My (25M) husband is excited for his (26F) to come and clean his parents house. Should I file for divorce after my husband told me he was excited for me to visit so I can clean for him?

My husband of four years, on and of long distance just had a daughter, she is 5 months old. My husband lives in Canada with his parents, and I online in the USA with my parents taking care of our daughter. We have been trying to see each other every few months, and he wants me to come with our daughter to see him and his family in Canada. I agreed that I would come and see them once I got our daughters passport. So he has been talking about how excited he is to see his daughter and he also said he was excited for me to come so I can clean his room. Should I be offended? Our whole relationship we lived together twice once in Florida in my apartment that I was paying for, and another time in his parents house. And I didn’t like living in his parents house. I’ve been asking him to get us our own place in Canada because he refuses to live in Florida with me, but he doesn’t want to save money and keeps spending it on himself or his parents. And he tells me that I need to prove that I can be a perfect wife for him to give me those things. He does the bare minimum when it comes to me and his daughter, he sends 300-400 monthly for us and complains that I go through a lot of diapers. My parents pay most of my expenses like my phone bill, car insurance, and buys food for me and my daughter. And he argues that I need to do my wife duties like cleaning his parents house when I come visit, even though he isn’t doing his husband duties when we are apart, should I get a divorce?