If she doesn’t wanna be kissed then don’t have a bf. If OPs kiss was incredibly creepy +uncalibrated and forced or sth then I might have some sympathy, but sounds like she had absolutely no problem with this in the moment and her stupid friend talked her into this charade
You should not be chasing anybody when you’re dysregulated. I know how you fell and it took many years to come to that realization. So my suggestion is remain single when you feel unstable. Then after you’ve worked through you’re own stuff you’ll see that this guy is jerking your around and using you to feel better about himself when he craves attention. He doesn’t care that it’s unhealthy attention because he’s selfish. He’s not witty your effort. Work on you. Stay in therapy. Until you’re better or at least until you don’t say things like I’m crazy anymore. And then these dudes will drop at your feet:) don’t let this loser steal your joy.
If she doesn’t wanna be kissed then don’t have a bf. If OPs kiss was incredibly creepy +uncalibrated and forced or sth then I might have some sympathy, but sounds like she had absolutely no problem with this in the moment and her stupid friend talked her into this charade
You should not be chasing anybody when you’re dysregulated. I know how you fell and it took many years to come to that realization. So my suggestion is remain single when you feel unstable. Then after you’ve worked through you’re own stuff you’ll see that this guy is jerking your around and using you to feel better about himself when he craves attention. He doesn’t care that it’s unhealthy attention because he’s selfish. He’s not witty your effort. Work on you. Stay in therapy. Until you’re better or at least until you don’t say things like I’m crazy anymore. And then these dudes will drop at your feet:) don’t let this loser steal your joy.