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Date: October 20, 2022
Thank you.. I feel like it’s my fault for asking ??♀️ and that I shouldn’t of said that I want to lose weight because I put the idea in his head. But I’m not going to make excuses for him. I know what I’m gonna do, thank you so much for your advice xx
She crossed a line by even suggesting going poly for this guy. This isn't going away. She didn't want poly. She wanted your permission to sleep with him. She even let him talk to you to convince you that it was a good thing if she slept with him. This is so messed up.
She has violated the trust. There is no redemption, no fix for this. She will get “lonely”, the hots for someone and maybe she'll ask, maybe she won't, and you'll never know. How could you trust her again? Apparently she is easily swayed and has no moral compass. I would walk away' cause I can't be uncertain about my partner's loyalty.
Oh ok. Does he have the grandiose thinking?
Boundaries are what you do to keep yourself safe, not what people do for you. You and your bf have a conflict on where to dress. When in conflict, each side should share their perspective then listen and validate the other. After that, solutions that work for BOTH are explored and then implemented. He’s not interested in even understanding your side and dismisses it. That’s not ok. And do you understand and validate his perspective? Have you discussed alternatives? As for the boundary, that’s where you set a boundary that you don’t invite people over over if they fails to work with you to find a solutions you both can be comfortable with.
She doesn't see your daughter as her child, or perhaps more specifically, your deceased FIL may not have seen your daughter as his grandchild.
Bro wtf are you even talking about.
You are encouraging no one by showing up in the big list of “creeps I don't know” who are liking a girl's bikini posts.
I have in the past, it depends on the flow of conversation and the person but I have no problem speaking on it and also would prefer to know it if my potential partner so I can make decisions to further the relationship or not. Like it or not your past actions have lasting consequences
She went from sex positive and spiritual to misandrist real fuckin quick lol
YOU don't need to apologize. Your SISTER needs to beg on her knees for your forgiveness and tbh if I were you I'd go no contact with her at least until she changes her ways. She's 18 and should know better. If you husband truly loves you he should be mad af at your sister and not be mad at you because you were tricked and reacted based on that
This is actually very comforting to here thankyou
Sometimes I wonder if this stuff is legit, then myself too, when a girl shows me this I think she’s just being a teaser and friendly. ? I never like to assume.
So I feel this but as I got older I was about to tell apart. Still, oblivious seems fun too cause then you can see how much their gonna go out of their way. Hahaha
Just think of it this way….he's prioritizing buying sports cards over buying you, his supposed girlfriend an Xmas present..
I would show your boyfriend the post so you don’t have to have the pressure of saying to or write it down and have him read it if you don’t want to speak about it. I just don’t know how will he respond because what I have seen their are 3 different reactions that can happen 1 He probably will want to go and beat that brother up2 He will be at a lost and probably has no idea on how to respond or help 3 the asshole response he doesn’t believe you. Only you know him personally so you probably can guess the response he will give. But are you seeking medical or therapy? Don’t just sit in a room and let your thoughts run wild you will feel yourself go insane because so many different options and thought are goin to happen
You’re her emotional support animal. I would cut the cord and block her.
How crazy is it that calling someone you like is now considered a red flag lol?! I will say she's coming on a little strong after one date, but nothing here seems bunny boiler bonkers. It almost says more about today's dating scene than anything else considering most of this stuff would have been normal not too long ago. She might be happier with someone who's a little more enthusiastic about their feelings and he may need someone who's more reserved.
I guess I have to ask what your question is? She has lied, cheated, and disrespected you. The relationship you had is over.
Got it!
it was my responsibility as a woman to take care of our child…
Yep, this asshole is never changing a diaper. OP needs to plan out her future as a single parent.
You are unbelievably inspiring OP. Know that a lot of people would be frightened in your position and return back to the comfort of familiarity, but you are choosing to do something that will change your life for the better. I’m incredibly proud of you. If you need anything feel free to dm me. May all of the love and happiness you deserve shine your way❤️?
wait there’s an option written “hide from gallery”, maybe he pressed this button and I didn’t noticed it?
