seem to be willing to do that. Please stop.” ” Let me know when you are ready to stop taking about my outfits”
“if you do this thing for me I promise we won't fight anymore” is manipulation. it's a huge red flag. it's a sign of the beginning of an emotionally and psychologically abusive realtionship. get out while you can and keep your friends.
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I think the way too young is in reference to the addict ex, not OP.
You've been dating for 3 years, and the last “couple” of years have been no sex? I think her choice of attire is way down the list of problems the two of you have.
no? if a girl was obsessively following a man around his house as he sobbed and begged to be left alone while trying to escape I can't think of a single person who would have a problem with her being pushed out of his personal bubble? in fact every time theres one of these situations posted they get way MORE support because “omg a male victim theyre never ever evverrr believed but we all believe you!” even though that's really not reality it's just abuse victims in general are always doubted but men are convinced it's because theyre a man that they're not instead of the fact that its abuse victims in general. the ven diagram of people who don't believe male victims vs the people who don't believe woman victims is a circle.
Yes… this is part of what I was saying when I said she always has something negative to say.. talking to somebody won’t help her. She took anti depressant pills for a week and they didn’t help her (even though I told her that it must be consistently take for at least 6 weeks to work). She always seems to have a negative response for everything I suggest.
Not overthinking but rather expecting her to read your mind / think like you. If you communicate that you want the care and company she might have cancelled.
It’d be nice if he was sweet with me even if I didn’t spend hours getting ready
Honestly, just tell him that. You guys are young, he likely isn’t even aware of the time investment and psychology of wearing makeup. Tell him you loved how much attention he gave you the other day, and you’d love it if he could share his complimentary thoughts more often.
Never going into a relationship hoping to change the person “for the better”. You're often taking on lost cause.
Right? Like…girl how low is your self worth?
OP was talking about a relationship with his father not with his father's wife.
Dude, that's so far and away from a “love languages” issue(which again, they're only a conversation starter, so this isn't possible) that's the point. So asking us how to help resolve that won't get you a single answer that can do any good for you.
It's like asking how to help score a goal in soccer, when you're playing football; any answer you get won't help you solve your problem.
This is a massive communication issue, and she's withdrawing emotionally. You need to get into relationship counselling, so that someone can work with you during these conversations, to ensure what each of you need can be considered and worked towards. You're two silos at the moment, and you can't resolve anything from there.
I don’t wanna throw away almost a decade relationship.
OP there's no relationship to save at this point. HE PUT A GUN TO YOUR HEAD. It's your life or clinging to a dangerous, abusive, rage-filled alcoholic who is on a very short path to killing you.
Please reach out to the police, a domestic violence hotline, a family member, ANYONE who will help you get out of this situation. Your life is worth more than this.
Why did you get married after only a year?
Do you both have the mental capacity of a rotten melon? I feel bad for whatever kid y'all have if you are both this mentally deficient.
That's good that he does have friends. Perhaps he should socialize a little bit more, but some ppl are to themselves. Women are typically more social than men though
They are 23/24. Their frontal lobes aren’t fully formed yet.
thank you so much, I've decided I'm gonna ask her to lunch as friends and see what happens
Perhaps he doesn't want to talk about his thoughts and feelings. Perhaps he prefers to talk about work or games.
Keep with the plan to move back to your mom with both kids. Talk to a lawyer about getting child support when you get there.
I didn’t read all the comments, but I’ve never been comfortable walking around the house in minimum shorts and a shirt prior to kids or even marriage come to think of it. Really interesting topic that I’ve never considered. Honestly man, not too sound rude, but is it truly a “comfort” debate or a “it’s my house” debate.
I suppose the actual question is: is it worth the arguments and potentially losing your girlfriend to wear a shirt and shorts vs boxers and no shirt? If it’s just more of a “non serious” relationship just tell her to leave.
However, you probably wouldn’t be on Reddit about if if that was the case. If the love of my life asked me to wear a shirt because it made the TV picture more vivid I probably would. I just don’t think it’s a battle worth fighting.
And trust me… there will plenty of battles that are coming that you could use this as ammunition for.
“Remember when you didn’t like me walking around with no shirt on.. and I saw your point of view? Well you need to give a little on this one because it’s only fair.”
Tell him to spray his asscrack 5 times a day bye
I get what you mean, but most of the time he's fine. It's usually pointless lies like a story or something and he was a lot worse when I met him (which was in 2020 so he was the awkward age of 15 mind you) but I don't know.
Same as how some women look chic and French with a sharp bob haircut, and some look like Karens.
Exactly. Keeping a man around that you don't love because he's a paycheck is just shitty. It's called using people. OP deserves to get dragged in the comments.
