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Date: October 6, 2022
I think he's just really scared of the possibility of another divorce. You can't completely blame him, but at the same time, he needs to understand how much this means to you as well. Try talking to him and getting to know why he is behaving this way.
Find a compromise.
I don't think you are asking for too much, you have your own needs, in this case, security in a relationship, and if having a ring on your finger gives you that security, who's to stop you?
Always be kind. Don't do things that you don't want people to do to you. The bible say, Love your neighbor as your self. Maybe you need to pray. If you don't want a relationship be honest and move on with kindness and respect.
My ex often said tactless things like that.
He said his exes had bigger ass/boobs. He’d tell me which of his female friend he found attractive. He said he would fuck one of his coworkers if he was single and had the opportunity. He’d say stuff like ‘’I don’t know if in a year from now I’ll stop being in love’’ or ‘’statistically, there is probably someone better for me on the planet’’
I couldn’t figure out if he was just stupidly honest, or trying to make me feel like shit.
Long story short – it didn’t work.
If your bf says things like this, he doesn’t care how it will make you feel. This is not ok.
Let' say everything she says is the truth. She wants to be your friend. She values your emotional support, etc.
Look at how much pain you're in. Pain is how your body and soul lets you know that you need to move on.
If he's acting like this, he isn't the love of your life.
INFO: Do you have small children at home, or is she 9 months' pregnant and about to deliver?
If the answer to both of those questions is “No”… she is controlling as hell and you need to put a stop to her BS or it will only get worse.
Every few weeks we go out and have the grandparents watch the kids. Acting like everything is ok but just no physical touch other than holding hands and that’s killing me
I do feel my trust in her has been fractured
You were broken up, by your choice. She didn’t fracture your trust, you ended the relationship. At that point she owed you nothing. So don’t ask her more questions, it’s not a problem she needs to solve. It’s your insecurities getting in the way. She’s choosing to be with you, if that’s not enough for you, then maybe you need to work on yourself more or share with her you’re feeling jealous or not good enough and ask for reassurance.
Op, if you want to get away from where your at and maybe can’t afford college.
Maybe look at various resorts for a seasonal job. I worked at a couple of ski resorts/conference centers in my 20’s plus a couple of national parks that have housing.
You can get basic jobs and have a place to on-line and save money. It’s just an idea to look into until you figure out what you want to do next.
Thanks man! Stay safe out here
She takes days to message u back? Doesn’t seem interested in being together ngl
This is very simple: go 50/50. Stop paying for him. He will then act one way or another. Either he steps up, and starts working more, or chooses you over the football, or he doesn't and he starts breaking plans with you. Either way you will have your answer.
One thing I've learned is that issues of trust must be balanced in a relationship. I don't see that balance in your relationship with your husband because he demands to read your messages from other people but doesn't trust you with the same information about himself.
My experience is that people that need that amount of control will continue to escalate their need for control to some intolerable or terrible level.
She's 3. He's not going to decide his time evenly because she is young and needs to be cared for. She's more important than you.
Look if you can't handle dating a man with children then don't. But the issue here is you not his daughter..
Hey friend, join us as r/bipolar we might be able to help more than relationship advice. Consider it an anonymous on-line support group
Absolutely divorce him. You have thrown away 20 prime time years on him already. Avoid the Sunk Costs Fallacy and make sure its not 20, or 40 more. At this age you still have time to have a decent life and maybe even a second better marriage, If that is what you want. Don't waste another minute!
Honestly, it's just something you're going to have to work through. Whether it's recognizing those romantic feelings and making yourself think platonically, or however that looks for you, that's the best action to take. You know he's off limits for so many reasons, so it's up to you both to keep that professional boundary.
I mean this as seriously as possible, but I have masturbated before going into the situation so my mind would be far less likely to think non platonic thoughts, atleast for awhile. Maybe for some meditation would help, or just writing down why it's a bad idea.
I have not seen it. I was not interested in hurting myself more at the time but I would want to read it now. I think he probably wrote that he had done not much wrong and that I didn’t warn him for MONTHS. Making it seem that the break up was out of the blue, and that I moved onto someone else and came back to him as though nothing happened.
I was not in a good place mentally for one reason before the rape and then an even worse place mentally after the rape. He himself has even told me it’s like 2 different people. I never showed myself to be disloyal or untrustworthy and was a bubbly person. What I don’t get is if I see this kind of switch in behavior from someone who is meant to be the closest person to you how I would just automatically want to help them and understand and give them grace. I feel like that is a normal reaction.
Anyways, thank you very much for taking the time to respond I really do appreciate it 🙂
Why are you even bothering to stay in this relationship. It's not worth it man.
Also, I'm sorry but If I feel I've gotta lock your dick in an actual cage….I'm done with the relationship ?
He is gay.
This is a very personal question. The internet can’t tell you how to proceed or give you a nude right or wrong stance on the matter. That’s why the topic is so heated and debated to begin with. You are dating someone who is pro life. Only you can decide if that’s ok with you.
That's some pretty important context leave out.
At 35 weeks, I basically stopped traveling to any place that was more than 1 hour from my home. This was done by the advice of my doctor as at 35 weeks, you could go into labor at any time.
