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Date: November 23, 2022
Your wife… peed on… your late dog's toy? That is just fucked. I'd get out of this relationship.
Sooo, your mom wants some 18 yr old dick? Honestly, knowing that your friend will be boning your mom is highly uncomfortable!! Knowing that she sucks his cock and rides him like a surfboard! wow… I would NOT be friends with him.. now if your mom is hard hot, then ask if you can watch lol
2 weeks ago he talked to me about how him mom asks how i am and invited me over for dinner etc and it was great so idk
Why are you accepting this treatment from either of them? You’ve given this relationship 6 years of your life — more much more of your life do you plan on spending getting yelled at and disrespected and told to take it by the person who’s supposed to love you? You can do better. Choose better.
Would you like to know if you were in his wife place ? I am sure you would … you should tell her or he will keep cheating on her with another girls not only you .
You did, but I’m sorry to tell you that it’s not going to have anywhere near the impact you want to believe it will.
At the beginning, we can all logically be on board with you. She essentially emotionally cheated at best. No matter what anyone wants to define it as, it was objectively inappropriate and you had every right to be upset about it.
After that, in the nicest of terms, you become a psychopath. It’s now become a game to you. You “get her to fall in love with you.” You realize that during all this wasted time, you could have been putting yourself out there trying to actually meet the right person for you, and maybe succeeding?
Instead, you became a movie villain. I want to reiterate that she was shitty for doing what she did. We’re not ignoring that. But you should have just ended it and moved on.
Here’s where it’s going to hurt. Your “big reveal” (if you will) of dumping her on her birthday? Yeah, it’s going to suck for her in the moment. But that’s where it’ll end. She’ll move on and likely never think about you again unless she’s playing a card game where she’s asked some silly shit about a past relationship.
The question isn’t whether you went to far in the way you think. She’ll be fine. You went too far because you’ve embarrassed yourself. On-line and learn.
So your wife had to wake YOU up to scream about cat vomit? She couldn't handle it herself like a competent, normal adult? Period has nothing to do with this. Why would YOU want to have kids with a woman this unhinged over cat sick?
You actually exposed your BIL as the scumbag and bad partner he was. You think your sisters life is “ruined” now but now she can focus on finding someone else that can actually respect her and not jump ship the second a girl 3 years away from being am actual minor shows up.
Just swim! What’s he gonna do jump in and take you out?
You'd be surprised how successful the scam is
But what if i really regret breaking up and miss him? Is it selfish to try again?
When I was a 19yo young man, no one would EVER suggest I'm mentally broken or need therapy because I had sex with someone older. Behavior like this is partly why so many women have serious mental hangups around sex
All ya'll sound like the conservative fathers who make chastity vows to protect their daughter's virginity, it's disgusting. What happened is bad, but it's not “send your daughter to therapy” bad. If anything the daughters need therapy to deal with you're insane parenting
Let it go.
First loves are important, but only to an extent. Remind yourself that “she is one of the most beautiful women I've ever met” is aaallll magical thinking. She was FOURTEEN YEARS OLD. Like, a person who at the time had been prepubescent for 90% of their lifetime.
She wrote to say Hey. Fine. People do that.
If you are having issues with your current SO, right here and right now, solve them. But don't get all dewy-eyed over a thing you had a decade ago when you were a child.
My two cents.
Does he expect you to just lay there for two hours and stare at him while he sleeps? Does he have any hobbies of his own? I could understand him feeling frustrated if you have a limited amount of time together and you ignore him while you play. I do think him bringing cheating into it is weird; if he wants more quality time he should just say that. I think the solution is you making a clear distinction between couple time and game time, and him understanding that you will have hobbies and free time to yourself because that is healthy.
Lesbian here (it’s relevant, trust me). Your bf is an asshole. Not only for gagging, but for joking and making such a big deal out of it after. Would he like it if you ‘jokingly’ insulted his dick? No, it’s a mean thing to do to someone. If he doesn’t like vagina, then he doesn’t get to go anywhere near yours.
You could go to the Doctor and make sure you don’t have an infection. However, absent any symptoms or changes, that seems like a stretch. Healthy vaginas do have a smell and taste. It can fluctuate if you are dehydrated or at different times in your cycle. Expecting your vagina to not smell is not a healthy or realistic expectation on his part. Personally? I have never had one that wasn’t amazing.
If he won't take counselling seriously I'm not sure you have many other options. He has trust/insecurity issues that you can't talk your way out of. He needs help, but he needs to want to be better or it won't stick.
I mean he’s going to keep working on her until she cheats. She’s already started an emotional affair. If you don’t put your foot down, and I mean have a come to Jesus I’m leaving the house ending this marriage, then don’t be surprised what happens.
Is he on antidepressants? That can be an issue
You won't know happiness until you finally end it and move on. You never should have tried again, once a cheater always a cheater, and while engaged. Run away
You took him for granted, and this is the result.
Course you should be able to go out with friends, but not good timing…
If this is how it’s been, probably not a good match anyway.
I would frame this in his “frame of reference”. Is he still doing the same surgery as 10 years ago? Has he learned new things since then? The children are not toddlers now, what is that they want to do at lunchtime? They are developing their own independence and making their own choices guided by parents is a part of that holistic personality growth as well.
