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Date: December 7, 2022
You are absolutely right. She would go on to say how the fact I dated A defines me as a person. If only she knew that I have had even more relationships with people from a completely unrelated ethnicity – I’ll drop this tonight just to totally mess her point
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I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for 6 years. I had been planning to ask her to marry me later this year. From my perspective, everything has been stable and loving in our relationship.
However, over the last few months, I’ve noticed that she became super secretive about her phone- and I finally got up the nerve to look through it.
Well, what I found absolutely stunned me. She seems to have developed a deep, lasting relationship with another man. Their texts range from the mundane to the sorts of sexual fantasies they are acting out together. There are texts planning their next sexual escapades, him asking her when I’m leaving for the day (we don’t live together) and so on.
Believe me or not, it gets worse. As I scrolled through their conversation, I found that she got pregnant by this man. There were texts about how the pregnancy is making her feel, and a screenshot of a doctor’s appointment, as well as a picture of the medicine she got sent to her to facilitate the abortion. In my country, this is almost unheard of.
I’m stunned beyond all words. My legs became weak reading this information, and I still can’t quite process it. She seems absolutely and completely normal towards me- if anything more loving than in years past. I can’t reconcile what I’m seeing in our relationship with the woman I can read about in the text messages.
I also love her very much. I’m crushed. And I have no idea how to even approach the topic with her. This is the woman I thought I’d grow old with.
So, I’m asking for advice. Do I throw away the 6 years we have? Do I try and salvage this situation? Please forgive me if this sounds ridiculous, I don’t even know what I SHOULD be asking right now. My head is absolutely spinning. Thanks for reading and for any advice you might have.
TLDR: gf formed a long term sexual relationship with another man; aborted his child; and acts completely normal towards me. I am in shock and unable to fully process this.
Stop caring what he is going to tell you and grow a spine.
Well, you know this isn’t going to work, right? Betrayal is difficult but guilt proposals are the worst and he clearly gives no fucks about the timing of all this.
He’s a jerk, but this is the time to let him wallow in his own shit. Break off the wedding. Tell him you need to focus on your mom right now and that you want nothing more to do with the discussion.
If it means anything at all to you I wanted to say this is not your fault. In case the “…I’ve been so busy with mom” or “I haven’t been feeling sexual/paying him much attention” bullshit thoughts come into your mind. We are allowed to have times where our focus has to go elsewhere and men worth marrying don’t stray away with mutual friends when we are at our lowest points or experiencing deep emotional trauma like the slow death of a parent or nursing a sick parent.
He will try to tell you it’s what made him realise he wanted to marry you and he proposed right away because he was finally really sure you’re the one for the rest of his life. That is utter bullshit too, he strayed because he could and felt zero loyalty to you. The mutual friend is an asshole too. Let them have each other!