0 views
My Lovense@be the king with@1111tk and u will receive a special treatment, @make my day with@999, @squirt@cumshow [3173 tokens remaining]
Date: October 28, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
NakedHotPussy
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
thank you for this insight. maybe this is a case of right person wrong timing
I want advice on getting what I want. Not being told “just ruin ur friendship ur shit anyway”
Dude she cheated on you but you’re the one trying to patch things up, every situation in this life goes layers and layers deep. Just your reaction to her cheating tells me why she cheated in the first place.
No.
You’re 31 and you’ve been together for nearly a year. You don’t want to change anything about your life to accommodate her or your relationship with her. Break up.
Damn that’s true but what do girls do when they’re uncomfortable in these types of situations?
36/M I don’t really whack it anymore unless she’s turned me down and I need that nut to sleep, I’ll lay there bug eyed staring at the ceiling if I don’t.??♂️
But I try not spoil the load for her if you get what I’m saying, the older I get, the more whackin it takes away from actual sex.
Have some restraint and tell her your goin to save it for her, if she don’t want it that night… go flush it down the toilet
OP, you need to write this down and keep it in your pocket! Read it over and over and over until it sinks in!
Because she was drunk. Not because she’s doing anything malicious towards you
You haven’t given a single good reason that you suspect him of cheating and yet you’ve accused him of it multiple times? And you expect him to just be okay with you constantly accusing him of cheating? You’re crazy insecure unless you’re leaving stuff out of this story. He didn’t admit to anything. He said the thing about fucking her before because YOU KEEP SAYING THAT. This relationship seems over whether or not they’ve slept together. You don’t trust him. And just based off of this post, have you considered it’s your behavior that’s pushing your friend away, not that she’s sleeping with your boyfriend?
No way man. Lawyer up, hit the gym, and take her to the cleaners. Make sure you get his elves too
Move back home with ur mom.
Don’t worry about prioritizing seeing him. Ur mom is sick and I don’t see why u would spread ur self extra thin to appease him when he’s not willing to help or try to appease u.
Just move back home and ur finances can help there for the time being. He can pay all his rent and bills by himself
Leave this POS. Your child can still have a father, it will be healthier in the long run.
Omg what are you doing to yourself??? Move on! She is being cruel, sounds abusive, and possibly has mental health issues. Steer clear. ?
I got that because you said you were always arguing. That's the part that's a big sign of trouble.
People get worn down by living with someone who is angry and/or down all the time. It's human nature.
Dude. She’s 34. You’re 34. Grow the fuck up
Honestly if he is crossing your boundaries and this situation is giving you self esteem troubles I would suggest you to ask yourself if you want to keep going with this relationship, you don’t have to be available 24/7 for having sex and what he is doing it’s more of an addiction than just watch it from to time when he is bored, if he cannot control it because it cause you insecurities then I don’t think he cares much about you. So truly ask yourself what’s the point of keep this relationship going on? And no you’re not obnoxious or controlling if he is not respecting your feelings
You go with him, with a bet, if the 2 of you see nipples, he doesn't get to drink!
Look OP. I doubt if you see this. It's going to be way down the food chain of comments on your post.
I was your age when my first daughter was born. I'm going to speak to you in generality not absolutes of fact!! I'm a guy by the way. lol
Your girlfriend is at the stage in life where having a child is something that she thinks about a lot. She wants a child. And she wants it with you. She picked her “king of the jungle” so to speak. It's you.
Not all!! But a lot of women her age now are prime for pregnancy and motherhood . It's in their nature. It's an internal drive!
The older she gets the higher the health risks are for her. A baby can suck the life out of the mother. And the mother will willing let that happen for her child.
Educate yourself brother. Do not quote me!! After 35 years of age a female is extremely high risk health wise. Look into it.
Don't do no dumb shit like dump her or be paranoid.
Knowledge is power!! Peace
You are not a horrible person for disliking him getting fat or fatter.
I do think internalizing this as a sign he doesn't care for you is a bit misplaced. I would reframe it as his feelings for you (or anyone) are not enough to motivate him to do better. In other words, divorce yourself from his decision to remain and gain.
Is his depression being adequately treated? Has he always been flippant about his health?
Yeah. That’s better than my idea of spiking him with loads of his stupid ‘edibles’ and tying him up until he gives the password!
My husband texted me threatening to call CPS on me, though I've already been in communication with them. He's going to flip the story on them. Will giving them this heads up help me?
I'm sorry you had to go through that and have people call you terrible stuff. Your parents are absolute assholes and you have every right to cut them out of your life.
How dare they make you feel bad for the things you've done, but do things 10x worse? How dare they choose getting their rocks off over giving you a wonderful upbringing?
