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Date: November 29, 2022
Headphones. Though I doubt this is real. But for normal circumstances, headphones.
I want to continue the relationship, and how to adjust to her
If you can't communicate then what do you have? Obviously laying it on light isn't working
You need to leave his ass now. What good is this relationship doing?
Long story short, your lives are headed in different directions, and there's nothing wrong with that, end it and find someone who's online path aligns with your own since you have no interest in moving, sounds like the relationship isn't all that crazy serious to begin with so it shouldn't be all that nude, though if course it's never easy breaking up
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Yeah, that's exactly how it goes ?
By now most of my friends are either autistic or adhd too so we can happily relate to each other all day.
But how old are you now? Because this sounds like the argument I just had with my grandpa the other day. Like yes, people use to get married and have kids at 19. But they also could raise a family on a single vacuum salesman salary and bought their first house for $17,000. The world has changed. If you want to give your kids some shot of succeeding in life, you need to be established in your career and financially stable before you have kids so you can provide them the things they need. Which for alot of people these days means they need to hold off until their late 20s to even think about reproducing.
We are both from UE countries and our cultures are pretty similar (neither of our countries does arrange marriages).
He knows he screwed up this one. In his words “he was stressed to get me something and didn’t think in that moment”. I love him dearly but you’re right, I’m worried about more time passing and nothing changing
From Discoed to hidden Google docs.. Run fast brother. She’s still actively cheating with this guy, she’s just gotten better at hiding it.
Also, she fucked him. She’s been trickle truthing you. It goes much deeper and I think you already know this.
The same is true for most friendships unless it’s a friendship based on debate.
You seem to be focused on who sent you this message and overlooking the fact that you have a pretty disgusting friend. She is using you and disrespecting you and all you are concerned about is if she sent you this text. You need to end this so called friendship.
I guess my first question is what is your partner’s job entail? Is it 60/70 hour weeks? Is she a Type A personality or a workaholic? Would you describe her as someone who equates salary with success?
I think there are better ways of relaying information rather than shaming or commenting.
Perhaps her work goals are a little different than yours? What I mean is that it’s ok to work 40 hours and get a nice salary, enjoy your time off, and online life rather than the alternative. Whereas , she may think idle hands are not productive.
The scandal isn't fake.
Honestly, I think starting any kind of regular payments is a big mistake. How will you extricate yourself from that once you start? If this is how she is behaving now, imagine how she'll behave when you decide it's time to shut off the money faucet. If you start you are basically committing to doing it for life. And you know for a fact that you will constantly be pressured to give more.
She feels your money is her money and her family's money. Are you willing to accept that for life? If not, are you willing to fight against that for life. Constantly having to dig your heels in and hold your ground? If this is how she is behaving to your 'No' now, how will she behave once you're married (trapped) and have kids that she can use for leverage? Threatening divorce and taking you to the cleaners as leverage?
Sit her down one more time and let her know that this is absolutely no laughing matter — and that if she doesn’t hear you out on this and take you seriously, you’re done.
She has to get it into her thick antebellum-race-play-skull that what she is doing is repugnant to you, and that even if it weren’t, she is going about it the wrong way, and it will end up biting her in the ass one day if she pulls this type of shit in the future.
I have no taste for this type of kink; but if it HAS to happen for someone in order for them (in this case, her) to get their rocks off, then it is ENTIRELY contingent on the active and enthusiastic consent and go/no-go of whoever is the recipient of the racialized name-calling. She should not be the one calling the shots here, except if whoever is her partner now or in the future gives her the explicit OK to do so.
Best thing to do is say absolutely nothing when she gets like that
Of course he would. Just another mommy to take care of him. He probably wouldn’t even care too much.
It's clear when people don't know what “boundaries” mean in a relationship. She deserves better than someone who has 8 years on her yet no emotional maturity.
When were any modern domestic dog breeds wild animals? I seem to have forgotten.
Sometimes a dead bedroom is not enough to break an otherwise great relationship.
If he’s posting this stuff deliberately to make you jealous he hasn’t moved on. There’s no need to feel sad – he’s beyond toxic and the best thing you can do for yourself is roll your eyes and scroll past anything he’s posting.