Focus on yourself and improving yourself both physically and mentally.
Heartbreaks are very good motivators if you allow them to be. Don't let it eat you from the inside, use that and channel the emotions into physical movement whether its walking on treadmill, hiking, walking in the mall, lifting weights, bicycle, etc. Think of it as a switch from seeing her as incredible, to getting to see yourself as incredible. Become proud of who you are, and learn from the pain.
But whatever you decide, DON'T allow the pain to cripple you and waste time because thats one of the most precious things we cannot control.
Keep your head up, and never stop stepping forward. Its okay to occasionally look back, its normal. But don't let it become a leash.
You got this
If I were you I would gently suggest therapy for your wife. Some of the things she is struggling with are things that she needs to work on for herself and there is not much you can do other than support her. As far as her family goes I think it’s time to go no contact. Let your wife know that although you support her making her own decision in contact level with her family that you intend to go NC and will no longer accompany her to events at her family’s house. Honestly I hope she at least goes LC cause her family sounds very toxic and it’s clear that they have done damage to her self esteem.
Girl, RUN
Yeah, people have no idea what they are talking about. I have seen people be straight up punched in the face by someone with too low blood sugar, and then the patient didn't even really remember it afterwards and was very embarrassed. Low blood sugar can be DEADLY, ofc it's going to affect both physical and mental bodily functions?
Why don’t you want to spend holidays with her?
The purpose of dating is to see if you’re a good fit. You two are not a good fit. There’s no fixing it. He is who he is, you are who you are.
It's too fast. It's said you need about half the length of a relationship to recover. You just got out of an abusive relationship, there's no way you've processed it and figured out all the red flags you missed.
A rush to commitment is a red flag for an abusive relationship, you barely know each other. Maybe you lucked out and find a perfect match on tinder (??) but if he's right for you, he'll still be right if you still take a few months to heal.
Take time to connect with friends, take some time for yourself, reconnect with things you enjoyed before your last relationship. Find yourself again before lose it with another person.
“Well established behaviour patterns” isn't fooling anyone…
Honestly, if your hope is that you can just wait out the clock then no… people can have pretty healthy sex drives for their entire lives if they are into it. Honestly, I feel he is too young for you to be rationalising it as just him being older too.
Clearly something changed after marriage and what seems to be a kid. Maybe life is settling in, he is approaching 30 and realising this is it. Maybe something has changed about his tastes, or perhaps you've changed just due to being older and a mother now [not necessarily aesthetically, perhaps just a vibe]. But to dismiss it just as sex drive, especially when I am guessing it is his that has dropped and not the other way round… at the very least that is a very disappointing failure to communicate.
Can this end a marriage? Yeah, absolutely. Because the lack of tact or apparently investment he has in discussing and dealing with this is taking a huge toll on you and your self esteem, let alone just walking around being horny and etc. It's not selfish to feel sad your marriage has already screeched into a stagnant state, especially as you are so young.
If you and your father went out one night and met your wife and her mother, hit it off and started dating, would that have been an issue?
What's the difference?
Eww shave the beard before something festers in it.
You tell her and refuse to spend time there. If she wants to hang out she needs to find a new place or go to your place. You said she has money. She should spend some for her health
This is why I don’t read other people’s private conversations
We’re pretty serious. We talk for hours everyday, share our locations, and visit each other frequently for months on end. We actually just got a place together (was supposed to move in next week, not sure what’s happening now). With our level of communication it would be difficult/ near impossible for him to online a double life, to that extent anyway.
And no offence to him but, he’s not really the type to ‘pull’ girls, so to speak. He was a virgin before I met him, and is just generally a bit of an awkward/ introverted guy. Would be very out of character for him.
