No you’re good no biggie. I’m terrible at wording stuff too
One time a coworker right I was single and have me get number on Friday. I was dating someone so I never texted her. Come Monday I was basically a social pariah. It was like I had the plague the way they avoided me as a group
It’s then his responsibility to step up and be a teammate and a partner. His “being socialized differently” is not an excuse for being an incompetent adult and mentally taxing partner.
If a grown man isn’t making doctors appointments for himself or sharing the financial and household responsibilities, as he should be expected to do, then how is his relationship going to thrive? How is he going to care for his partner if he’s not even caring for himself?
Having a higher standard for your relationships is not a bad thing. The right ones will step up and meet those needs. If they don’t, the relationship ends. He’s an adult, nearly 40, who is responsible for unlearning his bad habits and behaviors, and if he doesn’t and his relationships fail, it’s his fault for that.
So I disagree, at nearly 40, it is his fault. He’s had LOTS of time to correct the issues and work on them.
No you’re good no biggie. I’m terrible at wording stuff too
One time a coworker right I was single and have me get number on Friday. I was dating someone so I never texted her. Come Monday I was basically a social pariah. It was like I had the plague the way they avoided me as a group
And we didn’t even sleep together or date lol
I would just approach this with caution
It’s then his responsibility to step up and be a teammate and a partner. His “being socialized differently” is not an excuse for being an incompetent adult and mentally taxing partner.
If a grown man isn’t making doctors appointments for himself or sharing the financial and household responsibilities, as he should be expected to do, then how is his relationship going to thrive? How is he going to care for his partner if he’s not even caring for himself?
Having a higher standard for your relationships is not a bad thing. The right ones will step up and meet those needs. If they don’t, the relationship ends. He’s an adult, nearly 40, who is responsible for unlearning his bad habits and behaviors, and if he doesn’t and his relationships fail, it’s his fault for that.
So I disagree, at nearly 40, it is his fault. He’s had LOTS of time to correct the issues and work on them.