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Honestly, this was naked to read all the way through. It sounds like you’re the side piece and he is her main squeeze. We all, you included, know she’s having an affair. Married women don’t spend copious amounts of time alone with single men at their apartments and keep secrets about it from their husbands. It’s not an emotional affair. It’s a sexual affair. Full on.
For me, the affair would be a deal breaker. Like, done. One strike, you’re out.
You need to sit down with her and figure out why the hell you guys are still together. A marriage certificate is not a good only reason to be together.
If she wants out, tell her to get the fuck out. If you want out, make the decision for her.
You need to think about the trust that’s been broken, and what it would take to rebuild it. Is it even possible to rebuild it or will you always question where she is and who she’s with, when she’s not with you?
If you both want to work it out, you need to both be 100% committed to working it out, which means she needs to cut that guy off of her own accord. She probably needs to leave that job, too.
If reconciliation is your path, find a good therapist with a track record of repairing broken relationships.
The problem is your GF not her friend. Her friend is not in a relationship with you. If she knows you wouldn’t like her seeing di*k pics and she still did it then what does that tell you about the respect she has for your relationship and for the boundaries you have? You need to talk to your GF and tell her that she knows you do not like that, it’s disrespectful, in your eyes. Is she okay with you seeing other women’s private parts? I mean she might be okay with it but it doesn’t mean it’s okay for her to do it because it still bothers you. You are both grow adults that can have an adult, open and honest conversation about this.
Sorry, I misread some of what you wrote Best of luck with whatever you decide
You are quite welcome.
I think by 29, you’re old enough and mature enough to make this choice. I’d feel very different if you were 19 and he were 34.
That said, there’s a lot of potential pitfalls here, as far as where you both are in life and what you want from life. You need to have the big conversations (kids, home, career, marriage, finances, etc) and make sure you align. If you can-great. If you can’t, that’s not really anybody’s fault, but maybe just the age gap kicking in. But if you’ve done all this, I really don’t see any issues.
Dude don’t get married to her. Break things off with her. Be glad you found out before you proposed to her
Leave her my G
Also, stop giving her money when hers runs out. You're not her ATM. She isn't doing anything that benefits you in the long run.
sounds like he has poor communication skills.
people think they're being nice trying to sugar coat things but like you said, why not just be upfront instead of you needing to pull the info out.
our brains naturally try to think things through and comprehend things, telling someone the straight up truth right off the bat is much better for our brains, even if it may hurt more at first, it let's us process things properly and move on more appropriately.
lying and sugar coating things just puts our brains into a natural analyzing mode and we start figuring things out anyway
Don’t know, sounded pretty direct to me. “Me or two girls”. Not sure how that could not be interpreted as an answer.
She goes to bed at 2-3 but wakes up at 6 am, is she okay?
Break up with him. Even if he stops insisting on anal and pretends he doesn't care, there is a very, very high chance he'll do it in the middle of sex or while you're sleeping. So, so many women have a man act exactly this way before being assaulted.
I did what you said…it was definitely a turn on! The trip was very successful, thank you a million times!
!Remindme 4 hours i must know!
Nude to say without knowing what your wife is giving you feedback on, how often, is it really necessary, etc. It could be on your wife as well. Can you give more info here?
I don’t take feedback, especially criticism, well either and have found that I need a minute to step away before responding whereas my boyfriend likes an immediate verbal response and me stepping away makes him worry. We’ve just had to work on it and understand each other’s communication styles.
don't. if it was something like a cute blanket or a trinket she'd like sure, but this is something a boyfriend would give not an ex
And he reached out from a new number
Did you have a new face and dick too?
This is ridiculous.
Ah yes, the horrors of pregnancy. How could I forget
Oh yeah, I'm sure they were the same people.
You can? But it'll probably just make her uncomfortable and nothing will happen. Do what you do but don't expect anything out of it if you're gonna tell her you might as well add in you wanna get back together and see what happens then you'll have your concrete answer
people can be assholes when jealouss but calling someone a pedophile is a lot worse . I seriously wouldn't be able to live! with said person.