That’s rich coming from someone who feels it’s okay to size someone up you have never met. Keep living in your self-constructed reality.
You are being used. I take it she's not paying you for her share of the rent on the place where you were living?
Put her stuff in storage and send her the details where she can pick it up, plus the invoice for the first rental period and how to keep paying if she wants her stuff back. Send her the key if it's that kind of place.
Then block her.
OK, that's a little bizarre. Just because your parents are narcissists (IF they are narcissists) doesn't mean everyone else's are.
No way would i do this if i were you. Especially with her best friend. Your relationship will blow up and probably your marriage. Every post on reddit about this is about how they wished they had never done it. If you have such a great marriage and relationship i would tell your wife you aren’t interested. Tell her you want to keep it just the two of you.
Yeah I used to feel guilty about invading his privacy but Idc anymore if I’m being honest and idk how I feel about him right now but I don’t want to be quick in naming him a “bad guy”
My mum was 39 and my dad 49 when they had me (tail end charlie of the 4 children they had).
It is a horrible realisation that they will probably die when you’re younger. My dad died when I was 25 and my mum when I was 35.
Make the most of them while they’re here and in good health. Learn all you can about them but don’t forget to online your life too. Take photos and videos. Make sure you’re in the pictures too. Get to know them not just as their child but also get to know them as an adult. Ask them about their childhood and family. Record them talking about their life.
You miss their voice when they’re gone.
If they aren't willing to give you your money voluntarily if you ask for it, your only option is to pursue legal action against them. And even if you have irrefutable evidence you are still pursuing a lawsuit in a different country, which will be very costly, and the law simply may not be on your side.
You are only 19 ~ dont have to keep up with this bs
Why didn't he just suggest turkey baster method?
Until the spending the night and spending that awful lot of time without checking in, I was on the “go back to the therapist” route.
I could imagine her thinking the emotions are numbed when in reality it's just how emotions are when you are not in a bipolar mind.
Then the behavior came about spending nights with the dude and I just went, fuck no. Maybe one last chance if you are really that forgiving but man those are red flags if anything.
Tell him that you’re not his verbal punching bag and that he needs to address his issues professionally before his anger destroys your marriage.
Thanks for understanding! its a weird feeling, but yes its something that gets resolved talking about it; I just didnt want to talk right away and stick my issues to her or make her feel bad so I came here to cool off and ask for advice
Thank you for your advice, that should do the trick for me
You are not mature enough to be in a relationship. Pick up your shattered pride and self-respect off the ground and work on yourself.
Guys like this enjoy the ego boost from getting attention from a younger woman. The age difference gives him the advantage as well, because his brain is done growing, while you still have up to a few years of brain growth left. It makes you more vulnerable. Both my husband and I tend to walk around without our wedding rings on, but that is a sensory issue for us (we are autistic). It sounds more like this guy is trying to hide his marriage status at work because most women will ignore a married guy. This guy does not want to be ignored.
Whether or not this guy is a narcissist, I can’t tell because I don’t have enough information, but it’s often narcissistic type people who cheat because they need the attention. Dr. Ramani on YouTube is an expert on narcissism, I suggest looking her up.
As far as getting over this guy, you need to start grey rocking him. Ignore him when you can and be boring and robotic when you can’t. Narcissists can’t stand being grey rocked and will often do something to try to shock a reaction out of you. So be prepared for that. But honestly, if he does something to shock you, you have more evidence of narcissism.
familiarity comfort and financial stability
I deserve it? Thrown to the side? I spent years working at trying to resolve our communication issue like adults. We could never seem to get it resolved. I didn't throw her to the side. We worked so hard at our relationship for each other. At this point I had hit a wall, and felt like no matter how very hot we tried it wasn't going to work.
Me and my ex are on great terms. The breakup was not hostile. Completely respectful.
Well, nearly all of us eventually find out something about our SO that we wish were different. Not all of them are deal-breakers. Does staying make us liars and assholes?