I hope you're able to find the help you need. And know not to jump into anything too quickly before getting the help. I wish you all the best. Good luck
I know people in successful relationships with significant age gaps. My uncle recently married his husband. His husband is lovely, and has had a really amazing affect on him. He is about the same age as my older brother. No one really cared. For context, my uncle is sixty.
Just like every other relationship, what matters most is that the relationship is healthy and you're both happy, there are no power or control imbalances, and you both receive due respect.
It sounds like he wasn't on the look out for a young twenty something but you two just stumbled across each other. If this is something you want to pursue, educate yourself on what toxic behaviours are most seen in age gap relationships. Arm yourself with knowledge, just make sure it's unbiased in either direction.
For the record, I don't think 10 years is that bad (like 30-40, 40-50 etc). I'm wary about those in early to mid twenties. I do think you're quite young, but it also sounds like you two hit it off and haven't had any issues before knowing the difference.
But if this makes you uncomfortable, that's okay too. You don't have to do anything you're uncomfortable with. It works for some, and doesn't for others. If it's not for you, I don't think anyone will judge you for it. This is all your decision. Do what makes you happy.
Given he also displayed some discomfort, you two might very well have the same feelings, so he should be pretty understanding about your concerns and whatever you decide to do.
Age gaps aren't really that taboo anymore. Unless you're on Reddit. I'll probably get downvoted to hell.
Methinks some insight into what she likes may be in those books..
Took me a second , well done
are you the same narcissistic troll from yesterday? lol
was your husband drunk too?
And how did your family react to that? Did you have a one in one conversation with them, and did they accept it?
Not that they needed to accept anything, it's your life, but ye i guess what I'm trying to ask is how is yours and your husband's relationships with both of your families?
She doesn't want you dead. That's being a bit dramatic. It's room with two overly stressed people acting overly stressed. What she said was harsh and rude, but she wasn't being literal. I wouldn't run away over something this fixable.
He’s more immature than you which is kind of the reason he dates someone that much younger.
It's very hot to continue a friendship with someone you have feelings for. I would suggest you tell her now that the hookup helped you crystalize those feelings for her and you are glad that you now know and just wanted to share that with her and you don't feel bad and neither should she. ALSO sorry if that information made you feel guilty. You consider her a friend and will give her space for now.
In a few weeks you can msg again and act exactly like the friend you were and talk about whatever.
Honestly it sounds like the SIL problem has resolved itself then. Stop fretting about it and enjoy yourself. This is a problem for your STBH's family to resolve internally, not you.
Pro-tip: In a marriage, it's generally better if each spouse manages the relationship with their own side of the extended family, with the other one only stepping in if things get out of hand. It sounds like he and his mom have this relatively under control.
I think your smart enough to figure it
Lol this has got to be a joke. Lol if not consider this a lesson on dating men who are old enough to be your dad.
No. A healthy relationship isn’t a fight. Dating is not a rescue service.
Your goal is to choose wisely. Not fixate on someone and hope.
If he has to change to make you happy then he’s the wrong guy. It’s called a red flag.
He could take months, years or Never to get the change you want. He could even change and it’s not enough.
You choose someone for who they are now. Move on when it doesn’t work.
You keep avoiding this question. How much time are you going to keep investing?
Check to see if you have any other health conditions. CF causes males to get blockages in the vas deferens. Shooting blanks as well
It’s time do some research on men’s bodies. It’s not an attraction thing.
This can be multiple things. Why was he taking ED Meds recreationally? Why did he stop? Could be related to that. Could be he jerks off too much. Could be you aren’t doing what he likes. Could be nerves. Could be stress. Could be overthinking because it keeps happening. Could be an actual problem he needs checked out.
He should see a dr if this keeps happening.
No problem! For future reference, you don’t need to get on one knee to tell someone you love them. That would probably confuse them and think you’re trying to propose.
Also, I would wait at least 5 dates before saying I like you and 4-6 months to say I love you. 4 months if you hang out more than once a week seems like a fair enough timeline
Drug use being a deal breaker in relationships isn't strange. So the best thing to do is stick to your boundaries. When you give up a boundary, you are giving up who you are and your peace. No relationship should overstep who you are and your peace because the ones that do end up toxic or abusive. You can give an ultimatum and chance, but do not compromise your boundaries any further. Drug use isn't the real issue, but this is more about protecting your peace in a relationship. If drug use as a partner is something that ruins then that is no good.
Did you bother looking at the average salary of her dream job?
It's in one of her comments… And nope, I'm a full grown adult and don't keep anything from my husband. Again, never been a problem… I get not everyone feels that way but that's when you say, “hey I really wanted that to stay between us. Please don't tell your wife my business next time.” Or be proactive and say, ” here's my business, friend, but don't tell your wife.” Blowing up afterwards without specifying beforehand is ridiculous.