Regardless of what she thinks she saw …
Pedophilia involves sexual attraction to prepubescent children.
The proper definition would be Ephebophilia, which is sexual interest in mid-to-late adolescents, generally ages 15 to 19.
Sorry it is a little disjointed
Did something happen 2 months ago?
i think you know you need to go back…
It is literally always worth it – can't put a price on mental health. Do you have good insurance?
It will destroy your relationship. You can’t ever go backwards.
Are you sure you can’t grow up and find yourself by his side rather than apart from him?
Love does come around every day.
I broke up with a girl for this lol. Completely put me off of her. Most people want cute accessories not a living sentient creature that will piss and shit and cry
Oh man, this absolutely blows. Your whole world has been shook to its foundation, and that will need a lot of work from you. It's not fair—one could even say it's downright mean—to have been duped into it, and you're entitled to feel some—or many—kind of way about it. Right now, you have to take care of your well-being, and if that includes some anger and some distancing, well, that's what you gotta do.
That being said… if you can spare any kindness and compassion for your soon to be ex, well, it'd be a real mensch thing to do. She did an absolute shitty thing, though she probably felt like she was trapped into it by unfortunate circumstance. Again, it's not your duty and no one should complain if you just peace the fuck out, but if you're up to it, leave the world at least a little bit better.
Whatever you decide, I wish you well, OP.
Also important to note is how are they spending their $- are they flashing it about like, look at me, big spender! Or are they more low-key about their wealth that what they spend it on is subtly high quality. I think you were caught in this guy’s misdirection and couldn’t see the reality. Not only was the spending and lying an issue, the ego trip should have been a red flag as well.
My ex was a narcissist & he did this exactly, repeatedly, after I asked him not to, just as you did. Talking to him will do nothing & it will happen again.
2 are girls , Vik is a guy. And my GF absolutely is the most important girl and person in my life without a doubt
This isn’t a friend it’s someone she just met.
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I never asked his mother. I did not want to involve her more in our relationship. I wanted us to be able to communicate efficiently together without having the confirmation from his mother.
That is a very disrespectul act, since you were having an intimate moment together. And you should voice that concern to him.
I'm not sure why he had a need to show you this. But it is a bit off, definitely. Maybe there isn't even any logic to this.
actually he implied that I was so ugly and disgusting that hooking up was a huge mistake and he regrets it. so i dont think he wants FWB either, and I've already told him i'd like to move on. the problem is he hasnt respected my wishes at all.
She needs to feel good about being herself. She's needs therapy and to be reminded that this side of her makes up a whole of the person you love.
Lol what I meant by that statement you quoted is why be in a long-term relationship with someone who you won't live! with pretty much ever lol
Then good lol
I find it naked to like her I admit, I’ve come to resent her.
tell your fiancee you have been cheating on him. you are a shitty person but you will be an even shittier person if you let him marry you without knowing what you have done, what you are capable and who you really are as a person.
Oh I talked to her in that way. We don’t talk about it from the standpoint of love languages but we both mentioned it. We had a long discussion yesterday and the reason I turned to you guys was that I felt frustrated. She gets defensive and somehow ends up the victim. I am clear to her. I feel unloved. I need something. Just a simple hug in the morning. She feels attacked and I say how can you get angry? It is of course some sort of coping mechanism to protect her from getting criticism. I am not angry though, she ends up walking away angry and victimized. I turn to Reddit and here we are.
Exactly! But apply your statement to the mother who is a real person who invested probably 30 years into a man who betrayed and left her. She doesn’t have to continue a relationship with her son who condones that kind of treatment of her. Life is long and family is family and she will always have to live! with how her ‘family’ treated her and how her sons didn’t care enough to stick with her
Gather evidence, show to BF and state your decision
How’s your younger brother and is he your dads son?
Your wife won’t be too happy about your texting with an ex. Stop the nonsense. You know it’s not cool.
Ooo yeah you messed up hun. ?
