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Nope that’s weird and disrespectful to you.
I would’ve slap the utensil out his hand the moment he put it to someone else’s mouth.
NOPE. You can break up with a person for any reason you want. The only “valid” reason is “I do not want to be in this relationship anymore.”
You're right. It's only been about a month that we've broken up and i guess it scared me cuz of how i was still struggling to come in terms with everything, given that he was such a narcissistic, egotistical chauvinist. But i should allow myself more time to heal and be kinder to myself.
“If you want to share shampoo, this is what it costs $______ .”
Thank you for the advice, I’m grateful for all opinions 🙂 My only issue is that ever since this incident happened, we’ve had some really rough patches and there was an instance where I was questioning whether she wanted to stay with me as we live! nothing a mile from each other, but wouldn’t answer my calls, stop texting as often and didn’t want to see me for about two weeks. I’m not sure whether I was reading into it too much but on the same hand, we’ve never been that “distant”
Oh, for Christ sake, just give the man what he wants :D, he probably doesn't want to do some other stuff for you, but he does them… and if you're not into it, that's fine, just tell him that. If he doesn't like it, tough luck :).
a prenup will help you too
“She has stated many times she will remain loyal and that our relationship is still something extremely important to her but she can't let it get in the way of the dream”
Nah. Red flag. Break it off now and move on. That amount of time and distance apart is hard, even before considering the possibility of infidelity. The fact that she is reiterating her loyalty is sus. The second best you can hope for is that you can reconnect later, the first is to take it in stride and not necessarily as a rejection of you.
I am lucky enough to have a then-girlfriend/now-wife that caught the travel bug 6 years ago. She traveled to Europe for a week or 2 with her girlfriends and liked it so much that she wanted to go again with me instead. I would not have ever held her back if she wanted to go solo for an extended period.
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Dump him immediately.
No. He's said he had a therapist when he was younger and didn't like it.
Common law marriage is not legally recognized here. But from what I understand since we have presented as a married couple for so long and have children together, it would be very very close to a divorce. But i don't even want that. I just want to have the same securities and protection he has.
Doesnt seem like you should be in the relationship by the way you speak of it.
Dude. Daniel Radcliffe is 5'5″. He's one of the most attractive men ever and if I actually got a chance to date him, I so would! Peter Dinklage, an actual dwarf, has the cutest family, married to a regular sized woman. We short girls exist too, who actually want someone we can reach. I once went on a date with a guy who was 2m (I'm 163cm) and I'd have totally swiped left if he had mentioned his height in his profile. Neck pain is not nice. And there are very few people who have perfectly symmetrical faces and bodies. “beauty is in the eye of the beholder”.
There are many people who are virgins in their 30s. I know of a few. Virginity is not something to be shameful about, the world isn't like the movie American pie.
Go to therapy. Every problem has a solution because you are not the only person to have that problem. You have to want to solve it though. Change your mindset, cooperate with your therapist. Hating yourself isn't solving anything either, so at least try this other way.
Give it a few days and then ask her to talk about it. What was it about you calling her “Mommy” during sex that she was so creeped out about? None of this “you know” or “why do you even have to ask”. Ask her to be clear and specific.
Then you have something to work with. Until then you have nothing.
I just don’t understand. I’ve never had a man come after me. When my friends break up with their boyfriends, the men chase after them. The men don’t want to lose them. I don’t feel like any man feels that way about me, including my ex. I can’t stop looking at what he’s doing, will this stop me moving on? How do I stop feeling attracted
Don't let her move in. You don't want her to move in, you are just bowing down the the pressure she is exerting. Do not give in. She is dismissing your very real concerns as if they don't matter. She is only concerned with the benefits to herself. She also told you that she plans to be a financial burden. There is no benefit to you to let her have her way.
Once she moves in, you may have a problem getting her out. Enjoy your home alone until you decide that you want to support her, and have her as a constant companion. This woman seems very pushy, you need to be sure you want what she wants, and not just give in because it is easier than explaining.
As someone who has had panic attacks…I'd have even more of a lanic attack thinking someone moved their wedding for me ! Have your day girl!!
And you need to read the whole post, namely the part where OP said-
Mom realised she needed help and finally got the therapy needed to address her trauma. She lost 200+ pounds over the next couple years and had gradually lost more weight since then, and even took up hiking and walking marathons
She lost 275 pounds over the past ~7~ years, leads a healthy lifestyle, doesn’t sound like she has even stopped losing weight, and her doctors are happy. Also in case you’re unfamiliar with massive weight loss, she likely has around 10-20lbs just in loose skin from the amount she has lost.