Both of them take shit way too seriously Lmao
It could even be a poor sense of smell. I know someone who has had bad body odor for much of her life, and her family finally confronted her about it, and it turned out she literally couldn't smell the odours that other people could. Her family are pretty open about it with her now and tell her when she is starting to smell and needs to put on more deodorant or wash
It's your right to include them or leave them out if you want to. However, that long of cut contact without any healing besides a cessation of being triggered makes me worried about you, speaking to someone else may help. And awful as it was for you to find out how you did, your parents don't owe it to you to alter their relationship and sex lives for your comfort. Being more discreet and having more conversations with you would've been nice, but it's not up to you to dictate their lives. It's also not your job to just be okay with it, it's okay for their alternative relation to be upsetting. I'm not sure where this will lead you, but I hope you have a wonderful wedding and healing, whatever that looks like for you.
You don’t have to invite them to your wedding but your reasoning for having no relationship is crazy . There’s no way you should be that invested in your parents relationship when they weren’t hurting anyone and were happy . You made yourself a victim here when nobody actually did anything to you ??♀️
You must be the reason for her edit. Idk why you felt it necessary to dig through her posts. It's not the same BF if it makes you feel better.
This is abuse. He is abusing you.
Leave. Now.
I got right on that!
My pleasure.
it sounds like you're allowed to have an opinion as long as it's the same as his
And that’s nice of you, but would he even be able to enjoy a vacation with what he’s going through? Wouldn’t his time be better spent job hunting than vacationing?
Who are you arguing with? The person you're replying to is agreeing with you.
what?
Just a karma farmer… nothing to see here! To ridiculous to be true.
” 30 seconds to take chicken out of the freezer”
This reminds me of a spoiled/sheltered mommas boy type friend I had in highschool, who once said to me ” how long does it take to wash up some clothes(meaning wash and dried) five minutes?”
I said ” looks like someone's mommy does his wash still.”
As a grown man who has cooked and cleaned for myself since I was a literal child, I can guarantee you this man was used to mommy (or someone) cooking for him all his life as well. “An expression of love” aka what he's used to and/or expects.
I also worked full time as a blue collar biz owner and also did all of the cooking or picked us both up takeout on my way home, as my ex did/would not cook,but a handful of time over 8yrs living together. She also barely worked for my co from home, after she woke up at 12-2pm and half-ass returned some calls aka played phone tag with my customers.
Splitting the cooking? Absolutely fair and shouldn't be an argument. I later realized my ex not only not loved me, she didn't even care about me. Imo people who don't reciprocate care or share responsibilities do not,in general,care about the other party.
“What should I do?”
Either leave or accept it I suppose. This won't change and is only the beginning of one sided viewpoints and ridiculous expectations.
At least he showed you what kind of asshole you almost married.
Oh good god grow up..
He has done nothing wrong apart from date someone who could be his child.
You have a very silly way of life, I have a make best friend and we wouldn’t sleep together. In fact the thought makes us both ill.
Believe it or not you can be friends with the opposite sex and your exs without there being a motive.
He is too old for you and you are too young for him.
You don’t sound mature enough for a adult relationship
Consequences meaning however your family reacts.
A) body counts are stupid. At a certain point some people lose count and it's objectifying in one of the worst ways.
B) If 5 is too much for him then he seems prudish, but that's just me. Find someone more laid-back maybe?
C) If he doesn't want to understand your past as well as your present he's not worth it.
He's failing to be an trustworthy and emotionally avalible partner? A trait he has that must be connected to his upbringing and addictions is that he deflects a lot which can make it real hot to discuss stuff.
But i feel like you are fishing for something and im not sure what. Are you saying I am making his problems my own? Or that there is another issue im not seeing/articulating?
Why? Why would you think that? On what basis would you think that a break in communication for a few hours meant he didn't care for you?
I say this with love but you need therapy to understand you are worthy of the love of this man, and if anything but is your need for constant reassurance and your doubting of him which will cause this relationship the most trouble.
Joshua is not a good man he's a lazy pig who demads sex after eating the dinner, he says he's too tired to cook. Buying you dinner is not doing his share of the household chores.
You should not quit your job or have kids with this guy you should leave him.
The Bible is just book assembled by a load of pagan men in rome by a series votes for “favourite” stories. You should read the ones they voted against lol.
Also do you think you might be gay?
But she has been found cheating only AFTER going through her FB account.
Anyhow… doing this is not that clever. One mostly ends up finding something to make oneself hurt over something if one is so inclined.
being cuddly and loving to a lover before, during, and after doesn't need a name!!! It's just being loving. If it needs a name and people have to think about it and discuss it, it sounds more like a chore. If you want someone who's loving and caring by nature, break it off with this person who isn't and find someone who is. Or maybe just try to turn into gaming is his 'love language'!
I hope so, but I'm a bit down, I want to improve myself