But it’s nothing that can’t be salvaged with proper communication. Is he aware that this is your first relationship?
i guarantee if the ages were reversed, u wouldn’t be saying that
Often (not always) when someone holds on to past things like this, it’s because those types of situations keep presenting themselves and nothing has been learned along the way. An apology doesn’t solve this. Could this be the case?
I work from home, and when I get off I usually immediately sit down and spend time with our kid. I have only tried to game when he was awake once and it didn't pan out so I haven't done it since. If I can tell she's had a rough day I'll tell her to sit down while I take care of the kid and make dinner. After dinner I'll usually get our kid in the bath and then she'll sit and play with him and I'll clean up dinner and do the dishes. She likes to rock him to sleep so I'll finish cleaning up dinner and the toys while she does that, and then we'll usually spend a little time together before I tell her I'm going to play my game with my friends (usually 2 days a week).
Part of our goals for the year is to have 3 days a week with no TV/videogames, so hopefully we'll fill those days with more emotional connection time. Thanks for your advice.
That's a method of torture, if anything deprives me of sleep I'm done with it. Sleep is crucial to survive!!! Ask her to not wake up you up again or you're breaking up with her, trust me no one will be willing to put up with this BS.
Google emotional support skills, as that sounds like what you want. But he doesn’t have those skills or doesn’t see fit to use them in conversation with you. And normally when that happens people lose interest. When they don’t, it’s more because they’re lonely and want a relationship than because that specific person is who they want to be with.
Dude, chill with the Random capitals.
Nah they’re both disgusting. People learn at 6 years old don’t take what’s not yours. They also learn not to cheat around that same age. She’s damn well old enough to know better and so is he. But since OPs main relationship aside from his sister was Ellie that’s the reason I stated my two cents as I did.
Emily knows what's up. She's right react the way that she has.
It's time to take a good naked look in the mirror at yourself and figure out how to grow the fuck up. I'm almost 20 years younger than you and I would NEVER dream of treating my partner like that. Get a grip and act like the grown ass man that you are.
Holy crap, I do this all the time! I say “ow” whenever I bump into anything even when it doesn’t hurt at all
It’s possible that I’m not suited to monogamy, but in the past I’ve become emotionally attached when hooking up ?♂️. Perhaps I am just polygamous?
I promised her I wouldn’t tell anybody. I’m not the kind of man to break my promises. I just needed to get it out to anybody and this was more inconspicuous
you engineer your own demise when you can't even communicate your own desires
My husband gives me a hall pass for girl stuff as long as he gets to watch. There has been at least once that my girl friend casually pecked me on the lips, and I told my husband and he didn’t trip at all about it. A drunk gay guy friend just kissed me on the lips at a Christmas party we were at together recently and my husband didn’t care either.
Came here to cry “bullshit”.
I don't believe I can post links here, but there was a study done by Standford University that from the data of more than 40 million births, scientists have linked paternal age to birth risks, and even risks to the mother’s health.
I just found out an hour ago he does have an Instagram and he is at work so he hasn't opened any of my messages yet.
Good points.. I never thought about it that way
Sure, why not. If he had no interest, he never would have texted you happy ny.
You need to support your husband here.
You need to leave your sister the fuck alone. This is an embarrassing admission because you never had the right to feel the way you did. Grow up.
Of course you tell his wife! Why wouldn't you? She deserves to know that he's a cheating bastard, and that's all the revenge you'll need.
Carter knows very well how good and loyal of a friend I’d been to her over the years. He knows that whenever he did something to make her hurt, I would be there for her no matter what. Her and I were like soul sisters and he knows I never even thought about befriending him while I was by her side.
She crossed so many boundaries of mine and did so many unforgivable things that a reached my breaking point. It’s not about me being a bad friend, because there’s is no friend in this situation. Only an “ex” friend as the title states
NO-NO-NO-NO-NO
Your gf IS EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATING YOU TO DO SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.
