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Update: after a discussion regarding therapy and how i would be doing going to a specialist therapy which offer both group and individual as part of the plan.
She mentioned that she was uncomfortable about me going to group, I've told her unfortunately if i dont go to both they wouldn't proceed (ive been on the waiting list for this for over a year now before we even got back together) i said to her that ofc i wouldn't be trying to make friends. She got annoyed at the fact there might be women and feels its bad to be vulnerable and talk about intimacies in group therapy with a women and not just her i explained that its not going to be like that im again only doing it to help with my issues that i wouod like to fix also for the betterment of the relationship.
Ended up with an argument of how its not about that its for my own meental health. I decided to say hey you know what its not working out for both of us. Shes gone about how much of a pig i am with everything. Mentioned what shes done for me again bringing up 3-5 years ago wishing that she got with another guy she new hoping i suffer beyond belief and then threatening sui**de and then writing my name across her chest so they know its because of me.
Ive tried to calm her down and state that i care about her and im not abandoning her its just that this isnt working out from a relationship standpoint and the therapy isn't something i would compromise especially when its pretty much the only thing ive ever said no to in my time knowing her.
Obviously i care about her immensely and now im not sure what do to do and frankly im very very worried
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I know, I was just trying to help a brother out!
The wife and the boyfriend are a couple and OP is their cash machine.
Because she kept reaching out to me these past 2 years? She just hasn’t again because I didn’t respond to her last message
Update: after a discussion regarding therapy and how i would be doing going to a specialist therapy which offer both group and individual as part of the plan.
She mentioned that she was uncomfortable about me going to group, I've told her unfortunately if i dont go to both they wouldn't proceed (ive been on the waiting list for this for over a year now before we even got back together) i said to her that ofc i wouldn't be trying to make friends. She got annoyed at the fact there might be women and feels its bad to be vulnerable and talk about intimacies in group therapy with a women and not just her i explained that its not going to be like that im again only doing it to help with my issues that i wouod like to fix also for the betterment of the relationship.
Ended up with an argument of how its not about that its for my own meental health. I decided to say hey you know what its not working out for both of us. Shes gone about how much of a pig i am with everything. Mentioned what shes done for me again bringing up 3-5 years ago wishing that she got with another guy she new hoping i suffer beyond belief and then threatening sui**de and then writing my name across her chest so they know its because of me.
Ive tried to calm her down and state that i care about her and im not abandoning her its just that this isnt working out from a relationship standpoint and the therapy isn't something i would compromise especially when its pretty much the only thing ive ever said no to in my time knowing her.
Obviously i care about her immensely and now im not sure what do to do and frankly im very very worried