It’s easier for girls to find another guy, she’ll be able to move on faster. Guys have to put in more leg work
I’m pretty sure it is. I have a weird sixth sense of fake stuff on the internet lol. And it always bemuses me how many people are fooled, especially the cringy fb videos ??
The spelling of colour and behaviour means OP is British
She’s abusive.
Wow, what a douchey mindset. If my ex is unhappy, I'm not allowed to be happy? What are you, a grade schooler? People who think like this are toxic in general.
Wow, what a douchey mindset. If my ex is unhappy, I'm not allowed to be happy? What are you, a grade schooler? People who think like this are toxic in general.
Not so far as I know—I just meant that I also feel full of anger first thing in the morning. Another commenter made me realize that maybe it’s related to my sleepwalking, because I don’t think I’m fully awake when I feel that way (I often don’t remember pouring my coffee, and I don’t take medicine first thing in the morning because I wouldn’t remember if I’d taken it or not).
So, I suppose there could be something medical / neurological going on there. I hadn’t really thought about it because I’ve always been this way, and it’s not a big deal because I just avoid interactions until it passes.
This is a tough one
Normally I would not recommend to just divorce like so many here seem to think the first second and last choice, but at the same time I feel given your age and the way your relationship started, maybe you are better off ending the relationship and taking time to work on yourself and then find someone who appreciates you
But, the kid complicates things.
I would try to work on it. I think, a, you’re both young, and most people fantasize sexually and or are more poly minded than they’d like to admit.
That being said, she isn’t satisfied, you aren’t either, you both need to work on this before it gets out of hand and you’re miserable and have also made your daughters life miserable.
He will certainly feel a lot of pressure if she tries to “woo” him on the weekend. Waiting for him to take slow steps is the key, not hurrying him along!
This needs addressing now, before it becomes an even bigger issue in the future.
You brought an aggressive, drunk man into their home and put them in a position where they had to protect themselves and you. You need to be an adult and make better judgements.
Your mother is disrespectful to your husband and yourself. How long before she treats your children the same way?
Your home should be a safe place for all of you.
If your mother is disrespectful to your husband he has every right not to be around her. And if she disrespects a parent she should have no contact with the kids.
Why is your mother more important than your marriage and children?
Check out the sidebar of justnomil they deal with justnomoms too. And read some posts there.
You aren't actually falling for the Tinder was hacked nonsense, are you?
Why not have a conversation? Honestly it sounds like OP did have a conversation and it came off as an ultimatum “stop watching porn or I’ll leave you” or “stop watching porn that’s cheating!” And honestly, you have no right to dictate what your partner can and cannot enjoy. It’s controlling and abusive.
I agree that guys hiding that they like to watch to porn because their girlfriends don’t like is weak AF and they should grow a back bone and leave their girls but also maybe their girls should stop trying to control their boyfriends thoughts. If a man told a woman she couldn’t watch magic Mike or 50 shades of grey or skme other type of pornography or something because it made it him uncomfortable I bet y’all would be saying he’s misogynistic and sexist and abusive and toxic, right?
How am I in the wrong for being upset about my gf lying about working with someone she used to fuck. I sat down and ate with this man and she let me believe nothing had happened
It would normally be the case that this is brought up between the two of you before she agrees to attend the function. If the timeline you are citing is accurate, this coupled with being the second time with this agreed on boundary is very troubling. It may not be a deal breaker, but that will depend on your communication with her about it is like going forward. If she agrees that her behavior is not in accord with what you two have set up. If she goes to the event knowing it upsets you, that will tell you what you need to know.
feels like rage bait.
It was rape.
Become coparents. She cheated for 6 years. You’re both unhappy. Find someone that loves you.
If you marry and have kids with this woman, one day you'll be just like her ex. You'll be the one so worn and beaten down that you too will agree with whatever just to avoid engaging with her. Is that really what you want?
Men can't get tested.
Major red flags. It’s projection and I believe he may have a history of violence himself. I wouldn’t be surprised if he has a restraining order or two in his background. I once jokingly threw a pair of socks at my ex husband. He accused me of violence. ? He brought it up multiple times, and a couple years later he started telling me he wanted to hit me / kick my teeth in. These people tell on themselves with their accusations.
