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Date: October 10, 2022
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You’re all over the place with these replies. In some you seem to recognize that uncomfortable and inappropriate mean different things and you would be apologizing to your wife for using inappropriate.
Now you’re “lol” and mental gymnastics, typical snide Reddit comment. What do you mean by ‘inappropriate’ if not in a way that implies there is something sexually inappropriate about it?
Fucking what? Okay. I've read some comments too, so i have a lot of opinions here. This is not love and this is not okay.
You aren't a sweet guy that likes a girl if you are in on a gross bet and compete. You aren't a sweet guy if you let a bunch of men go after an 18 yr old girl like that, not telling anyone to stop or warning the girl. Sweet guys don't do something so vile as to manipulate an 18yr old girl into thinking you care just to have sex and you certainly don't suddenly change because you love her now. You especially dont do all of that, carry on a relationship and MARRIAGE like that bet never happened, and even agree to see all those people again. You especially dont bring your wife they all wanted to “teach a lesson to” with “sex”. To add to the unlikelihood he is any different than he was when he made that bet, he never told you, warned you, dumped those idiots/told them they're disgusting…. He tried to cover it up, knowing it was wrong (clearly) but not wrong enough to do anything about it for years.
Secondly, your brother made fun of you (as an adult wtf) and threw you to the wolves. Do you know what could have happened? This is so vile. There was no regard for your safety. They see you as an object. There has been no action taken to rectify this behavior and no one has shown any regard for your safety, happiness, or well being.
I am so so sorry this happened to you. I wouldnt want someone like this near a kid. 18 is just legal, there's no real maturity there. Seeing an 18 yr old girl and thinking sex will somehow teach her a lesson for… being arrogant? Sick. Absolutely sick.
TIL semblance is an actual word and it's not just people being too lazy to pronounce resemblance
As per usual, huband complains wife gained weight- Reddit tears husband to shreds. But when it's wife complains husband gained weight- Reddit sympathizes. Just another example of a rampant bias on relationship_advice. Sorry OP. I feel for you. Unfortunately, this is like the girls on Tinder who require a certain height, but act offended when men do the same with weight.
lol
yeah that makes perfect sense thank you, I appreciate it
If I were you I’d block him there’s no point in being sweet to someone who directly says that they don’t care about your wants, needs, or the experience you have with them. This guy is dangerous and expects that you can’t see the hazard because of your inexperience. He’s telling you who he is please believe him!
You can’t love people into being good. You CANT.
I don't understand why he or his mom are confused. Of course your family doesn't like him. He has a lot of work to do to change the terrible impression he left. He acted like a moody teenager, not a 30 year old that wants to make a good impression. And uh if you're not allowing him to bite you anymore, it seems like one of you realized it was crossing a line to decide to stop. And knowing you had bite marks, why would you be so careless to just have it on display? This is a mess
Just break up with her. She would have no issue doing it to you. Your 19. Move on and actually be happy without compromises.
Find someone who loves you more than just for what your body is. Her comment doesn't strike me as someone that has a lot of care, not just love, for you.
Thank you for that insight. Any advice perhaps on making this normal girl friend group?
Are you sure you aren't projecting or extrapolating? It seems pretty odd that every single place you work they are “out to get you”. Could it be that you just aren't used to dealing with a wide variety of people and personalities? Are you being overly sensitive?
I personally don’t drink and he’s always been adamant that he doesn’t really drink either. However I wasn’t aware he was drinking on his shifts, or after work with coworkers. When he does drink around me he can’t seem to control himself and often doesn’t know when to stop. Hence the discussions / boundaries we put in place for not drinking alone with people of the opposite gender. He also said he would of personally been very uncomfortable if I was doing those things also.
However, when I asked why he felt it was ok this time, he started talking about his ex always doing it and him thinking it wasn’t such a serious issue if he did the same in our relationship? Since in his last relationship that behaviour was normal (drinking alone, going back to a person of the other genders house). But in the last he’d also told me he suspected his ex was cheating on him when she did those things? So the thing honestly just makes no sense and he just seems to get very defensive. I’m not her afterall and have completely different boundaries which I’ve been super clear on?
