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Guys who ask me to go out, really, I say yes to all of them because I'm always up for meeting new people
First of all, I’d like to point out that a school is not just a school, it does matter where you get your education from.
You sound very selfish and self centered. I almost sense that you’re having his baby to lock him down so that you can have him all for yourself. He has a daughter, of course he’s going to prioritize her! You should’ve known that before getting involved with him. Work on yourself and grow up please, your son needs a mother.
Of course I fucking care about her, why do you think I got angry when she texted with a guy ? Because I love her and I don’t want her to talk a other guy. If I didn’t care about her I wouldn’t have been jealous. I know I’m a piece of shit but I seriously love her. I need her.
Life is nude and people are complicated. Religion complicates it further. All we can do is learn our lessons along the way. Good luck with whatever you choose to do. Just please be true to yourself ?
As a woman, that isn't a thing. Women don't download Tinder to find pen pals or “friends.” I think you already know what is going on here and you probably just needed some other people to tell you that you're not crazy or unreasonable. Also, I'd take her up on her offer to read those messages, at least before I broke up with them.
Luckily the house and everything is in my name, I have my own career and money etc. So it's not like I'd be starting from scratch. Thank you.
Is your girlfriend on birth control? If yes, maybe she should talk to her doctor about switching to a different brand/method. When I first started on the pill, I think I became a legit crazy person for a bit. I think birth control can majorly affect women's mental and emotional states, especially during periods.
When my husband and I decided to start trying for a baby, he told me he actually noticed a huge difference in me and my attitude overall, that my emotions were less extreme even during my periods. Once we had our son and knew that we didn't want anymore kids, he decided to get a vasectomy instead of having me go back on birth control. I used to get angry so easily, and now we rarely ever have fight.
Well we are in the moving on from childhood trauma section so I will definitely be processing it soon 🙂
OP is toxic don’t you know
Propose to him or stop whining. I can’t with the misogynistic bullshit anymore.
Tell your friend face to face . She should not be reading those emails. My wife wanted access to my phone. I said no and you have a phone of your own. You can use your own
I asked a guy our and dated him for 3 months, then I broke up with him bc he was being too much of a puppy dog and never showing me what he actually wanted. We were then friends for 6 months, and during that time he didn’t care as much what I thought of him bc he was pissed at me. Then I asked him out again. He thought about it for a few days, including asking me what changed, and I explained that, so he said yes. We’ve now been together 20 years.
You sound like you don’t want to breakup you love her but you feel pressure that the relationship is going super fast due to the circumstances. I’ll say give time and see how things would developed
Dude this guy got you set up to get what he wants… get you fed, so you’re happy, get you some whiskey to make you a bit tipsy, and then make the move. Nude make out session, and BAM!!! Try to go for the BJ! Forcing your head down…? LOL that’s a bit out there. Maybe the other girls he does this to just go along with it. You seem like the type that knows what you like and don’t like. Slapping the body parts is a total porn move. He thinks that women like it obviously. He seems like he wants to get it on with you. Not sure if you’re looking for a long term, but I don’t think this guy is lol
I’m in my 40’s and would absolutely not want to start over. I want my life back at some point. I don’t want to have kids living at home in my 60’s. Dear god, it sounds like a nightmare. But if that’s what you want, you do you. You’re the one who has to on-line it.
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Haven’t you already asked her this question?
Omg girl, RUN FROM THIS MAN
I can't see with all those red flags around.
Hm, I suppose not. It just seemed the most straightforward at the time. But I have friends we can stay with too.
I can imagine that would be a challenging situation for you and your partner to deal with. But it’s so good that you’re able to build a boundary there and maintain those relationships, this is really good advice thank you x
You feel torn because that’s exactly the intent of emotional manipulation. That’s literally why people do it. To make their target feel torn, and to make them choose to go against their best interests.
If she is in a bad place, you call her parents and tell them. Or you call your local police non-emergency line, and report her as suicidal and request they check on her.
This way she will learn that her emotional manipulation doesn’t work on you. And who knows? Maybe she’ll get some real help from people qualified to help her.
Get her out of your life.
So you must be stepped on to avoin being seen as mean?
Tell your ex to forget your number, that you don't care for him enough to forgive him.