You found this “flaw” in your SO on Date 1. Since then you've dated her and bedded her, and you've kept your unwanted negativity about her looks to yourself. Some people would say you ARE past it, but it seems you look upon it as a test of character that's still ongoing. You think that a man of good character would be able to make this flaw go away by now. That's a popular myth.
A good man is one who doesn't turn the flaw into an excuse for the inexcusable. By which I mean staying, but being a half-hearted lover. Since you're not withholding sex, I have to ask if you are withholding anything else? Time and attention? Romance and Affection? Closeness? Trust? I'd mention Love but after 3 months it would be premature, UNLESS you are accustomed to be in love in less time than that. Lotta people think Love gotta come fast and furious. Another popular myth. Discovering that you actually like and trust the person, as well as enjoying their sex, is what Love usually requires, and this can take time.
What exactly does “not looking past it” mean???? If you're being a half-hearted lover – not withholding anything from her – if your romance is proceeding normally on all counts except for this attack of conscience – then your conscience is holding you to a standard of perfection that would make you worthy of sainthood.
The final hurdle: does your GF needs to hear you compliment her appearance, or is your profound silence on this subject good enough for her? If she needs compliments, and you're not ready to look her in the eye and lie, convincingly, then you're postponing the inevitable, and the delay is just getting you both in deeper.
Well if the only reason she married him was to have kids then you could argue he tricked her. You could also argue that she should’ve had a legally binding document drawn up stating that he would donate sperm for that purpose. Again if that’s the only reason she married him.
She needs counseling. How are you gonna marry someone who you don't show your body to? At all?
to be honet you or at least I can have the most throughout and deepest conversations with complete strangers in the night, but however not after a bar and them driving me home.
More like in a house party setting where there are multiple circles of friends, so yeah this is hella sus and she full of shit, just wanted to chip in that this is really not that unlikely in general
Why did you have a second kid? You must have seen her struggle with the first one so why make it even worse?
If you don’t tell the police or charge him and he does make good on his threat they have no idea and have no eveidence so he could get away with it. It also sounds like you’re both play into some toxicity. Leave that man alone.
No way, daisy and Stevens own wife were both actively drunk
I’m not steven but also not wanting his wife to see the messages in the moment bcuz of a possible escalation is entirely valid steven also showed no hesitation in presenting the messages when he was reminded he can retrieve them
His responses to daisy were entirely neutral it’s not fair to presume he had an intent when he might’ve just been trying to avoid hurting feelings
Like put yourself in Stevens shoes, your best man’s wife drunkenly texts you she wants to be w you, do you call her on her shit right on the spot and possibly destroy a marriage and someone else’s life over a drunk text? Do you wait until everyone is sober to hash it out? Do you pull your wife aside and risk her going off on said friend or even getting physical
Personally I think steven played this out in a very mature and healthy manner
You're right.
It makes me feel self conscious and low in confidence to go into another sexual relationship though.
I don't even know if my post makes me sound like I really am bad at sex or if its all in my head and he's being irrational
You are under a lot of stress. Give yourself and your BF space to deal with your separate issues. Find a conducive way to vent.
Not sure what you can do, tho, if she lies & is dishonest. How will you know she's telling the truth?
More likely that the father is using work as an excuse to get out of household responsibilities rather than it being an impediment to him being at home. He needs to find a new job but he won’t because that’s his escape from home.
You don’t have to do anything but be happy at your wedding. At one point your sister was probably a rock for you. Shit it’s your sister and he was your significant other someone who you loved and trusted. They both betrayed you and hurt you. Something you weren’t prepared for and now they’re dating again. Some could get passed that and some cannot. This is you and you’re fiancé special day. I think he would be upset that you’re upset that these guys would open up old wounds. If you’re sister can’t see what she did was wrong and wants to bring him then imo she’s just as selfish as the guy she’s with now. I don’t think you should worry yourself honestly.