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Molly(glasses) Elis(black) September(tatto face) Kitty(blond), y.o.
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Date: October 3, 2022
Did he cheat and not want to get caught?
He needs to be more specific with what he thinks is lacking.. if what he wants is unrealistic.. you will need to clearly communicate with him what your boundaries are. I get you both are still young, so adult level communication is something that you both are still learning.. but put your foot down. If there is something he wants in bed he needs to talk to you like an adult and ask or suggest new things not put you down by saying your a “fish” in bed.. whatever the F that means. Don't allow any man to get under your skin that way, it's childish and manipulative. Instead of coming to you as an adult and saying “hey I'd like to spice things up” or “I've been thinking maybe we could try some new things.” instead of communicating what he THINKS is lacking, he went straight to trying to put you down. That my dear is a big red flag.. and my question to you would be.. What other ways does he put you down? Comments about your looks, weight, body? Does he crack jokes at your expense? Does he say things that hit your self esteem but you brush it off, make excuses for him, or convince yourself that your just overthinking it? Does he brush off your feelings and say things like “Your to emotional.” or “it was just a joke!”…. I'm hoping not.. but hun, if any of that sounds familiar.. save yourself the heartache break it off, and learn to love you first.
And no, you shouldn't have to compete with porn. Most porn is highly unrealistic. IF that is what he is expecting, that's a him problem. He's not likely to find porn level sex in any relationship. If that's the expectation he's set for himself, he's going to be disappointed.
And hun “be the best girlfriend I can be to please him”… Great, you want to “please” him.. what about you? Are you getting what you want in this relationship. Does he add to your peace? Does he build up your confidence? Does he make you feel safe, secure, loved, respected? Many girls your age (and I was there at one point too, this comes from experience) feel an obligation to bend over backwards and sacrifice boundary after boundary to keep a guy who will not give the same effort in return.
How long was the interview? I mean, my husband's 1978 Chevrolet PU truck wouldn't die because I charge our phone while waiting for him. Even in an hour.
I think your car battery is weak, tbh, mate. You may want to have jumper cable and all first aid/emergency kit in your car at all time. My 2017 Honda also didn't die when I was waiting around for my husband (this was in 2020, cov1d and he had to have a dental procedure and I couldn't wait at the waiting room because of their cov1d procedure. And he was stuck at that dental procedure for 4 hours, and the car's battery didn't die despite me using it to charge my phone–hey I was playing solitaire, etc).
This is the thing, you accused her of 'killing your car battery,' you're clearly blaming her and getting upset at her.
Obviously, depending on how long your interview is (was it over 4 hours?), your car battery shouldn't have died (unless something is wrong with your car or you need a new battery), so she felt insulted for your accusation then she felt the same anger/negative emotion you felt when you were blaming her so she insulted your car back.
Honestly, it's not her fault that your car battery died. I can't even really blame her for her negative reaction. You were angry/upset at her and blaming her too. So you expect her to react with common sense and cool logic while getting accused of killing your vehicle. Where is your cool logic/common sense approach when you thought she 'killed your car battery?'