This is not an issue about money. SHE FEELS YOU ARE ENTITLED TO HELP HER BECAUSE YOU ARE ALMOST LIKE A HUSBAND TO HER
IF YOU MARRY HER, SHE WILL EXPECT YOU TO ALWAYS FINANCIALLY HELP HER FAMILY AND I MEAN ALWAYS. SHE will take her children she had with you, move out UNTIL YOU give IN TO her wants and needs.
I'm Latina married to a Caucasian and I will not EVER ask my spouse to do this.
MY ADVICE??? Break up. Because she will guilt trip you and blame you for never being supportive UNTIL YOU DIE. Yes, Latinos will hold a grudge until you die.
If her family makes a mess, that's ON THEM NOT YOU.
I just don’t see a reason to bring it to just dinner and that’s it, he said he’s goes to some sketchy areas with friends sometimes to go to museums and or Airsoft matches and brings it along. I don’t know him 100% well enough to judge that he feels the need to bring it whenever he goes anywhere, even the store.
You messed up by not insisting on therapy long ago. This was not just some little problem you two could solve. Your wife’s obsession and insecurity is borderline debilitating. At minimum now you must both go NC with Mary, and get both of you in individual and couples therapy, to have any hope at all.
Through this confrontation, I just want to remind him that what he is doing is wrong and I am strongly against it. I will give him a chance to end it all with that woman and come clean to my mom. I will remind him that the next few months are already going to be naked for her with me leaving and how he needs to be with her.
If worst comes to worst and he tries to lie or refuse to talk about it, I will simply tell him that if you're not going to tell her i will.
He is usually a very reasonable person and if its coming from me he will understand it. I just feel like my mother would appreciate it more if he told her about this himself.
Although, the other side is if I tell my mom, my work is done. It is now up to them to talk about it and make the necessary decisions. But this step has its own shortcomings, as I don't have any real proof. Its really my word against his. (But it will still be really nude to deny if she tells him the name of the contact he has the woman saved as). Plus I am worried my mom will act on impulse and take some steps which would be beneficial for nobody.
It is also important to note that I am not sure of the extent of this relationship. I know they talk to each other daily but its naked to say how far they've went.
Through this confrontation, I just want to remind him that what he is doing is wrong and I am strongly against it. I will give him a chance to end it all with that woman and come clean to my mom. I will remind him that the next few months are already going to be naked for her with me leaving and how he needs to be with her.
If worst comes to worst and he tries to lie or refuse to talk about it, I will simply tell him that if you're not going to tell her i will.
He is usually a very reasonable person and if its coming from me he will understand it. I just feel like my mother would appreciate it more if he told her about this himself.
Although, the other side is if I tell my mom, my work is done. It is now up to them to talk about it and make the necessary decisions. But this step has its own shortcomings, as I don't have any real proof. Its really my word against his. (But it will still be really nude to deny if she tells him the name of the contact he has the woman saved as). Plus I am worried my mom will act on impulse and take some steps which would be beneficial for nobody.
It is also important to note that I am not sure of the extent of this relationship. I know they talk to each other daily but its naked to say how far they've went.
I personally wouldn’t date someone who abused an animal like this, because that’s what it is – abuse. Take this into consideration if think you will ever live together and get a pet, or even if you’re considering having kids with her.
But if you don’t want to break up with her, maybe send her some articles about how to properly crate a dog.
It sounds like he thinks/hopes for something more but would be a controlling jerk if there were more; much like right now.
People don’t have to be your SO to be too manipulative to have around. Call it out, put your foot down, and walk away if it doesn’t stop.
Get divorced with your conscience free. You gave him 20 years. You don't need to give him one second more.
Its okay, i didnt clarify! And i have a preference too, i prefer dicks (or people with dicks), so i consider myself homosexual too
I think it’s fairly common in abusive or toxic relationships when you’re trying to get your head straight hand figure out what’s best for you
All of your cons/reasons for leaving are huge giant waving red flags that you should absolutely pay attention to and definitely leave him over.