Sounds fake af. He blew up over literal cookies then the next day made a bunch of passive aggressive comments? This is the sort of story a teenager would attempt to pass for a creative writing assignment.
Hes a douche
Not many people would be better off illiterate, OP, but your boyfriend is one of them.
He's rare
OP. Respect yourself more.
That’s uhhhhh…highly controlling.
Please seek therapy and allow him to masturbate wherever he feels safe.
Imagine a man accusing you of that, wow.
But he is only talking to them? Or is he flirting?
This guy is a clown. Why are you still there?
What in the actual fuck, prese charges? Lesson here folks, dont stick your dick in crazy. You might get yourself one of these.
lying about birth control is a ruse. that makes it fall under this statute
Yeah, I'm pretty much already over it now that it's a new day! SO much better to be single now and open to new connections with people who are likely more compatible with me.
All it takes is him THINKING that his future wife cheated. He doesn't need proof to go off the deep end. Imagine one of his friends, or someone that's jealous of you (or whatever scenario you want to create) doesn't know this is how he thinks, and messes with his head. Now he's drunk and angry. Break up with him and don't let him know where you're moving to. You don't need this energy in your life.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them. Move on.
So she lay there crying all night and you said nothing? She probably thinks you won't change considering you've done this like ten times.
I feel like he stole something
I commend you for taking the comments seriously. What you are describing is sadly so common – and as another commenter said, it's even worse for men because everyone around them have these expectations of “masculinity” which includes suffering through anything without complaint or showing weakness. Unfortunately, that's not how any human works, and luckily we are getting better and better at recognizing it and encouraging men especially to reach out and get help.
It doesn't make you weak at all. It takes a LOT of strength to go against your programming and community, and a LOT of strength to tear the masks off your inner demons. But it is 100% worth it, and just by being brave enough to ask this question and listen to the replies, you can be that man who tells the next man that it's OK to get help, that it doesn't make you less of a man.
You should talk to someone. I know that can feel naked and scary and overwhelming but it’s the first step to figuring out what’s going on and how you want to move forward.
They said they could give me money monthly to help, but insist I stay home with my child so that she has me during her most important years, according to them. My Mom worked a lot when I was a toddler and she wishes she hadn't and had more time with me at that age. Which I get, being able to watch my daughter grow every day is wonderful, but it's at the cost of my own growth. From what I'm told, that's just part of being a parent.
You mean zoom in on the Sea of tranquility on the moon? my phone does that. And iphones are trying really naked to catch up but they do a pretty good job at taking clear videos. Op said the girl in the video talked, did it even sound like the gf? Sounds to me like projecting, these girls are trying to get ahead of the story with their own “version”
Wait. She posts a picture of herself at wine bar or sister does? They did not need to do that. That was a message for you or they really couldn’t give a flying monkey’s about people. Cut them from your life. There are plenty of toxic people and those two are an example. A simple phone call excusing herself was all it would have taken. If MOH was too upset, sister could have phoned you. Do you think they did not see all those missed calls? Did they care about you and you day? No.
Just so you know women also fantasize about people they know. It’s more common than you know. But it’s one thing to fantasize about another person in your head and actively pleasuring yourself to photos of the person. It’s that act that changes everything.
Dude I said in other comments, she makes the exact same jokes to me.
That’s my instinct too. It sounds like fiancé doesn’t have issues but it’s only been two years, it’s possible something bad happened between him and your brother and you don’t know it.
Find a private time to meet with brother and ask him why he’s distancing himself, make it clear that he can tell you anything.
The second one
You've got to be trolling how does the first one sound good at all
OP are you sure he has the best intentions? It seems has all he wants right now. Is that all you want?
Did you ask her why it was more okay to hurt your feelings rather than her bfs?
Huh, I didn't see that way…
Also, we weren't seeing each other seriously yet, and he prioritized skiing twice. I don't think it was very considerate on his end imho