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anytime u have to ask this question u were assaulted
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You referred to him as emotionally abusive and a terrible partner and bad father in other posts. why in the world do you want to stay with him?
It’s different for everyone.
I took about 18 mos off after filing for my divorce (cheating on me with a man in fact).
When I was ready to date again, I got on tinder. I had a 2 day chat policy then planned a coffee or drink meet up for like 30 min. You can know pretty fast if there’s a connection.
In two months I went on about 25 first dates (coffee or drinks) 10 second dates (dinner or similar) and one 3rd date that was basically all day at an air show I wanted to go to and weather was horrible. 3rd date guy is my partner of 5 years now.
Take time to heal. Take time to reconnect with yourself and get happy alone so a relationship is icing on the cake, not the cake itself.
You can do this. I was 39 when I was doing my divorce. It sucked of course but it didn’t ruin me.
One of my best friends and her husband (bf at the time) went through the same thing a few years ago. My friend put on a significant amount of weight and they had some intimacy issues because of it, often time a month or two without sex when prior to that they were having sex almost every day. They had a heart to heart to why the reason and he told her straight up something along the lines of “you used to take care of yourself and you just haven't lately. Your weight gain makes me not attracted to you sexually anymore even though I still love you very much”.
My friend was hurt really bad by this but she was determined to make it work and she respected his honesty. She started eating healthy again and went to the gym 5 times a week and she never got back to her original weight, but she did shed some pounds and got into a much healthier weignt.
Most of our friend group was the same as a lot of this thread. Suggesting she leave him and that he should love her unconditionally. But she was determined to make it work and their relationship is as healthy as its ever been. They've been married for a year and expecting their first kid next month.