I think you're probably making the best decision possible here and I doubt I need to tell you this but still, be kind when you break the news to her. It's worth remembering that while she's made some poor decisions here, in a country with a less broken higher education system the problems that resulted from those decisions would have been negligible.
Weird how people never recognize racism in the mirror. I've never seen any real anti Asian racism amongst white people. I find this puzzling.
I think you're probably making the best decision possible here and I doubt I need to tell you this but still, be kind when you break the news to her. It's worth remembering that while she's made some poor decisions here, in a country with a less broken higher education system the problems that resulted from those decisions would have been negligible.