Making your choices a part of all of your lives doesn't have to be at the exclusion of say cleaning, but to do what you need to do you need a reward and money doesn't seem to motivate you. So what is it that you need to do that would work? Could you learn something new that is fun for you and has a benefit for everyone?
Just because 8 years ago you agree to something doesn't stop you growing as a person, no one does stop, you need more than cooking and cleaning to stimulate your mind, consider that as an approach as well, he has to learn new techniques, well so do you to be a better wife, right? Or does he expect you to never leave the house? That is a whole other issue.
You said it yourself “I am concerned I'm harming her” I've just explained why it would be harmful. But you've made it clear you don't actually care. ??
Am I the only one doing the math in my head of a 6 yo and a 10 month pregnancy?
Get over it or break up.
You don't need a ring to propose. You can wait to shop together.
Gut does definitely count, but this sounds more like a trauma response than anything to do with him, though you haven't mentioned a history of trauma. Is that possibly something at play? I'm just having trouble connecting clumsiness/awkwardness = fear.
We’re probably disagreeing over what “crisis” or mania means or how likely it is.
I agree that brand new behavior is more worth paying attention to, so I see your point there
That said, NIMH defines “mania” as a specific symptom of bipolar disorder. Less than ~5% of people have bipolar disorder and ~1% of people will be experiencing manic symptoms on any given day (according to my quick skim of NIMH data). Mania is a really serious symptom of a likely lifelong disorder, so I don’t take guesses about mania lightly. It seems an “extreme” thing to say because it’s so rare.
Similar for MH crises. About 5.6% of people in the US have severe mental illness.
And Anxiety is common, but ‘serious’ anxiety is also not super common: 3-22% of US adults have anxiety and “The majority of adults with anxiety have a mild impairment (43.5%), 33.7% have a moderate impairment, and 22.8% have a serious impairment. (NIMH, 2017)”.
Maybe the gf is in that smaller group of people with mania or severe anxiety or other mental illness. Probably she’s in the much larger group of people who are fine, but sometimes have difficult emotions. I think of having difficult emotions sometimes as part of being alive, not a MH crisis.
When people don’t handle their difficult emotions expertly, it’s often a result of inexperience with that emotion. (Even if it’s fairly mild anxiety, a non-anxious person might not know how to recognize it easily or handle it well on her own). And it’s “immature” of her (her skills are less developed) if she doesn’t know how to self-regulate. None of that is a big concern.
I think it’s important for OP to know that there are lots of explanations for this kind of behavior, and that a MH crisis is not likely.
In my view, being silly, chatty, or bratty one time while she can’t sleep is not a mental health crisis. Neither is getting anxious at night and asking unwise questions.
It’s really common for people, women especially, to have spikes of anxiety sometimes for a variety of reasons. They often subside just fine on their own. People just need to learn to manage them, and it’s not something to call a crisis intervention team about.
In my view, the partner will be better served by not freaking out about bipolar disorder or calling a crisis hotline, and instead just talking to his gf about ways to problem-solve and self regulate better if she’s wired when he’s tired.
This isn’t a relationship question. Lots of people have a fear of flying.
More like you haven’t realized they wanna fuck you
I know you’re saying you 100% trust her, but it doesn’t sound like you do. Let’s say this guy is trying to sleep with her: if she’s trustworthy, she’ll turn him down and that’ll be that.
I’m not saying you should trust her 100%—you haven’t given us enough to say if she’s been acting inappropriately or has broken your trust in the past—just that if you did, I don’t think there’d be a problem with the hotel.
1)You may need to pause the relationship or you to heal
2) make sure you are seeing a trauma therapist
3) consider changing up your BC
4) talk to your bf usually as long as you are willing to try and at least be intimate we are all good.
Yes it did actually, but the fatigue is unbearable
She sounds absolutely exhausting. Maybe she doesn't even realize how much she bitches about everything at you, just tell her. “Hey, I'm sorry I said STFU but you are constantly at me over EVERYTHING. Do you know how much you criticize me?”
Yeah I did ghost a lot of guys because I wasn't too into them and not ready for a relationship. The reason why I took a leap of faith and got into a relationship with my s/o was because for the first time in a long time I met someone who I clicked with that made me want to take a risk like that. There was another dude that I talked to before him that I was only really into because he was emotionally unavailable and that was a lot less scary than putting myself out there, but I realized that and took a step back to focus on myself.
So the working out and taking better care of herself, she’s now not spending her days taking care of everybody else but herself or cleaning up after everybody. She gets to be herself now and take care of herself.
I saw that you asked her and she seemingly calmly answered your questions. There doesn’t seem to be anything from what I can tell on her end. On her coworkers end I am unsure. If there was something on her end you wouldn’t hear about this guy a lot. Maybe ask her if you can join them for a beer sometime.
Honestly you say it in this post. She seems excited to be around people again. She seems to be very open with you about everything and has never ever given you a reason to distrust her. Talk to her about your insecurities but make it clear you don’t want her to stop being happy but that you want her help to work on it so you too can get used to this new normal