You need to apologize profusely. Then, never do it again. Adults generally shouldn’t slap anybody.
Also, if she doesn’t take you back (she shouldn’t), but sometimes people are inexplicably forgiving, you accept that, and be the man you weren’t when you resorted to violence.
It’s not really a strong boundary if you keep letting him cross it. Personally in my relationship me and my partner aren’t cool with opposite sex friends. This is a boundary for both of us. It seems like you need to find someone with similar boundaries or who is willing to respect your boundary, your bf isn’t willing to, therefore your values are misaligned. Unless you are willing to overlook this, I’d get out of the relationship because he isn’t going to stop, which is his right in doing so, but you also don’t have to be with a partner who does things like this.
Very true. Not sure why your being down voted.
“Accidentally”. Bullshit.
You need to apologize profusely. Then, never do it again. Adults generally shouldn’t slap anybody.
Also, if she doesn’t take you back (she shouldn’t), but sometimes people are inexplicably forgiving, you accept that, and be the man you weren’t when you resorted to violence.
It’s not really a strong boundary if you keep letting him cross it. Personally in my relationship me and my partner aren’t cool with opposite sex friends. This is a boundary for both of us. It seems like you need to find someone with similar boundaries or who is willing to respect your boundary, your bf isn’t willing to, therefore your values are misaligned. Unless you are willing to overlook this, I’d get out of the relationship because he isn’t going to stop, which is his right in doing so, but you also don’t have to be with a partner who does things like this.