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Date: October 9, 2022
Thank u I think I’m gonna text her later i appreciate ur help
Exaaaaaactly. I appreciate that they aren’t doing the “my divorced mom and dad refuse to speak or be in the same room together” thing, but the pendulum has swung too far.
Personally I am going against the poster above because I am a hopeless romantic.
I think it is fixable, but part I agree with maybe going to a sex therapist. If I’m in couples therapy with my partner and he shits on me for “not trying” for an hour, I would also be nervous about participating or imitating anything because I would be anxious that he would judge me negatively.
Despite you saying you love your GF, you have had really said nothing positive about her. You also haven’t put in any of how she feels in it. You say you are having conversations with her in therapy, but are you actually listening to her? Have you brought this up in therapy? Did you come up with a measurable action plan on therapy? Are BOTH of you doing what you said you were going to do? Maybe her trying to make you less sad or only reacting to you is what she know and feels comfortable doing without judgement from you. You really haven’t noticed anything different? Does she feel like she is putting new or meaningful effort in? Are YOU using positive reinforcement when she does act the way you are looking for (thank you for doing X, I really love that you do X for me) and appreciating her?
That embarrassment… I wonder if it's being misattributed internally. Wanting to hide something away or pretend something didn't happen. You've done nothing unreasonable or overtly embarrassing.
He's made the embarrassing feeling by publicly not responding to your life-threatening needs. You sound like you want to shield the both of you from others knowing the sequence of events, which can be a dangerous precedent to set. It can lead to isolation, which already sounds like a concern being in a different country
Give her time and space. In a week, bring it up again, and say that while you want to give her time and space, you also want to be able to talk to her, see her regularly, and actually have a relationship with her.
See what she says about that.
If she’s open to finding a balance between what you both need, then work on it, and see if you can make the relationship work.
If she is not willing to do that, then give her all the space and time she wants. End it with her.
Don't break, just break up
You must have incredible genes or all reproduce at extremely young ages! My great grandfathers were dead decades before I was born. Lol
I Don’t think OP has ever seen BrokeBack Mountain
Seems like a happy update, I'm glad to hear it. Best of luck. And know that's its ok if you need to try a few counsellors before you find one that clicks
Only propose if you are sure that’s what you want for the rest of your life.
Your girlfriend is putting a lot of pressure on you by asking almost daily. You need to communicate with her about how this makes you feel. Maybe tell her that the pressure is making it harder for you to make a decision.
She isn’t just “angry” about it. She was triggered and she’s a survivor of trauma. OP considers her responses to her trauma as being “her vs the world” which is part of the problem. Plus she’s a new mom and probably busy as hell with the baby while OP’s off recording a podcast.
Yes, OP just don't slap a random man for her “Entanglement'
Run run run.
This is like Superman saying, I married Kryptonite Girl and sometimes I feel a little sick around her. What do I do? Im sure you two love each other and make a cute couple but geez.
Thank you, every relationship is different of course, i am taking an extra phone with me so that i dont have to switch sim cards, making contact easier and told her i will be updating her, it just all becoming so real for her (and me) and i just hope to do the right thing, Thank you for your advice kind stranger
From my experience, women like to shit test you. Doesn't matter the age, it's happens less as they get older and her asking you this can be entirely a shit test to see how would you respond.
How come his phone keeps getting broke but yours doesn’t seem to be getting broke? ?
No he doesn’t
It's time to move on. He's making promises and not keeping them. He's showing you what he will do. Your having scholarships and grants is one thing. But you're working part-time, and he's doing nothing. He can't be trusted. Don't waste your time. You don't need him. Let him go, and the resentment will leave also. Peace!
If you agree, chances are he’ll develop feelings for someone else and the relationship will be over anyway. Haven’t come across one healthy open relationship on Reddit. Especially when one partner was coerced into it.