Let’s look at the outcomes: 1. She is treating me respectfully, which is a key pillar in a relationship. 2. This behavior, which was quite frequent, hasn’t happened in quite some time. 3. When the behavior does occur, she is quick to see her behavior for what it is, DISRESPECT, and apologize, and we get back to working together to get chores done without bad feeling. 4. It doesn’t appear that she is after the fact harboring resentment that I am manipulating her; in fact her mood is typically quite normal whereas if she had treated me disrespectfully in the past it may have ruined the day for both of us.
But, you can believe whatever you need to, to justify your own relationship behaviors.
Dating is a time to decide if two people are compatible. It's okay to decide you are not. The question to ask would be -is this how I want to on-line my life.
The healthiest thing for YOU to do is to walk away now. This is not a situation you want to get involved in, and him spending nights there is either they are sleeping together or she's is manipulating him into staying one way or another. If that is the case she will continue to do so, using the baby as the way to do it for the rest of his life, unless he puts a stop to it which rarely happens. Save yourself the long term heartache, and leave now before it hurts even worse to do so. Good luck, and I'm sorry.
I have no idea if he’s doing it intentionally. But clearly if he’s been doing it his whole life, it’s because on some level he thinks it gets him what he wants.
Would definitely be worth drawing a line. Maybe he’s willing to stop if you explain that it’s abusive?
Otherwise yeah. No bueno.
Dude I'd stop fighting everyone in this sub and start thinking of the apology you need to write your girlfriend before she discovers this on TikTok or Spotify.
Assuming you actually love your girlfriend. Because so far, everyone has told you you're in the wrong, you've ignored everyone, and your responses, if they're real and you're not an actual troll, will spread like wildfire.
You came here for help, yet you aren't willing to acknowledge it. Maybe this isn't the place for you if you came for advice and are unwilling to see how you're the problem.
Things like
inviting him to hang out one on one
implying I wasn't a supportive parter
complimenting him saying he was a strong and resilient person
latching onto his interests and claiming she had the same hobbies – river rafting, camping, video gaming, rock climbing. Like cmon you don't have ALL the same things in common, you just want him to like you
Just all makes me suspect her
It’s not shitting on other people pointing out that having “friends” that you slept with in the past even though you are now in a committed relationship is inappropriate and disrespectful to the new partner. It crosses a boundary that should be set.
Quando Finisce Cosi.
Lawyer, you need a lawyer.
Your dad is a bully who actively supports discrimination. If you support him then so do you. People who stand by and do nothing when someone acts like this are not any better than the bully themselves.
This. He is being incredibly selfish. He thinks his time is more important than yours. He shouldn’t have to rate it doing chores but you do?
He doesn’t respect you enough to keep himself clean for intimacy but enjoys the benefit of having a partner who does take care of personal hygiene
Great that he’s funny. But will you still be laughing when you have a child together and realise you’re actually looking after 2?
Sorry this happened to you and I hope you get thru this. I'm just trying to help…look into EMDR sub on reddit delves into it..as it might help you.
Leave. Don't put your health at risk for anyone else.
On principle it's a reasonable request, but your strategy isn't going to work unless you can get the other adult kids to join in. Otherwise, the “grownups” are just going to accuse one or two protestors as throwing tantrums, and it will justify their stance in their minds. You've got to unionize!
Idea: If you can afford it, propose a separate vacation for all the adult kids.
Perhaps instead of making excuses for this episode AND for her, you should man up and defend your child from growing up in an aggressive, untrusting and violent home.
You have good insight. This is a you problem. You would love it if he didn’t talk with her. It’s worrisome that you get low every time he mentions her. All you have control over is you. You don’t believe that he doesn’t still have feelings and I would agree. Most people you will date will have friends that are female. It’s normal. What’s a bit dicey is that he’s still attached to a woman he once loved. He may not be the one. It’s early days. If he chooses time with her over time with you, he’s definitely not your person.
*when he learn that he punched me. -I become friends with a girl, and he threatened to rape her *
Worst thing he do so far. One day we go to a trip in summer. During the night he touched some intimate parts of me without my consent and obligate me to seeing his penis despite me telling him i dont want it.
He was not a bad guy
Yeah naw, he absolutely was a “bad guy”
Our flat contract ends in June! Have definitely learnt the hot way that the whole 'don't shit where you eat' saying is incredibly true haha
Lol thank you!!! Haha thanks for the humor !!
Maybe he’s the guy touching up married chicks
You can't fix your friend if that is what you are asking. He is who he is. If he wants to change he'll get help to do so.