Side note: if my or my husband's friends said either of those two things we would distance ourselves and let them know if you're telling me you're telling my spouse. Don't like that? Don't tell me your business I promise you're not gonna hurt my feelings. We've been each other number one for 17 years and no one would be getting in the way of that.
I did mean it. But usually I’m more understanding and I’m practicing patience and not giving into impulses so I guess I’m beating myself up. I feel like this was a setback. He was receptive and was in contact a lot today. Sending me pictures of what he was doing.
The twins are HS aged and in most states have a say in what they want. Block everyone but the ex on everything. Make a email account specifically for this and give that to the ex and tell him contacting you any other way will be blocked, turn on read receipts in the emails. As a few others have said try to get him to confirm he told you he didn't want anything to do with the kids and suggested you have an abortion or thought you'd get one. And now for the hardest part, tell your kids what's going on and ASK them what they want to do. Tell them the truth that is age appropriate for them. Get them into therapy immediately too. If you live far enough away start with virtual visits. If your children become upset easily after these visits, chances are someone on your ex's side is trying to bad mouth you or your family and they don't know how to feel about it, which is where the therapy visits come into play they'll be able to advise from there. Document everything. I sincerely wish you all the best.
No I do not know it, how she feels, I did not asked her personal questions yet. I guess it was not correctly explained, my English is not so well I think. It is about the feeling I had when we came together with her not the feelings I have now. That
What on earth would be the point? You’re not allowed to sleep with anyone then what on earth would keep you there
She knew you were friends?
My Dad was more clean and organized than my Mum. My Mum was pretty clean, but not as strict about organization and clutter. I get my desire for tidiness from him.
The way the cookie crumbles mate. Find yourself a partner
So you have someone presumably well-off trying to make you fsll for him, by showering you with gifts and affection. While he refuses to get a clue that you are intimidated by him, and not interested, at least he respects your boundaries.
If you want him to leave you alobe telling him ypu have made out with someone else will definitely work (you can even exaggerate events).
If you want to get together with that gut, then I am not sure what to tell you, as you do nothing to make it happen in the first place.
My 13 year old daughter hates crowds and loud noises. I just found that out this past Nov. We were out at a busy restaurant for my husband’s birthday. It was packed and the sounds of everyone was just echoing off the walls. I looked over at her because she hadn’t been talking since we sat down and I asked her if everything was alright. Her eyes were welling up and she started crying. She said it was too loud and she wanted to go home. We had just put in our drink orders. I asked her if she brought her ear buds and she did and I said to try listening to her music. That helped her a lot to be able to muffle the loud noise of the room and having her listen to music that she’s familiar with.
She's allowed to go out with her friends without you, whether they are single or not.
Its pretty concerning that you don't even feel comfortable enough to ask her how her night went. Are you so insecure that you've already decided she was trying to cheat?
Just mustering up the courage to have the conversaton
Meh after what he did break up with him through text and block him ..
If you do it irl he'll probably gaslight you again
And honestly if it was me I'd use his own words against him in the breakup text about how he always victimizes himself to deflect from criticism
And go on to say that you know he'll probably tell people a twisted version of the truth to paint himself as the victim because that's what he is a perpetual victim by his own narrative so he can avoid any accountability (And now you've realized he's just been projecting the whole time when he accused you of doing the same)
How about your family? Is there anyone in your family that can maybe help you so you’re in a better environment because it sounds like his sisters is in a great environment. I think your boyfriend needs to step up to the plate and get a job and do art when he’s not working because yes he likes art and yes, but you also need money to pay for food and pay for your kids food and pay for diapers and you can’t be in two places at once watching the children and working so your boyfriend needs to step up to the plate and if he can’t figure that out himself He’s not a very good boyfriend he should’ve been doing this years ago many many artists work and do art to pay their bills while they’re trying to create. I think you need to give him an ultimatum that he needs to find a job immediately and help or are you gonna leave him and I’m actually pretty sure he won’t even want the kids because then he can’t cream because he’ll have to take care of them himself plus if you were a single mother with children, you could get a lot more assistance but to be honest with you even if you give him an ultimatum, he’s just gonna go back, because if he hasn’t been able to realize his love for you should be more important and to step up on the plate and get a job on his own he’s not a very good boyfriend yeah he might be sweet and he might give you kisses, but part of being a boyfriend in the adult world is being all those things sweet kisses going on dates but it’s also taking care of your girlfriend or taken care of each other by helping with bills, no matter what getting a job no matter what even if it’s a job you hate. While in a relationship and living with a girl she hurt really bad physically but then emotional was worse I picked a second so she didn’t work I just did it. I didn’t even ask you to go back to work because I knew she needed bedrest. I knew she needed to get a head back needed just rest. We wouldn’t have been able to do it or just my one job.
I’m one of the hundreds that is telling you right now to leave her ass. Be happy, don’t waste your time.