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Date: November 4, 2022
Try to repair the situation. My fiancé left me and my son before he was 2 and it was awful for me and especially for my baby. My son is now 4 and is still repeating that daddy left. Even if his dad takes him every two weekends. Have fun If you need to but dont break your child's life.
I work so there are many things ahead of texting that are on my mind. Guys who have the time to text all day are usually lazy in my experience. I am never glued to my phone and even If I love people I don't usually text first. because I would rather call on the phone. Also I am more like here is a daily brief of my day at the end vs stream of thought.
This is the problem with many women you want us to take the time to understand you but you don't want to take the time to understand the Men you want. If you want a go getter future provider. He isn't the guy that will glued to his phone outside of business purposes.
You should block her and move on.
Thank you for your insight!
Where's the gaslighting? I didn't see any mention of denial or trying to convince her she's crazy.
That's why I said “many men are disgusting” and not that it's a universal experience. Doesn't hurt to take literally what I wrote.
So lemme get your story straight. You're on a Subreddit called “relationship ADVICE” and you're not actually here to give any advice, just to write mean comments and troll people.
Yes, well. Even if I'm immature and unstable, you're no shining paragon of maturity yourself either.
You should stop dating losers
That imo looks SOOOO toxic as a relationship, you listed so many red flags and reasons why you should get together again. Juste let it go and find someone else. Also find somewhere else to on-line, let him move on too
Thanks, it's good to get different perspectives from people, I think time will tell what's best for both of us, I will try no contact for now unless he reaches out first
You don’t get how she can be so cold? She gets on the phone with her boyfriend and expresses her undying love and devotion and does so right after sleeping with you.
He's not a nice man indeed. Today he mentioned twice the money he wasted on the weekend for food and wine etc. while i was trying to explain how he made me feel (which i never thought it would be an issue, i was happy to open an expensive bottle for him, buy him an expensive bottle of scotch as well) so i ended up asking for his bank details, sending him 150 pounds because it was too humiliating. I have never seen such a thing before. It'll take a long time to recover from whatever this is.
Thank you for your advice.
Personally, my job is off limits. Even if I’m friends with my bosses and coworkers, even if I hate my job and it stresses me out, do not interfere with my work period. Personal and professional do not need to be mixed (during work hours).
All we know about the mother is that she is selfish and toxic so I don't find it at all difficult to believe the son is correct that his father is ultimately better off.
OP may be an adult but he is still their child, that doesn't change with age. Again, the mom was wronged by her cheating POS of a husband, but that doesn't mean he isn't a good father to his child. The fact that OP is an adult means he gets to decide who he has a relationship with and who he forgives. We don't know what has taken place for him to forgive his father or how long that journey took. But we do know that OP's mom gave him a cruel and selfish ultimatum, and tried to use him to hurt her ex; and then when OP refused to play her stupid game, SHE cut him off. So again, the cruel and selfish person here is the mom.
Updateme!
Me calling you a rapist is based on your comments. Your baseless name calling drops like a feather.
I say stick to your guns. Your mom needs therapy and a support group – because who in their right mind happily goes back to someone that abused them for 8 years? She’s a victim and needs to get out of that cycle.
I doubt the abuser hs changed that quickly. And even if he has, you’re under no obligation to be around him. AND even IF you forgave him in your heart, that doesn’t mean you have to trust him with your son. I mean, he could hurt your son, he could make him think abuse is normal, etc.
Your mom is unfortunately not in a position to make good decisions. So as the parent of your child, it’s up to you to protect him from someone as awful as this bf.
Trust your gut feeling on this because it's right. He's already lied to you, completely disrespected you, and he knows it will be the demise of his marriage if you found out what their conversations were about…im sure he's told her All about you!
Just over half (53.5 percent) of those reporting extramarital sex said they were unfaithful with someone they knew well, such as a close friend. About a third of affairs are with someone who’s somewhat well-known, such as a neighbor, co-worker or long-term acquaintance (about 29.4 percent). The rest of affairs occur with casual acquaintances.- University of Colorado
I have some of the same issues with anal you do. In 7 years it's been successful 5 times. I've always been super drunk and had numbing lube. Before anyone comes for me, never did we get me super drunk with the intent to do anal. It just kind of happened after we were both toasted. In theory I don't mind it, I've never had a horrible experience with it. But sober i am just too tense and have some of the same hang ups you do that makes it nude to relax.
But I am with the other commenters on one thing: he should apologize before it's ever attempted again
I think you need a new friend.
You wanna share your financial secrets and move in after 4 dates over the course of 6 months?
I guess it’s been a minute since I’ve been lobe drunk, but does that really sound like a good idea to you?
Are you sure he is really your fiancé and he’s not been scamming you out of money for 5 years?
That first sentence ^ I’ve been a bit rowdy but being a mistress? That’s next level.
I feel like he might take it as an attack
That’s my thought
fool me once shame on you. fool me twice, shame on me…sounds like you are going back for more so, fool me thrice shame I cant learn a lesson the first time around and am willing to engage more toxic behavior cuz I like it.
May I ask did I miss it but what happened to the mother
You still test positive though.
Get the hell away from that psychopath! Glad you were unharmed (physically).
You're a total loser and she needs to break up with you.
I am currently evaluating if trying to obtain a restraining order towards my ex. A woman. And yet I am not here demonizing women, but simply stating that extremism leads nowhere.
Am I enlightened? Or are you still fighting your demons?
In what world is this enough information to gauge such an answer?
continued to tell me she’d find a new years guy to kiss but later after some days she said she was just mad and didn’t mean it? Long story short a few months later
Yeah there wouldn't have been a few months later after that
I think hiding the fact that he had a feeling that she had feelings for him, continued a close friendship with her, is a form of betrayal. There were other things he was hiding that came out after the letter situation.
I think hiding the fact that he had a feeling that she had feelings for him, continued a close friendship with her, is a form of betrayal. There were other things he was hiding that came out after the letter situation.
That's not fair at all. Doesn't like sex act doesn't equal doesn't care about sexual satisfaction. You wouldn't tell someone who refused to do anal that they just don't care enough for their partner's satisfaction.
You cannot accept his marriage. That makes you not his friend. You need to walk away. You can never truly be his friend if you harbor those beliefs. If you can’t understand that, you are either being willfully blind or a troll. Which one is it?
I can’t tell if you’re being snarky, so I’m just gonna go ahead and choose to believe that you’re offering some kindness. So, thank you.
I didn’t know about this. Thank you so much for the answer
Thank you
This is why young people shouldn't be getting married until they learn how to regulate their feelings……adults know how to manage their emotions and not get into situations like this…..sadly not all of us make it to adulthood.
Home therapists aren't a thing.