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Why would you even want to work this out? Cheated for a year and a half and has the audacity to not allow you to hear the conversation and doesn't even tell her the truth that he's a cheating pos
How do I get her to change her mind before she sleeps with anyone behind my back?
You don't, if you have to convince her not to sleep with someone else your relationship is doomed because you're always going to wonder if she is sleeping with someone else and she's going to resent you for not giving her what she wants.
Can you explain what I've been projecting? And no, that wasn't my intention. I wanted to be honest with her and myself, for the sake of our friendship.
I didn't think we could continue to have a normal friendship if I didn't come clean with her And I don't want to be a bad person, so what do you think I should have done differently?
Sounds like you should go to counseling. His communication tactics make me very uncomfortable for you. Him turning the focus to your “moods” or “head space” and using terms like “always” and “never” – that's all very manipulative.
What you were asking for is very simple and standard in relationships. But what you got in response was defensive and bordering on gaslighting. It seems to have culminated in him giving you an ultimatum of sorts; saying you better take a “long, naked look at yourself” and start “being nicer to him” sounds like he's threatening to breakup.
I think you'd be wise to seek a counselor for yourself and discuss the idea of couples counseling with the professional. Show them this post and get feedback.
The way he chooses to respond to you does not seem healthy.
Who cares what the coat smells like. Why did he lie to you about what he was doing? Why did he hide that he was “just having lunch.” He'll turn the “snooping” around on you, and that will be the focus of everything he says now.
Seriously, why lie? If it's nothing, then why lie?
Plenty of cheaters have lunch with their affair partners. It's not like lunch is some magic thing that only platonic friends do.
He watches porn cause its a fantasy. There's a difference between watching something and actually acting it out. Google that if you don't believe me.
However watching a lot of porn is so fucking bad for your brain, tell him to read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson, I got half way through and decided not to bother with it again. Been almost 2 years now and I never have.
Again its fantasy he's watching. It's like a girl who exclusively watches BBC porn but has a partner who's Asian, it's a fantasy.
Why would you want to move forward with someone who told you he didn’t love you, less than 2 months after giving birth to a baby when you’ve been struggling to conceive? What is there to move forward from?
Those periods where he said he wanted to work on things, don’t hang onto those as hope. If he wanted to work on things, he would be actively working with you. Not talking to someone behind your back.
He’s being dishonest with both of you. He hid this affair from you, and he hasn’t told her that he has a newborn. Both of you should be running in the opposite direction from him.
As for his depression, ultimately it’s his decision and responsibility to get help for it. People can support him, but the work has to come from him.
Why would you even want to work this out? Cheated for a year and a half and has the audacity to not allow you to hear the conversation and doesn't even tell her the truth that he's a cheating pos
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Yes. I think we're in agreeance:)
How do I get her to change her mind before she sleeps with anyone behind my back?
You don't, if you have to convince her not to sleep with someone else your relationship is doomed because you're always going to wonder if she is sleeping with someone else and she's going to resent you for not giving her what she wants.
Can you explain what I've been projecting? And no, that wasn't my intention. I wanted to be honest with her and myself, for the sake of our friendship.
I didn't think we could continue to have a normal friendship if I didn't come clean with her And I don't want to be a bad person, so what do you think I should have done differently?
Sounds like you should go to counseling. His communication tactics make me very uncomfortable for you. Him turning the focus to your “moods” or “head space” and using terms like “always” and “never” – that's all very manipulative.
What you were asking for is very simple and standard in relationships. But what you got in response was defensive and bordering on gaslighting. It seems to have culminated in him giving you an ultimatum of sorts; saying you better take a “long, naked look at yourself” and start “being nicer to him” sounds like he's threatening to breakup.
I think you'd be wise to seek a counselor for yourself and discuss the idea of couples counseling with the professional. Show them this post and get feedback.
The way he chooses to respond to you does not seem healthy.
Who cares what the coat smells like. Why did he lie to you about what he was doing? Why did he hide that he was “just having lunch.” He'll turn the “snooping” around on you, and that will be the focus of everything he says now.
Seriously, why lie? If it's nothing, then why lie?
Plenty of cheaters have lunch with their affair partners. It's not like lunch is some magic thing that only platonic friends do.
I'm a guy and we definitely DO NOT do this lol. Not normal behavior IMO. Atleast I don't do this with my friends.
Definitely have a sit down convo about this with him.
February 2024…….
Normally when a girl goes after the guy she told you not to worry about going back to her is a terrible idea. This seems no different. Let her go.
Dump him. Please!!!!
He watches porn cause its a fantasy. There's a difference between watching something and actually acting it out. Google that if you don't believe me.
However watching a lot of porn is so fucking bad for your brain, tell him to read Your Brain on Porn by Gary Wilson, I got half way through and decided not to bother with it again. Been almost 2 years now and I never have.
Again its fantasy he's watching. It's like a girl who exclusively watches BBC porn but has a partner who's Asian, it's a fantasy.
Why would you want to move forward with someone who told you he didn’t love you, less than 2 months after giving birth to a baby when you’ve been struggling to conceive? What is there to move forward from?
Those periods where he said he wanted to work on things, don’t hang onto those as hope. If he wanted to work on things, he would be actively working with you. Not talking to someone behind your back.
He’s being dishonest with both of you. He hid this affair from you, and he hasn’t told her that he has a newborn. Both of you should be running in the opposite direction from him.
As for his depression, ultimately it’s his decision and responsibility to get help for it. People can support him, but the work has to come from him.