Block him if it's needed, and don't let your future relationships have an unwanted opinion about YOUR past.
Always look out for #1. You’re happiness is the priority. Leave and don’t look back, trust me when you find Mr right it will be way worth it in the end and I’m sure your family will understand.
Ooft I would give a dude like ten minutes grace and I’m Then long gone. Jeez. The bs people put up with never fails to shock me.
It creates massive miscommunication between people. Actual gaslghting is a horrific thing to experience.
It's no different than someone saying “I was raped”, and then after you've given them a lot of empathy you discover that someone pinched their bum.
Without ANY further information that is just absolutely bonkers to say.
Maybe he got into a serious accident, you don't know. But hey, let's assume you're single because you did not hear from him for 12 hours.
You simply don't know the reason for why he did not show up. There could be a million valid reasons. But yeah, assume you're single after 12 hours of no contact no matter the reason.
I sure hope you're not in a committed relationship.
She sounds kinda toxic in this situation… Getting upset because you're upset – why? Does she know you're mad because of her pushing you into the food and also not apologising? If so, it's weird, first thing one usually does when they realise they've upset someone they care about is apologise, no? So it sounds like she is trying to shift the blame… You two should talk about that at some point, but I doubt she would listen.
You shouldn't have wiped it onto her though, that's just escalating it further. Even if you think she deserved it. But that's (based on this post) all you should apologise for. Maybe for cheating in the game, too, but I doubt she cares about that.
And that last comment from her is needlessly and intentionally hurtful. She basically called you ugly. What kind of partner does that? I get that mean things get said in fights, but if she doesn't apologise for any of it, I think it's safe to say you can expect more behaviour like that from her. So if she keeps doubling down and/or refuses to take the blame for her actions (as you should for yours, and ONLY yours – don't accept blame for what you didn't do), since you can't change the type of person she is, I'd recommend breaking up.
So, in practical terms: after you two cool down somewhat, talk to her and tell you what made you upset. Aplogise for being mean, but emphasize the ways she was being mean too, and tell her you want a sincere apology. If she continues to act like this despite having time to cool down, you apologising for your share of blame, and being directly told what the problem was – after you've taken every reasonable step to make up – then I think there's little to no chance of the relationship working out. You cannot carry all the weight in the relationship, and there's no reason to keep up with the toxicity if she doesn't even want to apologise, let alone try to change.
Yea i agree but i feel like stupid he dont love me at all but he i know he did but i cant understand how fast he erase me guess he left for good and i want to hate him because it hurts so bad i thought he was the one but i dont know thank you
I don't want my wife to know because she will just get dramatic over it.
Than don't meet your ex at all. Keeping secrets about meeting ex-spouses is never a good idea. Never. Especially when the ex also wants to keep this a secret from her husband.
Op I’m sorry for what you’re going thru. He is a very selfish boy. A man would have been there for you. I’m sorry about your baby op.
Your bf is abusive and blaming everything on his ex. Just look at his behaviour. By staying you are letting your son think that this type of behaviour is alright. Walking away is okay. It let's your son know that this ain't okay behaviour and his future spouse will thank you for it.
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She isn't who you thought she was. You think there is a shield of anxiety to get to the core where she is the person you saw in texts. But who you saw is a reflection of who you wanted her to be. She is showing you that she is a very shy person. She won't ever be the kind of girl you like. Stop expecting her to change
BF sounds like a jerk. Doing this behind your back instead of voicing his concerns is highly passive aggressive. His failure to recognize how deeply in the wrong he is suggests a level of tone-deafness bordering on severe autism or Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
You aren’t wrong and you’re not going insane. Your BF just happens to be a complete jerk.
What is it that you would expect her to do for you?
You should take some cold medicine and go to bed. Do you want her to sit on the couch all night while you're in bed sleeping?
Your husband sounds highly manipulative. And yes, definitely a gaming addict. Also, threatening to leave instead of talking to you? After completely ignoring you the entire time? He needs help with his addiction if you want to save this marriage. If he refuses, then you are wasting your time. It’s only going to get worse and you’ll regret all the time you wasted waiting for him to see the light and get better. I know a couple where the addict was in complete denial and it ruined their marriage.
Red flags all around. Leave him.