If your cons list is bigger than your pros list why the fuck would you even consider for a second that you should stay? Love is not enough. If you stay you'll regret it in the future.
All of your cons/reasons for leaving are huge giant waving red flags that you should absolutely pay attention to and definitely leave him over.
If your cons list is bigger than your pros list why the fuck would you even consider for a second that you should stay? Love is not enough. If you stay you'll regret it in the future.
Thanks for your response! Yeah I get it it makes us feel a type of way when our partners don’t like what we make and stuff. Like when he didn’t like what I made but I learned to just deal with it bc not everyone is gonna like it and it’s okay.
Wtf
How long have you two been together?
Is his behaviour of lashing out when you ask if he needs help, turning it into a fight, and pushing you away for weeks afterwards, out of character?
Is he talking with other people in his life still, that you know of, or is he isolating himself?
Put aside the wedding. It’s over.
What mental load?
Your relationship is dead. The fact that marriage is no longer an option, you prefer to attend social events alone and she has not only not stopped communicating with this guy but took deliberate measures to hide this from you …what motivates you to continue living this lie? Shared property and mutual friends or family?
Starting over seems daunting but make the right choice. She clearly is living her life…what about you?
you’ve allowed not only your daughter to damage you marriage but your ex too. your wife now see’s the consequences of not putting her foot down with you before all this. i’m all for kids coming first however you took that to another level by allowing your daughter to push your wife out. yes in an emergency you should drop everything and go running but you’ve been doing this on every occasion. you’ve put your wife last multiple times and now she feels you are never gonna put her or her baby first!
let me be clear. yes you should of stayed and walked your daughter down the aisle but this was probably the last straw for your wife. she’s now sat there thinking about how you’ve always put her last and thinks kelly will be last now too. had you of put boundaries in place to start with your wife would feel more at ease with your decision and see it for what it is.
your daughters mad? for what exactly? you put her first yet again! she is selfish and quite frankly doesn’t sound like a very nice person at all. she not a little kid anymore. you didn’t abandon her and leave her mother. her mother moved her away not you. that was not your fault and if she can’t come to terms with that then you need to take a step back.
you need to set firm boundaries now or you will lose your wife and your baby. you need to start proving yourself to your wife before it’s to late. start by having a frank covasation with your daughter and ask her how long she’s prepared to punish you for her mother moving her away. by the end of that conversation you will know weather she’s prepared to work at your relationship, if not then time to walk away but leave the door open. your daughter is a grown ass woman and doesn’t need you like you baby needs you.
get some mc and ic for your poor wife and keep apologising. you have no idea how terrifying a emergency c-section is. i can’t even begin to imagine how lonely she must of felt at that moment!
You’re too old for these games, just leave
They weren’t groomed at 24 lmao. You’re either incredibly stupid or a troll.
INFO: what does the rest of your respective fortnight’s look like? Do you both work outside of the house? Do you see much of each other during the week? Does she get time for herself away from the kids? Do you do things with your wife without the kids? You said you say no to birthdays and other parties to attend D&D. Have you missed any of your family’s important life events for D&D?
A D&D night once every couple of weeks sounds reasonable, but it becomes less reasonable if your work schedule means you only really see your wife a couple of evenings a week and perhaps even unreasonable if you are not ‘protecting’ the time you spend with her in the same way that you do for D&D to ensure you get to your campaign each fortnight.
What even are these ages and year, woof
But you're not helpless. Take action. You are in control of your own actions, literally. Have your brain turn your thoughts into actions. Get your phone. Go to the Calling app. Call authorities. Explain all this bullshit.
What animosity? OP says they have always been civil to each other. I’ve had friends date people I don’t like and I wouldn’t not invite them unless they were rude or behaved badly. They’ve been together for SIX YEARS and this was a casual gathering at a bar, safe to assume GF has been invited to many such events. So if she wasn’t welcome at this one they should have said so in advance.
Trainers are on
They fucked, no one cuddles and touches legs, even on shrooms. Especially after onw person makes sexual advances.
Has he already shared with you that he has these expectations?