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I think just explain that all you want to do is discuss the topic and see where she is at and understand why. The more you understand the better. Once you understand this in detail, you can decide how to act on that information. Be honest with yourself too in terms of what your expectations are for sex. That said, if someone isn't interested in having sex with you, there isn't much you can do about it other than leave.
I am so sorry this is happening to you. My cousin went through the same thing. He had set up cameras in their house until she moved out. He also would have friends and family come over almost every single day for the last 30 days to prevent having too much alone time with his ex. Whenever sleep time came, he slept in another room on an air mattress. He hated it, but it was worth being able to get shut eye without her guilt tripping him all night with her crocodile tears. His ex had codependency issues. Half the time, she didn't even enjoy things in their relationship like she used to. She had grown content and cush in this home that he had bought and with his 6 figure job. Also, being able to not be alone. This breakup is exactly what she needs so that she can get counseling on the underlying cause of her panic attacks. God speed, brother! Good luck.
Just blocked him!
But… why would you want to be in a romantic relationship with someone who doesn't love you? He's not going to start. If he doesn't love you now, he never will. I mean if that's okay with you, then I guess fine, but I don't understand why your expectations of a relationship are so incredibly low. Partner loving you is kinda the basics? He's not lying to you. He told you he doesn't love you bc he doesn't!
OP can be upset with their husbands reaction. He didn't shut her down and got upset with OP for bringing it up. OP is married to their husband, their husband is supposed to support and have OPs back. It is on the husband for not supporting his spouse and for allowing boundaries to be broken. And while it's disrespectful and creepy of the friend, ultimately OP isn't in a relationship with the friend.
If he's the type to form an emotional bond because he's doing drugs around a member of the opposite sex then he's not the kind of person you want to be in a relationship with.
If you're trying to create this boundary why stop the inevitable if that happens?
It sounds like your friend has some growing to do. He is willing to listen to your feedback, which is a good sign. But if you don’t feel like you’re fully compatible with him in the long run, it may be best to end the relationship.
As for his chewing, it may be something that you can talk to him about. Tell him that it’s bothering you, and see if he’s willing to make an effort to change his behavior. If he isn’t—or if he can’t change his behavior—then it may be a deal-breaker for you.
sorry for not responding sooner i think reddit didn't send my reply lol
i was discharged a few months ago so i don't speak to my doctors anymore but i don't want to speak to any adults about it because i feel bad for my parents. i don't think they “abuse” me, because they love me and they support me with everything else. it's just weight they're weird about.
Most shelters and rescues that are responsible won’t be open those days and wouldn’t send you home with a dog same day anyway. They’d want to ensure that dogs are allowed where you online if you rent, they’d want to get info about your history with pets, your lifestyle, etc.
I 0/10 recommend getting a pet as a gift unless it’s really well planned and communicated.
As a person who works in rescue and foster, I’d tell you that a surprise would be a no go for me. I’d never let a dog go home same day without a home inspection and such. It’s just….not wise.
Want do your parents think?
I mean your parent's opinion matters as much as his!
But…he’ll be faithful as long as you satisfy him. What more could you want? /s
Dump him.
I said princess, not perfection
Yeah. You leave. No child deserves this treatment. You order a paternity test, set up child support, and divorce him
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I’ve meet someone last week, we get on had sex and been out together. The thing is I like her but getting a place together so soon is freaking me the fuck out. I keep asking myself if it’s a scam or she using my job to afford a nice place. We haven’t even really been on a date yet so idk what we’ll be like together. She’s offered to do the cooking cleaning and all those things which sounds a little to good to be true. She says she just wants a place of her own but I’m finding it really naked to trust her. This is moving way too quick for me idk what to do.
Let him have his college experience. He will most likely come back in 6 months when it does not go as he planned it. Then you will have a tough decision to make when he wants to get back together. You can think he was just immature and is now growing up and take him back or be upset and kinda know it will never be the same. He is young and maybe he will figure it out soon and be a good boyfriend soon. Big decision for you when he comes back. Good luck. If he never comes back it was not ment to be.
