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There are ways to say it. “Thank you. This is so thoughtful, and I appreciate it, truly. Do you mind if I returned it and got a different one? It's just not my thing, and I'd hate for you to get me an album I will never listen to.”
I grew up with Everyman I knew in my life cheating on their wives/gfs I guess it was just so common for me growing up. My own dad had a mistress, and child outside of marriage.
I’ve never really dated so I don’t have much of my own experience with romance really just sexually
He's just and ahole of a guy. Your not his first. I bet he say this to every girl he dated. Stay away. Youbdont want someone pushing your boundaries, do you??
Next time he says that, tell him you want to peg him, if he says no do the same, that he's supposed to do things you want in be to make you happy.
Stay. AWAY. RUN FORREST
Sorry but most guys do not grow until 21.
Some may but it’s very rare.
Long bone growth plates fuse for guys around 15-16, sometimes 17.
Well, he's putting in a restraining order on me
Sorry you went through this, but if you’re driving a car you don’t normally drive it’s on you as the driver to be more careful cause your passenger isn’t driving, you are. That’s his first problem.
Second blaming you for his mistake, he should be apologizing to you for possibly damaging your car.
Third problem is yelling at you when you’re already emotional and not de escalating the situation himself. I could never see myself yelling at someone crying.
It looks bad from the outside cause it is bad. Maybe he just had a bad night, but he better come back and apologize. I know holidays are times when family members show why some people go to therapy. Maybe he needs some. Now that the dust has settled, if you feel comfortable talking with him about that night and how it happened and how it made you feel and see his response. Trust your gut, if his response makes you feel icky then trust that feeling and take the appropriate action.
The way he’s a “good dad” to his favorite kid isn’t good, actually. He’s driving a wedge between your boys that could result in permanent estrangement.
By staying, you are choosing your “good” son over your other. Choose both and leave.
What do I do to get her back?
All you can do is say you're sorry, you'll learn from your mistakes and do stuff she wants like counseling or whatever else she wants.
“She has now informed me this is totally over”
If after all of that? She says you're over? you have to see the writing on the wall. It takes to too tango and if one says it's totally over? Time to lick your wounds, learn and move on.
I was married and divorced and it took me *YEARS* to get over it. I know the pain of life changing event. I know the pain of a future you want going up in smoke.
but at the end of the day? If she's telling you it's over? Then you can only say “I've done what I can. I've made reasonable offers. I've made myself available to her. She said no and it's time to move on.”
It might take you years to recover… but that's your option unless she changes her mind. That's the only way you'll “get her back” and she's made it clear it isn't happening.
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I agree with her. I think that alienating your children from one parent out of spite is more morally corrupt than cheating. I consider friends and family members that would just ditch me on a whim as unreliable and not true friends/family.
True friends and family help each other through difficult times even if that friend or family member is to blame for it.
That’s your call. There are plenty of people who can look at their own parents relationship, and horrible dissolution, and still love both their parents. I don’t see anywhere where OP said, “idgaf that my dad betrayed my mother”. Life is fucking complex, you can love someone and have really complicated feelings about their life choices. His mother has zero business demanding that he pick sides because of how her marriage turned out. That’s a horrible thing to impose on your child and incredibly selfish. Your hurt, your trauma, your pain from your adult relationship is yours. Life is fucking naked. You are responsible for your own well-being. If she said, son I cannot have a relationship with you because you have a relationship with your father that would be one thing. But putting the onus on him is bullshit.
Break up with her. She deserves better than to be used as a place holder so you get all the benefits and support of being in a relationship until you meet the woman you DO want to marry. You are being very selfish to string her along like this.
Why aren’t you this empathetic when it comes to your dad being forced to picture his son being fucked by a bigger and older man?
If you didn’t talk to your partner about how fucked that was to say and how there is no universe that it’s appropriate but instead coddled him and said “good job for coming to dinner” because of his social anxiety, you are doing nothing to actually help him get over that as a problem.
Behaviours like clearly saying something that he shouldn’t have, alienating his partners father, and having you now looking for advice to handle the problem that your boyfriend caused are going to make him MORE socially anxious.
Your dad deserves better than having his son being fucked in the ass thrown in his face by another man he doesn’t know anything about on the first time meeting him, you let him down massively.
You need to reach out to him and apologise, he doesn’t owe you a god damn thing in the other direction.
It's really difficult to move forward.
My ex was obsessed with his ex for years and early on befwe were official but were interested in one another he told me they made a sex video and the chemistry with her was off the wall.
Our intimacy wasn't that great. He talked a big game of stamina but fell flat. I felt like I was the problem and felt ugly I couldn't measure upto his ex.
Right? Dude was out there raw dogging people he barely knew. I’d be getting myself checked asap.
I’m scared that I’ll regret breaking up with him. He’s all I know and I love him:(. He’s sweet most of the time but I do know the outburst every few months isn’t okay. I always thought he’d be my forever
You stand your ground. DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR ANYTHING JERE. But don’t bother trying to “explain your side in a way he’ll understand”. He isn’t interested in understanding. He’s interested in controlling you. Engaging in honest exchange and understanding anything here would thwart the power of what he’s pulling here.
He’s an extremely insecure dude. And insecure people are the worst people in the world to be in a relationship with. Every toxic, abusive action and situation stems from insecurity. And you never, ever cater to or try to sooth this kind of insecurity. You’ll never “behave” well enough or correct enough for him to finally feel better and stop being insecure and attempting to control. His behavior is designed, consciously or not, to get you stepping-and-fetching for his love and approval. And every time you do, it greenlights more of the exact same behavior.
The correct stance from you is “that was complete bullshit. I don’t know wtf is wrong with you not you need to sort yourself out. And I’m not interested in participating in this relationship unless you do.”
You can make informed decisions without being spoon fed obvious scientific data
You mentioned in one comment if you should try therapy first for the sake of the kids. From my experience(my parents divorced), kids don’t need married parents and it is even counterproductive for them if their parents are unhappy. If your child would be in the same situation as you are, would you want them to stay in an unhealthy relationship or divorce and find happiness on your own? Just be an example for them. I don’t believe you would be an good example by staying in this relationship but it is your choice.
Also your current husband can still be their dad even if you’re divorced. If he was a good dad before, he still will be. If he was a bad dad before, that will also stay.
Why
Why the
Why the fuck do you
Why the fuck do you write your comment like this?
Oooo you know… these are no accidents
I like him because he’s caring and kind. He genuinely listens to me and appreciates things about me that I myself find difficult to like. He doesn’t necessarily boost my ego but is rather attentive and compassionate
I've been reading a book called “adult children of emotionally immature parents”
May not be your situation but the sample is free on kindle and I'd bet the sample will give you a good feel for if it's for you or not
He’s done enough damage to you where you may no longer be in love with him. You may love him, but this relationship is over. Count your losses and get out. Kudos for being so self-aware at your age.
Girl you’re a POS. When I get drunk I want my man even more. When you get drunk you cheat and are a mean b!tch to him. Honestly I would never trust you after that. Probably going to want to fuck his roommate again. And the fact that you did that in front of everyone…… oof I was his friends I wouldn’t fucking like you after. Def would be calling you fast.