0 views
Miss Emmi and her friend charming_pan, 25 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start on-line video press there
Online Live Sex Chat rooms Miss Emmi and her friend charming_pan
Date: November 6, 2022
Miss Emmi and her friend charming_pan, 25 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start on-line video press there
Have you two talked about food stuff before or is he really just applying a double standard, then? Because if he is, then that's the next red flag…
What I mean with “talked” is basically that you said “Yeah, if you want something, feel free to grab it” when he is at your place and he never said anything like that the other way round. However, he definitely should have communicated with you, I agree.
To me personally, taking food from the kitchen of someone you don't live! with without asking is okay if:
The person has said so before/given you “free roam”
The food was purchased by both of you together and/or used in shared meals, so that it's reasonable to have “a right” to the food/assume the food is yours.
The food was prepared by you.
I guess I also think that especially protein bars are something that's generally “off limits” because it's such a common work snack and sometimes really essential. My best friend is a teacher at a primary school and she never has breaks long enough to eat a “real” meal between classes because there's always a kid needing something. She lives off of protein bars during her workday – and I did the same, back when I was working in a very different job (office work), simply because I didn't want to spend all my break eating and more with other things. If you would have, back then, eaten one of my protein bars, I would have been pissed as well (but never yelled or slammed a door) because it would have meant no food for one of my breaks and me likely being hungry. I would have also been upset about you just eating something else, simply because the leftovers were there, but more in a “I don't want that to happen again, please eat the leftovers”-way. But yeah, protein bars are, to me, something that is far more likely eaten not at home, but in an environment where the energy is needed and there is no time for other food (work, during an exam, between appointments…). So those would, to me, be the thing I would be the least likely to grab from a kitchen to snack on.
Ultimately, both of you communicated poorly and he displayed a lot of red flags. Likely, as overstepping as your actions were, they were a blessing in disguise because I wouldn't stay with this guy. I could understand annoyance or him sitting down with you and stating that what you did wasn't okay with him and he's now not having enough work food, but anger issues? Hell no.
Okay I see. Thank you for elaborating further, and No I think the miscommunication comes from me knowing everything that you’re saying is true already. I know that to be true and I’m totally okay with my brother disagreeing. I think my brother wants to have these conversations about gender and talk with me but I just know my brother and I know those conversations will entail very hurtful things towards trans people. I want to be able to have these conversations with my brother regardless of the outcome to at least establish a sense of communication between us, I also just don’t know how to have these conversations and then communicate what they entailed to my partner who is very much involved in family conversations and situations without scaring them during a sensitive time in their transition. Plus, I know if I don’t cue my partner in on what my brother and I speak about at all, they will just get nervous about it.