People are saying grooming only applies to minors. That’s factually not the case by definition. I’m not speaking on this particular case, just cases in general. What’s wrong with correcting people who are misinformed and spreading misinformation?
That's what I was wondering. Or she's pissed and said this as a “you can have him” type comment. Which is gross, but this is all speculation either way.
I just figured we don't know enough to assume the husband is also in on this.
Especially since she used the car to drive out of town. If this had happened on your way home from the airport I think the bill should have been split.
She seems like a great friend that did this without questioning it ?
If he gave you permission and everyone is on board then go ahead and date…these types of relationships don't always work out but some do. I just feel that there would be a lot of hurt feelings. There's a lot of red flags with your relationship with your boyfriend and it can go either way.
“I’m hardworking and young and have my life together and my boyfriend who is six years older than me does literally nothing resembling being in a relationship with me and also flirts with other girls and generally treats everyone better than he treats me. How can I fix him?”
You can’t, you shouldn’t try, you clearly deserve better. You described nothing positive about the man and it doesn’t sound like he much likes you.
No judgment, being young is all about being in terrible relationships and learning what you can and can’t stand and what you’re actually looking for.
Now step on his nuts with nothing but high heels on and put the other foot in his mouth like a pacifier lmao jk. But in all seriousness you should see what exactly he likes about feet by watching the porn he likes with him. My ex had a fetish I wasn’t really familiar with but after watching her enjoy what she likes, it helped me understand what I could do to hit those sweet spots she desired. After that I was just playing the part for her and I got really good at it after a few times. Good luck and take care.
I am so thankful for all of these comments and the ones to come. As a man I can admit I was wrong and I for sure appreciate y’all being blunt with me. I needed that. I did apologize but me knowing her she still hurt behind it. She is always patient with me when I have my issues when I’m mad at things going on with my child’s mom or work I vent to her and she listens to all of the anger and always been patient. Her best friend sent her flowers to her house on my behalf and I didn’t know she did that. Her best friend is trying to help me I guess. For sure lesson learned. I hate I feel like I’m always hurting her. Thanks you all.
Just tell him what happened, that you got called out and now you feel you did something wrong
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That's what I was wondering. Or she's pissed and said this as a “you can have him” type comment. Which is gross, but this is all speculation either way.
I just figured we don't know enough to assume the husband is also in on this.
Especially since she used the car to drive out of town. If this had happened on your way home from the airport I think the bill should have been split.
She seems like a great friend that did this without questioning it ?
Ok, that's absolutely hilarious.
I would want to know
Sometimes you need to go on your own to grow, it's nice and cute if you can go together, but if not, that's also life
If he gave you permission and everyone is on board then go ahead and date…these types of relationships don't always work out but some do. I just feel that there would be a lot of hurt feelings. There's a lot of red flags with your relationship with your boyfriend and it can go either way.
“I’m hardworking and young and have my life together and my boyfriend who is six years older than me does literally nothing resembling being in a relationship with me and also flirts with other girls and generally treats everyone better than he treats me. How can I fix him?”
You can’t, you shouldn’t try, you clearly deserve better. You described nothing positive about the man and it doesn’t sound like he much likes you.
No judgment, being young is all about being in terrible relationships and learning what you can and can’t stand and what you’re actually looking for.
Clearly this dude ain’t it.
Now step on his nuts with nothing but high heels on and put the other foot in his mouth like a pacifier lmao jk. But in all seriousness you should see what exactly he likes about feet by watching the porn he likes with him. My ex had a fetish I wasn’t really familiar with but after watching her enjoy what she likes, it helped me understand what I could do to hit those sweet spots she desired. After that I was just playing the part for her and I got really good at it after a few times. Good luck and take care.
Sounds to me like you guys need to just leave each other alone. It’s over. Please move on x
I am so thankful for all of these comments and the ones to come. As a man I can admit I was wrong and I for sure appreciate y’all being blunt with me. I needed that. I did apologize but me knowing her she still hurt behind it. She is always patient with me when I have my issues when I’m mad at things going on with my child’s mom or work I vent to her and she listens to all of the anger and always been patient. Her best friend sent her flowers to her house on my behalf and I didn’t know she did that. Her best friend is trying to help me I guess. For sure lesson learned. I hate I feel like I’m always hurting her. Thanks you all.