Kate is being fucking ridiculous, and you're right to back up your gf. Black people don't have a monopoly on darker skin tone, and shit like this is why actual issues surrounding race don't get taken seriously.
I don’t really know what you’re looking for with this post, you’re in an extremely difficult situation and I think you need to consider the facts in front of you demonstrated by your partners actions and words.
He never wanted this child, there is no point in debating whether or not he has a choice, plenty of children end up in a one parent household because one parent doesn’t want to be involved (whether morally that is right or wrong is pointless to debate)
You need to take action to find somewhere to online, find somewhere to work, find somewhere to care for your child whilst you work and understand the process for taking your partner to court for child support.
First things first “CONGRATULATIONS DR. !!!!” I hate to say it but he's an azzhole.. tell him to stay home and watch the game with his buddy because he is no longer invited … you want to celebrate with people who are truly happy for you and his negative energy is not welcome or wanted…
So, she's penalizing you for her own infidelity.
Sounds fair, right?
I should accept that a relationship with her will be with no sex
“Sorry, that's a relationship dynamic that I desire, best of luck in the future”.
Kate is being fucking ridiculous, and you're right to back up your gf. Black people don't have a monopoly on darker skin tone, and shit like this is why actual issues surrounding race don't get taken seriously.
I don’t really know what you’re looking for with this post, you’re in an extremely difficult situation and I think you need to consider the facts in front of you demonstrated by your partners actions and words.
He never wanted this child, there is no point in debating whether or not he has a choice, plenty of children end up in a one parent household because one parent doesn’t want to be involved (whether morally that is right or wrong is pointless to debate)
You need to take action to find somewhere to online, find somewhere to work, find somewhere to care for your child whilst you work and understand the process for taking your partner to court for child support.
Scarleteen is a great resource!
There is tons of stuff out there, sexy sex ed is another great example.
First things first “CONGRATULATIONS DR. !!!!” I hate to say it but he's an azzhole.. tell him to stay home and watch the game with his buddy because he is no longer invited … you want to celebrate with people who are truly happy for you and his negative energy is not welcome or wanted…
Nope. It's not a job interview. It was one date. He gave you his feedback already. Let it go.