Leave? She's telling you it's okay for her to cheat since you play fifa
If you give him an ultimatum it won't work, he's been using that manipulation technique for most of your relationship, he will keep on doing because it has worked before, you won't get through to him with just words, all you can do is save you yourself and your son. Of you're serious about divorce do it behind his back, you mention anger problems, even if he hasn't acted physically on it, the possibility he landed out when confronted might hurt you, take precautions, if you won't use them then fine, being prepared for the worst didn't hurt nobody,
Well being a pride myself if I know someone that has done so much bad to people I care I wouldn't invite them in the first place because it is an invitation to disaster…. especially when you know that a person is a drama person why have them there in the first place? You have to prevent situations. But op can put him in his place by doing all the above or even saying to him to go away.
Talk to him about it.
It was God's leading to me and moved my heart to address the issue to her. I did not want to do it tbh but I just want to obey God on this. To the point my quiet time with God is blocked already if I did not reach out to her. It sounds strange but after I message her, my relationship with God during my quiet time is now ok and I communicate with Him clearly now
Tbh, I could have just let this go like I did before, cut her off with my life and moved on. But God convicted me to do this, so I did it. I hope she does the same..
PICK. THE. SCHOOL. ALWAYS. Your future is ALWAYS first priority even family comes after that. Only a person's kids should be over their future in terms of priority
If you are getting married and concerned about assets. Consult a lawyer about a pre nuptial agreement. They are well worth the effort.
You've blocked them both already, which is great. What happens now is just time. It will take a long time to get over this, because what happened to you is really horrible. Feel what you need to feel, be sad, be fucking angry, cry, despair. It's ok to feel your feelings. It might be a good idea to talk it out with a counsellor or therapist.
Don't feel like you need to be over this right away. Take your time.
You fucked
It's not control. It's giving the victim the ability to make his choice. What if they pass along an std after cheating? They clearly don't know right from wrong. Also you'd be surprised how many adults don't think cheating is bad. Hell you're will to protect a cheater.
Don't consider it. Do it. He has zero respect for you. He is more interested in impressing his friends instead of telling them the truth and being happy with you for being you. You deserve someone who will love every inch of you and not feel the need to brag by lying a out something that is obviously false. He also doesn't see you as long term material because sooner or later you would meet his friends if he considered you long term. Why lie of they will find out anyway. Dump his ass and move on.
Just go ahead and dump him. You can't make anyone prioritize you or your health Hun. That's supposed to be automatic when a person cares.
This is an excellent way of looking at it. Sometimes you can only know what you definitely don't want by going through it yourself. And OP has already done the nude part of taking out the trash. It's only onwards and upwards from here OP. You got this!
gone head, icarus. this does not bode well for you.
Probably partly due to something in your own history that makes you really want his approval. Him providing the bare minimum triggers something inside you thinking that if you do enough then he will finally give more back. You want to win his love and approval affection etc. And him giving little feels great partly due to the lack of him giving. Kinda like starving and getting a piece of moldy bread, that bread will feel great and you'll do anything in hopes to get more or something better. Sorry I can't explain it better in English. But it's kinda common abuse/manipulative strategy either intentional or unintentional. Here it seems intentional. Nothing you do will be ever enough to get more than scraps from him most likely. He will likely love bomb you at times to make you feel great. Then revert to the same old.
When you get rid of this guy, and I'm saying when not if. Be careful since the next relationship you head into you will be pretty vulnerable for it happening again. Don't know why or how but these type of aholes are good at screening vulnerable targets.
Why don't you think about this with some depth?
You were reluctant to enter into a relationship. Why is that any different now than when you had her?
Say you do somehow manage to fix this: What happens when you start to feel complacent and those doubts return? What have you done to address the root cause of your reluctance?
Maybe you don't know what you've got til it's gone but at what point are you just putting your wants over what's overall best for her? She gave you 6 months to pull yourself together. It shouldn't take losing somebody to learn that they're worth keeping.
Whatever happens next maybe spend some time considering your motives and healing the root cause of the issue instead of just wasting people's time and then panicking when they finally move on.
Thank you for understanding my question finally. “You may have the discipline to change immediately, doesn’t sound like your bf has that ability.”
I completely agree, I don’t think he has the ability. Despite us trying out this new sleep schedule arrangement for 6 months now, I don’t think that he has the ability. So that’s why I’m asking people, is this a dealbreaker or not? How long do we keep working at it? 6 months? 1 year? 2 years?
You finally understood my question and you can leave out the insults and projection next time. I’m going to stoop to your level and say that, I don’t think your sleeping arrangement with your husband is working very well if you’re this upset on Reddit that someone asked for relationship advice in a relationship advice group lmao. I mean this in the rudest way possible, I understand why your husband wants to sleep alone.
Just. Leave. Him.
I’m a Reddit dumb dumb so in case this link doesn’t work, it’s a genius tweet and the tl;dr is that men have gotten away with calling women “more emotional” because they have somehow managed to rebrand anger as NOT AN EMOTION
I've dealt with an alcoholic parent, so not exactly the same, but similar. The nude truth is that you can't force an addict to fix themselves – they have to hit whatever their own rock bottom is, and then decide if they want to improve. For him, that may be you leaving. And honestly, that would be my advice, because alcoholism is a horrible, horrible thing to deal with, both for the addict, and their loved ones.