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Date: February 9, 2023
What complicated things is that she knows my current girlfriend and has suddenly become very interested in her (current gf's) life. So much so that the current gf says “sort out your previous relationship, I don't want to be a part of whatever unsolved issues you guys have”.
I don’t think you need to do anything different to what you’re doing. Sounds like he feels safe and comfortable already.
You deserved it cause wtf was that.
She is for the streets. Leave her for good.
It’s so sad that you’re waiting for a man to make a decision about your life and where it’s headed and you’re even changing things about yourself to help him make the decision.
lol whaaa? nah for real it felt kind of high School-ish like behavior you like she only wanted me once I truly wasn't available.
You need to revisit your definition of “responsible” because every choice you’ve made regarding this person has been anything but that; this one included.
Yes reading this makes me wonder if he truly finds her beautiful or attracted to her. Because yes there's something he can do to increase the chances of melanin deficient children…be with a light skinned woman.
He has a lot of introspection to do. His way of thinking is detrimental to many
Sorry, but I I laughed out loud reading this. Your girl sounds like an absolutely insufferable arse. What a cartoonish character.
Leave and never look back, in a couple of years she’ll be a funny story you tell your friends.
To me they should never had needed to say anything.
The fact he did something that required them to say stop, means he broke their trust, showed them disrespect and is disgusting.
Thanks for the advisee, I’m gonna consider it. I really like her and believe that she is a good and kind person and want to give this a real chance. But it’s very hot to row a boat alone. I don’t really have a time limit but I like the concept of giving her time and also having some type of time limit.
Standards aren't always about money, status, or physical appearance.
Sounds like he needs distance and therapy
i think u might be right, i think it might be a defence mechanism because hes done this in the past when we had arguments over text or over call.
i tried to control my emotions but it was a pretty fresh wound and the situation that i was crying abt happened that morning. i do agree i am an emotionally sensitive person and he is a quiet nonchalant kind of guy. thanks this response helped me see it in a different perspective
No
Very inappropriate, I'd be asking questions like why was he calling her, and why he is comfortable enough to contact her via video call at 3am. Sounds like there more to him and ex Co worker. Or was more, that why he trying to ring like a love sick puppy. I couldn't be wrong.
But either way very sus and inappropriate.
Go as a guest, have an amazing time, then back burner your friend.
I was thinking “okay maybe he is just flirting but is too awkward around it” since you didn't really give any examples, but “can you at least describe what your butt looks like?” had me do an 180.
If you felt uncomfortable, expressed that, and he never acknowledged it, you would've been 100% in the right to block him right then and there.
Needless to say, you're still in the right to have done that when you did.
In the future, I suggest not wasting your time on people who “show some signs of growth” if they gaslight you, walk over your boundaries, and/or outright tell you “hey I want to manipulate you (put up a persona) to get something out of you”.
Just block them if it comes to that, you can't help change them if they don't want to change.
It's up to you. Personally it would be a deal breaker and if she doesn't care about how it makes you feel, then you should leave her
thank you for this. this is the first time in awhile that i’m allowing myself to feel hurt instead of bottling up so it’s kind of foreign and overwhelming
You aren’t choosing the dress over him. You’re choosing freedom and your bodily autonomy.
I was 24 when I got with a guy who hated when I wore “unnatural” makeup. Even though I had just discovered my absolute love for red lipstick. I stopped wearing it for over 3 years. The first time I put it back on after the breakup, I felt so much lighter, happier, and like me again. My partner now encourages me to wear whatever makes me happy now. And compliments me whatever I wear, revealing sexy clothes, heavy makeup, anything that makes me happy.
You’re 19. You’re too young to be held back by someone like him. The right guy will not only “let” you, but encourage you, to dress however you like.
Op your GF is encouraging her coworkers actions. If she didn’t want the attention she would distance herself from him and not play this game. She clearly likes the attention and wants him to continue it. She’s playing with fire and your going to get burned.
What are you waiting for? For her to cheat? Lie to you? I mean this behavior is enough to leave over.
You deserve better.
Let. Her. Go.
Son, you don’t want this shit. Trust me. Please.
Oh he removed it. Guess he didn’t like the ano
he has been a great partner until this. I can't think of any other selfish or inconsiderate behaviour.
Please factor into this equation those first few months after you moved in together where it was “awkward” because he expected sex all the time. How difficult or fraught was it to talk through that stuff? Did he push back, did he get sullen and punish you emotionally when he wasn't getting his way back then? During these years, have you been having any sex that has been only for him? You know, the kind where you're not actually in the mood but do it to keep the “relationship healthy”. Just saying, you already have 2 situations where there was a problem with him expecting sex and being oblivious to the reality that you were living in. Will he pressure you, then ignore you when you are exhausted, touched out, and hormonally disinclined to have sex while caring for a baby?
This makes the naive solution mire likely but the devil is in the detail and there's a whole list of things you would need to know. I'm assuming you are posting on here because you are struggling to accept what you were told?
I'm not here for word games. I wish you the best of luck. I suggest breaking up with your girlfriend for her mental health. Good bye.
Friend also texted her to never contact him again
I try to keep any issues I have to myself or when I do reach out to people I always argue his side as well as my own so I’m not being biased when asking for advice. I think by doing this though I downplay my own feelings a lot, so some of how I feel like a secondary person in this relationship is genuinely on me.
So how do I get out without making it seem like everything he’s doing is fucking with my internal self?
I don’t understand the question. You just end it. Who cares what it “seems like”? Just tell him it’s not working for you, and it’s over. You don’t need his agreement and you don’t need to convince him (or anybody) your reasons are valid. “I’m not happy” is reason enough. No reason is reason enough.
I don’t know what “dangerously beautiful” means or what it has to do with wanting to be your authentic self, but yes, that’s something we all want, even we merely “reasonably attractive” mortals.
Regardless of what is affecting him, he doesn’t respect you enough to apologize for his behaviour and continues to treat you poorly. Do not consider kids if things have escalated this much. Give him an ultimatum, it’s either you or the testosterone. If he doesn’t improve without it leave. I had a friend who took testosterone and they were unbearable and abusive in their romantic relationship and had a short fuse, but the underlying real issue was their shitty personality because they didn’t seek therapy and blamed other people. Consider what he’s doing to you and the fact he has no remorse because it speaks tons!
Gives me big “nope” vibes. Wtf is his problem… really weird and mean. Red flag.