At the very least, even if he doesn’t have a propensity for violence (which I doubt bc he’s already started restraining you) he isn’t very emotionally stable.
& in less than 24 hours he stopped having a crush on me?
This is the like the 10th story this week of a hard head woman that is disappoint her man doesn’t go get in a fight for her. WTAF is with this attitude?
Dude, it don’t matter if you had back surgery or not, the absolute right thing to do in that situation was stay in the car. You should not have to risk your life because, um, your wife wanted to back up like right the fuck now and was super offended by the presence of a pedestrian.
Honestly, if telling her you are not going to go get in a fight with a stranger over stupid bullshit doesn’t work after the heat of the moment has passed, let her go man. She is a fucking idiot.
There are plenty if posts fro women with this insecurity.
She has suffered consequences. I fight for my daughter and don't let her get her way.
When she was on the phone and said he's handsome and that she would never cheat on you, how was that part of her conversation with a friend? Was her friend suggesting she cheat? Why were they talking about it?
The fact that she is thinking of not doing the show because she will miss your child is conflicting. How about she will not do the show because she knows you are hurting/not sleeping? Why has she allowed you to feel this way? And continues down the same road with a potential game night?
Personally I think you need to have a serious talk with her to understand where she is right now. Tell her how you are feeling, don't do the classic man thing and hide your feelings.
Failing all that, be the best husband and father you can be. No one is perfect. If she is having an affair, you will know that you did the right thing and behaved appropriately.
Okay yikes.
“Work related” is code and they’re not arranging a phone call.
I totally understand that milestones are difficult and my only concern is it seems that these relationships were consecutive and it might have been beneficial to spend sometime single and process your grief independently. Definitely don’t break up with him if you feel like the relationship is good but telling your partner you don’t feel safe with them would suggest otherwise. Just think about how being a relationship is impacting your growth as an individual.
It’s also not fair to you to feel like you can’t discuss things with him and to never discuss it again because unfortunately, it is a significant part of your life.
Grief makes it incredibly difficult to have emotional control but more than emotional awareness also knowing how to control emotions and make rational decisions in hard times is a skill that will be useful to cultivate.
When he’s ready talk to him express that you know what you said was hurtful and that grief doesn’t justify it, but that it might come up now and again. And it doesn’t mean your comparing him to your former partner.
Also I feel you 100% on the local group being too old! Maybe there’s a remote option somewhere that might be useful?
Could she be cheating and needing to when you’ll be back?
What you've described there is often what many couples go through. Failures to communicate. Youre aware of your own failings in the relationship and are actively working on it, however, what i have not seen here, is what she is doing to make this relationship work. And i am not talking about apologizing for her cheating. What is she doing to improve herself and to make herself a good partner?
To me it looks like you were doing all the work to make it work, And that you're doing the compromizes. Yes she is crying now, but before you knew the truth, she was denying everything, If you'd given up, she would have probably never told you the truth. She is crying now, not because she regrets it, but because she regrets getting caught and having to go through all the anxiety of a possible break up.
The thing is, often times when one partner cheats, the relationship can not survive it, especially not when the cheating was revealed by force and not by remorse of the wayward partner. There will always be doubt, there will always be wonder when you two have argued and she just took off. “Is she cheating again? Is she with some other guy from work?” Even if you manage to see past that in 5-10 years, there still is something in her, that made her cheat. There will be always a part of her that justified her actions. And i am sorry but alcohol is not an excuse. Alcohol doesn't make you do something you don't want or just “isn't you” It lowers the inhibitions and sometimes help you make a step you've always thought of.
So personally. i would not want to work on this relationship. She's displayed some incredible poor judgement (being friends with someone who clearly wanted more, while she's in a relationship), is dishonest, and most importantly, doesn't value a relationship the same way you do. If i were you, i'd end the relationshp and maybe stay single for a bit just to decompress, work on yourself. Get yourself into a mindset you're happy and then when you start dating again st yourself some checkmarks that the relationship needs to hit. For example Open communication and partner is willing to compromize.
You're worth a good partner who only wants you in their life.
Yea… that's not a great girlfriend. It's something to bring up in private not on a whim at a party. Say you don't like it.
Might not be the girl for you!
But I feel like he also often says he doesn’t like me?