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Honey, just tell him to take his break and make it permanent. That’s toxic, awful behavior. He has no right to judge you, or even question you, about things that happened prior to your relationship. From now on your body count is no one’s business but your own. Only an asshole who wants to either use it against you (high # in their opinion) or sees you as his and his alone will even ask. Keep your sexual past to yourself, and boot this dude out of your life.
Not sure why you broke up, but I can think of two reasons.
1) She wants her cake and eat it too. In other words, she wants you to be there for her and her son when she needs you but doesn't want an intimate relationship with you.
Or
2) She regrets the breakup and is using the kid to get you back.
In truth, both are emotional blackmail. It is smart to stay gone. Also, block her!
Yeah..he is such a dad
And can you in turn accept that many people believe that being non-binary is a lifestyle choice?
She emotionally cheated for sure, probably physically cheated, only told anyone when she got jealous that he had another girlfriend.
Petty me says be the squeakier wheel as in tell her but start bawling your ass off before you say it so that she’s forced to take care and comfort you. If she starts in you get louder. But that would be because petty me thinks her hyperventilating is a manipulation.
Thanks. I do feel like I am setting myself on fire to keep him warm all the time. He is a lovely, clever and interesting person but I just can't see him helping himself. He has a lot of issues resulting in a mental illness and I can't do it anymore
You better not keep that shit a secret dude
Why would you even want to hook up with someone like this?
Honey honestly it sounds like he used you to jerk off. He has no burning desire to take you from fantasy land to his reality land. Screw that ?.
Yeah, break up with her. Stay single for a while. Make sure the Turk girl is staying or able to stay. The US is very difficult to navigate for foreigners and she probably doesn’t have a lot of time to find a job and many jobs don’t want to pay for work visas.
But right now you’re being selfish with your current girlfriend. You can’t truly commit to her with or without this Turk girl in your life. Let her move on.
You'll get used to it, there's at least one every day. I feel like someone is trying to use really bad AI to write posts for this sub or some weird creative writing exercise
I trust them as they have always been honest about their intentions. They never lied to me in their lives
It is not in his best interest financially to get a divorce; simply bringing that up in conversation may scare him enough to relax with the penny pinching
Have him read “Die with Zero”, it may adjust his perspective
Are you unclear on the 'letting down easy' concept? If he had just said he doesn't want to hook up anymore, that is pretty blunt. He could be thinking you might not take that kind of cold honesty well, so he's trying to soften it.
Just a guess.
I'm not sure how you got 18-60. But some people don't have people throwing themselves at them. If you read my first post both relationship just happened. Due to past relationships my focus was work and improving my self ie going to the gym more and getting a better education.
If someone tries to stop you doing something that makes you really happy, they ain’t the one, period.
He chose to not speak up. You don't communicate, that's on you.
What about making them like a charm bracelet? Get her a small one for each gift giving holiday (get her something else small to keep it fresh), and collect them all in a book.
I asked her to delete the post from the group since it’s mortifying to have that posted in a fast growing group of 31,000 women in the area I own a business in and she did not delete it which is upsetting.
Not that I like it? As I said if it was for me I wouldn't do it at all or if I do it I have to be like 100% in the mood (which I rarely am). Me being a pillow princess is a result of sometimes having sex and not wanting it 100%. I try to be active but it's nude cyz u can't fake desire and I end up not doing much. I work only on 100% so if I'm not totally into it it's much harder to do anything.
If you got so drunk you can’t remember, your future credibility is definitely an issue.
Her getting this drunk, bet isn't the first time. She doesn't know her boundaries which can lead to unfavorable consequences for everyone around. Her not being sober enough at her party to shut it down to go to sleep to go to work the next day is a red flag. Her drinking this much without her boyfriend is a problem. Her actions were a problem. If the SA didn't happen, these are still problems. And if it did, these are still problems. That's the point.
So basically he’s just using you at this point ?
Romantic love can never segue into platonic love overnight. Of course he needs time to process the loss of the romance before he can even consider being “friends” with you. He can be friends with other girls because he's never had the complications of romance with them. Not sure why this isn't self evident to you.
Next tube she does it,Pack her a bag and ten her to go play games with him in person. Because you are done
…then don't agree to a threesome.
Ok guys we weren’t cuddling, when I say “laying down in my bed” that’s what it was, laying separated, just chilling, something we both do with other friends
Why would she respect you or any of your wishes, she cheated on you for 6 months with this guy and you still took her back.
