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Thats incorrect. Jealousy isn't due to an insecurity caused by another person. If you are getting jealous frequently over your partner because they talk to other people, or other people try to flirt with them, it isn't because your partner is forcing or causing you to be insecure, it's because you already are insecure internally. You precieve it as a threat to your relationship because you are insecure with your own worth, and you are assuming that even the actions of someone who is not in your relationship, is enough to convince your partner to leave your relationship or cheat or something to that effect. You're not jealous because your partner is automatically doing something wrong just by being a (potentially unwilling) recipient of someone else's attention, you're jealous because you subconsciously question your own worth, and project that self loathing onto your partner, and blame them for you thinking you are so unlovable that even someone giving them unwanted attention is enough to make your partner not want you any more.
The other possibility is that jealousy stems from your own thoughts or fantasies about infidelity, and because you are already pursuing or fantasizing about being unfaithful, you assume that your partner is doing the same. You project your own thought processes onto your partner, and assume they are having those same thought processes.
Jealousy is always based on your internal feelings and perceptions about yourself, and is never causes by another person giving you a reason to be jealous. Now, that's not to say that people never have cause to be suspicious of infidelity, but if you are questioning your partner's fidelity with overwhelming jealousy, it's usually because of your own internal insecurities. If you're questioning your partner's fidelity because of evidence, without feelings of jealousy, but rather, feelings of grief or fear not rooted in jealousy, then you may need to investigate further because it's probably coming from a place of observation rather than internal insecurity.