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Birth Date: 2003-02-27
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Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
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Date: February 24, 2023
Hi, I understand how your wife feels so let me just give my two cents to hopefully help you understand our side of things.
I started out like that with my current partner too. I always had a relatively high sex drive with my previous partners, and so did I with my current partner when we first got together. However, somewhere down the line, I just completely lost my sex drive. I don’t feel horny anymore; I don’t feel the desire to masturbate at all. Sexual acts make me feel gross about myself. I’ve thought to myself before that I’m not interested in sex too.
I’m very attracted to my partner, he’s the best looking person I’ve been with so it’s definitely not a case of me finding him unattractive. For me, I think what caused my loss of libido is my body image issues. I gained a lot of weight over the past year (around 8kg? I’m 155cm so 8kg shows a lot on me) and it made me resent myself tbh. I lost any desire for sex because I couldn’t believe that my partner would like seeing my body.
It did take me a very long time for me to realise what was the issue though, I blamed it on a lot of things initially like my partner not being affectionate enough, my birth control, etc. I’m now in the process of losing the weight I gained to restore my confidence. I guess what I’m trying to say is that maybe your wife has some issues that she hasn’t addressed because it’s not normal for someone to go from wanting sex regularly to not being interested in sex at all. However, I do understand how it feels in your shoes, my partner has voiced out his unhappiness similar to your feelings. Try and see if you can reach a compromise on how often sex should be, my partner and I settled on once a week (we only see each other on the weekends) and if I’m not up for sex, I’ll give him a blowjob. All the best to you.
You treat yourself this way. Why do you accept it?