He says girls and guys see sex differently
That’s all you need to hear. Massive red flag. First off, the way you view/value is not determined by your gender and varies a ton within both girls and guys. Secondly, what sex means to him doesn’t change what it means to you, and if him having sex with other people is hurtful to you, then that’s all that should matter because you’re in a relationship. He’s literally just saying my view on things is more important than how you feel about it. Dump him
As a mom, it's about my partner and our sacred space. There's no reason for a 7 y/o to be in bed consistently with the parent(s)
It's your relationship, so ultimately, it's down to your perspective rather than anyone commenting here.
Personally, I wouldn't have an issue if I was in your shoes. Maybe annoyed at the situation, but not at her.
Frankly, another woman in the same position likely either would have done something, wouldn't have said anything, or both.
Though from reading your comments I think it's pretty clear where you stand “how dare she develop interest in another man when she has full access to God's greatest gift and I didn't even cheat on her when I totally could have.” It sounds like a lot of ego to me, and I sincerely hope that you work through it in therapy.
I don’t think he’s the feminist he’s pretending to be. He doesn’t care about the effects its having on the actresses, but he also doesn’t sound like he cares about the effects it has on you.
There’s a difference between beliefs and biases, and people often hold opposite ones. Belief is an intellectual schematic you hold about the world, and bias the complex feelings that actually drive your actions. People can be fluent in feminist theory and still desire to harm women, feel that they’re inferior, etc. I believe this is what you’re dealing with.
I’m only disagreeing with the opinions that call me an asshole for thinking these thoughts. And I’ve agreed with others who have suggested I go to therapy for my guilt. So there ya have it
I beg to differ; equal standing is a huge crux of successful poly relationships because without it, there can be little foundation for fair treatment and proper respect. And a lot of the problems here have arisen because the GF clearly either doesn't care as much for her husband, or she doesn't particularly care much for either.
“Gf is just avoiding conflict; that's typical human behavior and isn't inherently malicious or disrespectful.”- Disagree, the whole way she has treated her BF is disrespectful. If you really care about someone, you don't buddy up with someone who is treating them badly and ignore how they're feeling.
I'm not a particularly confrontational person, but if someone was treating my partner this way? It'd be an absolute no-brainer for me to defend them and confront the other person. And not because its easy, but simply because when you really care about someone, you care about how they feel.
If you have to fight for fair & decent treatment in a relationship, its not a good relationship.
Thank you for this. It really helped a lot. I am going to have a tough conversation with her tomorrow.
Let's be real. They've probably already slept together. Even if they haven't yet, they will. They've already discussed it and want it to happen. They'll have sex and then she'll forgive them because they have zero respect for this relationship and she believes their BS. Like they respect her opinion, riiiiight.
She's very (understandably) angry at me, and I just want her to know the whole picture before she resents me for the rest of her life. I, probably mistakenly, texted her and asked if we could sit down in a public space so that I can explain everything and not end the relationship on a negative note, and I specified I'm not trying to fix anything and I know what's done is done and I'm not trying to ruin her current relationship (although it pisses me off that after knowing someone for 10 years, all of a sudden this new guy is way more important to her than I am). After reading these comments, I don't know that that was the right thing to do. It's just so naked for me to leave her alone until she understands why I did what I did, if only for closure for myself.
You were shitty here, not her
You’re a 29 year old married guy with a kid. The days of getting trashed at the bar weekly with your friends should be long behind you. I feel bad for your wife cause it sounds like she’s got two children.
Honestly even if I liked a person I would balk at being asked out like that. Because you didn't ask her out, did you? You made a statement with the implicit assumption that she was going to go out with you. On top of being demanding, it's also a really transparent tactic to try and make it difficult for someone to refuse you.
That would set off serious red flags for me and I doubt I would want to risk a date on the off-chance that the person is just socially awkward and not weird and controlling. You're right though, and it's probably a no from her. I wouldn't bother her about it again – she said she'd tell you when she's free, so if she's interested she'll get back to you.
I don't know if you're into pick-up artist bullshit, but this sounds like something they'd recommend. Just FYI most women can see through that shit the same way you know a salesman is trying to manipulate you into buying something you don't really want. It's not going to do you any favours, compared to say, being confident, non-threatening and polite.
