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Date: January 13, 2023
My two cats get into it exactly this much, and they are fine. I wish they loved each other but I can’t do anything about it.
How long have you been together? Call him on it. Tell him it is unacceptable. Go to couple's therapy if he is willing. If not, leave. You can do better.
He assumed this, I did not tell him. The first time he brought it up I was thrown off and just laughed awkwardly, it kind of got out of control from there because I was (still am a bit) worried he’ll break up with me over this.
Yeah this is it.
Remember OP when he tries to excuse himself with I DIDNT DO ANYTHING NOTHING HAPPENED
What that means is, “I only TRIED to cheat on you and I failed!”
It's not ok.
Most young couples consider new years a couples thing. Just saying.
It sounds like you need a bigger support system. If you had more people to depend on, you wouldn't depend on any of them as much. Compassion fatigue/burnout is real, no matter how much you love someone. I know that “make friends” is easier said than done, but men often don't prioritize/value platonic relationships and it leads to this issue.
I'll also say from experience that it can get very frustrating to be supportive of someone who continuously vents and does not help themselves or doesn't register/care if something in my life becomes more difficult. I don't know if that applies here, but I know that there was a period of her life when my sister was constantly falling out with people and even hearing her version of the story I knew that she was a much bigger part of the problem than she was willing to accept. It was really very hot to constantly be sympathetic, but bringing it up would just start a fight.
Given that your dad goes quiet and your mom gets angry, I suspect that you have in some way over-taxed their support capabilities. So seek out more support. Is therapy an option? Do you need medication for your anxiety? What are you doing to find more tribe? What are you doing for self care? You need to re-evaluate these things. I know that's also easier said than done, but it's also the only way out. I was at one point having regular panic aattacks and so depressed I could barely get out of bed in the mornings. I got medication, saw a counsellor weekly (free through my school), put conscious effort into doing self care and rewriting the old thought patterns that said I didn't deserve it, attended AlAnon meetings, forced myself to go to social events and introduce myself to people in class even though it was the last thing my socially anxious introverted self wanted to do, everything and anything I could think of, and slowly things improved. I found a tribe. I set boundaries with my abusive family. I got degrees and jobs and my life got better.
Does this feel good? My grandmother used to say, “I can do bad by myself. I don't need anybody else to help me do bad.”
Honestly, his opinion doesn't matter. You and him just didn't click. Don't try to change who you are to appease to one person. You'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Feedback from one guy that may not apply to anyone else, just not going to add any value for you. Just move on to the next one.