This is a reasonable boundary unlike what many people on reddit are going to tell you, expecting your partner to only pleasure himself to you is reasonable in a monogamous relationship. if it's a deal breaker for you then it's a deal breaker and you don't have to put up with it! Especially since he isn't even willing to TALK about it. A lot of good men out there will be willing to talk about it and be completely committed to you.
This is a reasonable boundary unlike what many people on reddit are going to tell you, expecting your partner to only pleasure himself to you is reasonable in a monogamous relationship. if it's a deal breaker for you then it's a deal breaker and you don't have to put up with it! Especially since he isn't even willing to TALK about it. A lot of good men out there will be willing to talk about it and be completely committed to you.