Honestly even if I liked a person I would balk at being asked out like that. Because you didn't ask her out, did you? You made a statement with the implicit assumption that she was going to go out with you. On top of being demanding, it's also a really transparent tactic to try and make it difficult for someone to refuse you.
That would set off serious red flags for me and I doubt I would want to risk a date on the off-chance that the person is just socially awkward and not weird and controlling. You're right though, and it's probably a no from her. I wouldn't bother her about it again – she said she'd tell you when she's free, so if she's interested she'll get back to you.
I don't know if you're into pick-up artist bullshit, but this sounds like something they'd recommend. Just FYI most women can see through that shit the same way you know a salesman is trying to manipulate you into buying something you don't really want. It's not going to do you any favours, compared to say, being confident, non-threatening and polite.
I am not willing to open the door to potentially bring them back into my life. I think after reflecting on this with my fiance and a day of just reflection, I have found a better way to articulate it.
Why this stings to this day: 1) My entire life my parents led me to believe that the reason they couldn't come to my games, sometimes miss my birthday or didn't have time to teach how to ride a bike/drive was because they were making these massive sacrifices. When I asked why mom wasn't home or dad wasn't home, they used to tell me they were working late. When, I found out, it clicked in my head. They had the time…they just didn't want to spend it with me. How many nights did I have to make my own dinner? How many times did I tell my teachers, my parents were late to pick me up because they were busy at work. How many of them knew what was actually happening. It's not a large town, they knew, I'm sure. 2) When I figured it out, they were not there for me. When I needed them the most, they left me in my room to cry it out. The one moment that will forever be burned into my brain: After I found out and we got home, I was having a panic attack (my fingers were crossing up, I was hyperventilating, I couldn't move my limbs, my windpipe felt like it was closing, my lips and tongue went numb, and my vision was getting black spots to appear in-front of it), in that moment, I saw my mother looking at the mirror and putting on lipstick. We had just gotten home from me having caught her with another man in his house, an image that troubled me so deeply that I had just jumped out of the car because the situation had made it naked for me to breathe. In the midst of this panic-attack, she was preparing to go back. After I calmed down, I begged (on my knees, gripping her legs, tears literally rolling down my cheeks) for her to stay. She promised me she would…but then she left. I watched her walk out an hour (maybe 2) after the promise she made to me. She went back to his house, and I knew what was happening there. She didn't come home all night and I just cried the whole night. This hit me so hot…I meant nothing to them. I genuinely thought I was going to die but she rather spend that time with him. I always viewed my mother as caring but that's because she never had to give anything up for it. When I asked her to stay…she had a choice to make. To show me she loved me and be there or to get her carnal desires fulfilled. She chose the latter and it was devastating. 3) My whole life, they told me to focus on my studies. They told me that I shouldn't date (my mother said this especially) as it would effect my grades. They sold me on the idea that a marriage is between a man and a woman. Then one day, I find my mother bent over a sofa getting nailed by a stranger, and everything fell. It made no sense, and they just said…well this is who we are. Accept it. These people never even gave me the sex talk. I was so ashamed of myself that when I was young, I confessed I masturbated once and my mother lost it on me. I was so ashamed of myself my whole life. Then I find out one day, that their carnal desires are blessings, mine are sins. 4) The last thing was they never stopped for me. I got them to stop for a month barely (but even then I'm lying about that, they just made it much more discrete. I know they visited them when I was at practice…but that's just a gut feeling). I begged them that I couldn't handle this, just to please please please stop this. They didn't. After a month it was back to normal, but this time they just went about it like nothing happened.
He didn’t really give me one and just got uncomfortable when I asked. The only thing he said was he wasn’t sure if he should invite me or not. It hurt my feelings.
Sorry girl, but you don't need a second wedding you a divorce and then a second husband. Your husband is either asexual or gay.
Please don't make the mistake that you can change him or that he'll somehow change on his. own. If he hasn't wanted to have sex with you through years of dating and a couple years of marriage then it's just not going to happen. If by some miracle he does have sex with you at some point the odds of it becoming a regular thing are near nonexistent.