As long as there are things you enjoy doing together then I don't think it's that bad. You want your partner to show a general interest in the things you like so just keep that in mind
Cool, just let her know that she didn't place in your top 3, but if she keeps working at it maybe she can next time.
So he has to do all the work when she has been dragging her feet in this issue?
Team up with her best friend to “pamper” your gf for her bday. If her friend is on board and supportive, there is very little chance of her turning it around negatively on you.
Setup the appointment with gf at least a week beforehand. And only after talking with her.
I'd suggest dinner with you two and her friend and bring it up then as part of her bday gift you want to plan with her.
Two instances is not a pattern yet, but it would be worth thinking about why you have gotten into this situation twice, especially given the poor results the first time.
Omg please stop…get a hold of yourself…don't let some girl destroy your soul…pick yourself up and dust yourself off…she wasn't the one…she was there for a lesson to be learned…find out what the lesson was and move on…you are still young…you will find the right one…give it time…sending positive vibes and hugs and damn I wish I can bring you some chicken soup for the soul… stay positive my reddit stranger friend.
If this is wildly out of character for her (both the sex drive and the threats to cheat) then I would suspect that this is a medical issue.
What you’ve said makes me wonder if this is a bipolar manic episode. (Not saying it is, not diagnosing her.)
Whatever is causing this, I would encourage you to get her some help before breaking up what was a good relationship until very recently. Any time someone has a sudden and unexplained personality change a medical assessment is always a good idea.
Uh, yeah, you didn't consent to fucking his brother. You were literally raped. Genuinely, I highly recommend you leaving. This is disgusting, diabolical behavior. Your husband had absolutely no fucking regard for YOUR wants and YOUR autonomy. He felt more bad for his nerdy virgin brother than he respects and considers you, and now he's trying to do it again?? So he once again cares more about his brother having a nut than your human agency and wants?? He's showing you how much he literally doesn't care about or consider your well-being.
Yeah, you need to leave. Your husband is fucking disgusting, and so is his brother. I can't even believe this.
Yep. Sounds like a garden variety trust fund jerk.
She isn't your girlfriend. You are her side piece/rebound.
I am sorry, buddy, but accept it and move on. You will be better off.
It’s not lack of sex, it’s lack of intimacy and caring that seems to be the issue. She not only refuses to put any effort into doing things for you, she actively negs anything you do enjoy. It’s almost as if her sole purpose in life is to drain everything pleasurable out of yours.
OP, open your eyes. Emotionally healthy people don't move in with a new partner just two months after ending a longterm relationship and they don't do that with someone they only just started dating. You probably should “confront” him and demand the truth, that you're a rebound distraction and that his true hope is that his ex gets her mental illness stabilized so they can continue their long relationship. It would be better to know so you can get your own life back on track rather than to just wait around for it to happen to you. This guy and this insane timeline you describe is just absolutely not the framework for a long and functioning union. Save yourself from their drama.
Bro ur 30. If you’re gonna date a kid u might have to buy her some ice cream. Lol
Nah I just want an opinion from someone it happened to, to weigh my options.
I'm not trolling – I'm completely serious.
Did this make u feel any better about yourself?
He doesn’t want to give the referral because I said we shouldn’t really be intimate or have sex if we’re not going to move forward together.
You definitely screwed up. Keeping old videos is wrong. Showing videos without someone’s permission is horrible. Not sure if she’ll break up or not. I am about positive you will never get the blow job that certain way from her because she will always believe you are thinking of your ex. Also doubt she’ll ever let you film her. Building trust is nude.
Possibly tell her you erased all old pictures and videos and let her go through your phone for proof.
Oh, good lord. Do you trust him, or don't you?
If you do, drop it. Maybe she made zero impression on him at all and he doesn't remember her being there. Maybe he forgot. If there were a bunch of people there, he just may not have interacted with her at all.
If you don't, then ask yourself why that is. It *sounds* like you don't trust him, because you're asking him questions apparently to trap him (asking him more than once who was there, already knowing the answer), and because you're immediately leaping to the conclusion that he deliberately didn't mention this other girl for some nefarious reason. What are you worried about? That he's interested in her? That he's cheating on you? What?