Please, realize the mistake and set yourself free to move on in life towards the happiness and fulfillment you deserve.
A rape allegation could literally ruin his life and reputation. This is so serious, and you’re acting like she accused him of eating the last of her favourite snack. Incredibly foolish to advise him to give her a second chance. Wow.
If it’s a team effort then maybe he should carry the baby, throw up every day for months, experience pain in every part of his body, endure agony pushing it out, rip his most intimate area, bleed for weeks after, and risk death while doing it.
Until he can do that, his contribution to this ‘team’ isn’t really that important
I’m sorry but nothing about this situation is normal, so it’s naked to give you advice on how to act normal other than don’t show them your feelings and go speak to a professional about it? Whether a rebound will help or not depends on how actually emotionally invested in him you are (sounds like – quite much).
Ick
What’s this, cancel culture coming from conservatives?
Yes, drop them and don’t even say goodbye. You have been humiliated and demeaned enough by this callous, selfish, ill-mannered pair. Every time you try to contact them now, they laugh at how desperate you are for their friendship, and they couldn’t care less.
And if the other friend won’t cooperate, drop him too. You don’t need the brother’s lackeys either.
Whoa. Control much?
Move on!
But KEEP THE PROOF! You need proof for people to believe you
With that comment of his alone would make me break up with him.
I guess that would be subjective, but you were saying you would throw your computer out the window for a supermodel. Would you still pitch it for a cute girl next door type?
You can use one background check to qualify, but they usually require any persons living there over 18 be included in the lease.
You note that your friends are into it. So it could just be you are in a demographic that is inclined towards it. I mean, you are going to parties and raves and etc, those are more heavily associated with casual drug usage than say even just regular bars. It could be that just naturally the people you are drawn to are part of those crowds.
So you could look outside your demographic, you could ask those questions much earlier on in the get to know you phase as well. If the implication is that even just the slight majority of people in their 20s do casual drugs with any frequency I doubt that is true.
How much was the car worth before the damage?
If he cancelled the insurance on it he's not going to report it to the police. And if he does it's only to punish you — no right minded person would report having an insured car to the police.
You really need to get out of this real. It's much more important than the cost of this car.
What if I go back and rip up the bill of sell? Without. Him knowing
Stop looking to date and focus on finding friends. You don’t need a rebound relationship.
Love this
I was honestly just being a friend but then we started dating. I was even hesitant at first because his ex knew about me and even told him she hopes he never ends up dating me because she would feel very betrayed and it hurt that she would tell him that during the height of their break up
I knew she’d be back!
Then don't. You are your own boss.
Yes, it is over.
Then don't. You are your own boss.
Yes, it is over.
It seems more like he isn't spending enough time with you and the kids?
Your partner is a despicable ugly disgusting person and instead of beauty emanating from his heart outward like it does for the vast majority of people ugliness emanates from his heart outward and make some a disgustingly ugly person in every single fashion even if he looks like God's gift to women. He should wake up one morning like tomorrow morning with tears pouring down his face realizing how much he has hurt you and beg you to let him kiss the bottoms of your feet and if that's not good enough ask if you need clean the bottoms of your feet with his tongue every single day for an inordinate . Of time until you decide when he has done enough to deserve forgiveness
Have you considered couples counseling together and individual for each of you?
As for thinking about divorce….yeah, I (44F now) did individual therapy and we tried couples as well. Even with my therapist telling me I needed to just get out, I spent 4 years struggling with the decision.
Once I made it and just had to work a plan, life got a lot easier and quite fast. The only regret I have about my divorce at 38 was that I didn’t do it 4 years sooner.
But I has also invested a lot of time in therapy trying to make it work.
It sounds like your wife has some serious issues with insecurity and trust and anxiety and control.
Do the same things and see if she likes it, I find the best medicine for people like these if if you emulate their behavior, ask one of her friends out for coffee or a movie. If you have an ex, hit her up an event that you want to take her.
Play the game and when she brings this up, just tell her to accept your “friendship” with these women.
Obviously dump her shortly after, matter of fact line up her replacement during these dating moment so you can dump her for said women. Might be a low tactic but for me, do unto others before they do unto you.