Being at a ball game with other people, some of whom are female, and not mentioning every single one of them by name, is not the hanging offence you seem to think it is.
I mean this kindly … please, for your own peace of mind, chill out 🙂
You should be dumped by your partner and fired from your job. You leave a lot to be desired.
I also do not buy that she was abused. It's all a little bit too convenient and the perfect situation to get op tied into her life.
Sometimes people drift apart. Sometimes you find out things about people after knowing them for years that you can’t reconcile. A 24yo woman not understanding boundaries and the difference between romantic and stalkerish isn’t something you can reconcile
I have adhd and this is….. nothing at all like my experience. I'm 34. Haven't been on meds for it in years. I have issues here and there, but cleaning? I clean weekly. I have a full time job. More often than not i have two jobs. I also have a medical marijana card and smoke every day… before AND after work.
This definitely sounds like he's using it as an excuse to me.
Because he doesn’t seem like a douche – he seems likes he’s trying. She’s insecure – accused him of cheating – but he’s sticking to her despite the cancer.
I have an ex who was pretty terrible all around, but one thing she told me that I still respect a lot was that if anyone shows up late to a first date after she’s already on the way to said date, she’d tell them don’t bother and cut things off entirely because they clearly don’t respect your time and thus, you. If I’m going to be late anywhere someone’s expecting me, you better believe I let them know well before they even begin getting ready. Life happens and plans can change sure, but this guy’s 36m. No offense, but he sounds like the type of guy that will just continuing disappointing you (at his age not having a career together, unable to coparent, or even have see his kid, and can’t even on-line on his own.) I’m really not trying to kick someone when they’re down, but he’s a grown ass man and he should’ve told you right away “I will not be able to make it tonight” or “money’s tight right now, would you mind a walk or just head to a beach or something?” There are ways to handle that with respect to you. You don’t just duck around and keep you on the hook hoping for, what? Money would just magically appear and he could take you out?
No, block him. He’s 36 and has a long, long pattern of irresponsible behavior based on everything you’ve listed. This guy will bring nothing positive to your life.
???? So that's the way you read that?
Funny.
Others do read: “Oh…that guy is inclined to make bad choices”.
Which he totally confirmed during your date.
You sound lije a sweet and romantic person. Inclined to see the best in others.
Which plays nasty tricks on you.
Luckily you got away with just your romantism a bit flustered. And no major harm done.
I mean, as i mentioned in my posts, im fine if in the end this cant be worked out. But at least i still want to befriend with her normally like we used to do.
Did he pay 25k cash up front, or did he finance it? Because if he financed it, I'm guessing the idea of doubling the monthly car bill has him balking.
I'm not sure why either of you are buying new cars. That's kind of objectively a bad financial decision. The moment you drive it off the lot, the value plummets dramatically. Why not buy a certified pre-owned with like 50k miles on it and save 5-10k?
OP might be depressed. This relationship isn’t pleasant to hear about… but besides the lack of intimacy, the passive aggressive replies to questions about it, the shallow explanations about marriage (he just doesn’t want to marry you, OP and he knows you’ll stay regardless) and the overall dull tone of the whole affair, it’s great!!!
Can you please go browse r/survivinginfidelity and r/AsOneAfterInfidelity for a few weeks and then get back to us with your thinking.
Cheating shatters lives. You have no idea how much pain lays behind what you are thinking. I think these other subs might give you some perspective.
Exactly. What brought you to this situation? Why she is not working?
Imagine if you did and some dude had a meltdown over it.
Over
I’m sorry but with all due respect you do you know what to do if you felt the same this wouldn’t even be a question the fact that you do not feel the same isn’t leading you to say that you don’t know what to do OK so my advice to you is tell your friend in an honest way that you were not down for the same kind of thing that they are down for but you can be their best friend
Yea a lot of people here are saying that like they've never been pushed to the edge. Everyone breaks because of stress sometimes or they have a totally pampered life I guess. The keys are if they realize it later and apologize. It apparently doesn't happen all the time. That'd be different. Having a bad day getting mad once is not abuse lol. People are robots nowadays I guess
I’m a believer that age makes no difference
Yet here is your own first hand experience, trying to tell you otherwise
Could it be that you are asking her about her wherabouts all the time?