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Odds are she cheated. Research the facts.
When we started dating she always was complaining about her ex texting her and insisting in going back together. I only tell her to change her number so he would stop.
You’re right. Now that I think about it our relationship was broken from the beginning. I didn’t have any feelings for my ex (the one she was jealous about) but it’s obvious that she was in love with her ex all the time.
Like others are saying, she probably wouldn’t have been forthcoming about the results. I’m interested to hear how she asked you about it since. If it’s really out of the blue, then she might probably think you were the one that was doing the cheating. How did she bring it up?
I'm probably reading into this but Geriatric pregnancy, unwilling to do a paternity test, and she supplied the condoms while saying she was on the pill? Bro, you never let someone else supply YOUR condoms. For all you know YOU were he chance to have a baby and you gave it to her.
Protect yourself don't be an idiot, supply your own contraceptives. Get a paternity test, don't sign the birth certificate unless you have a test result in hand.
Small potatoes not post worthy sounds like a normal relationship to me
Why can’t your husband watch the child while you do medical care? Or hire a sitter. Or ask your MIL? Or basically leave him with anyone BUT the grandparents?
You’re the parent. One of your jobs is to protect your kid. Taking the risk of putting him through a painful reaction knowing that Gpa had disregarded a MEDICAL requirement would be negligent parenting IMHO.
If you are hell bent on leaving your child with them then all you can do is reiterate that he can’t have anything orange and hope for the best.
Trying to call them out on the lying isn’t going to achieve anything. They knew the kid was sick and lied. They’re not going admit it now.
Please open your eyes to the possibility of divorce. You need to at least be separated from him. People are correct, he is abusing you and divorce would be freeing you from a burden you shouldn’t even have.
Your daughter is 4, she is too young to be devastated. Take it from someone who wished my parents had divorced, watching my parents argue and fight and stress near daily had a deep impact on me. Do you really want your daughter to grow up and see your horrid example of a marriage? Would you want your situation for her? Be strong and show her that you will not bow or break before a man who absolutely does not deserve you.
He's manipulating you.
“Since I'm the hurt party only my feelings matter.” In certain cases that is true, like with cheating. But that's not what's going on here.
This sounds like someone who just wants you to do what he says without question. You try to be reasonable and validate his feelings and perspective but he doesn't want that. He wants obedience without question. When you don't fall in line, he goes straight to emotionally manipulating you.
You're not crazy. He is.
Bail.
This isn’t going to change. Ignore that and continue or don’t ignore it and move on, but this isn’t going to change. I’m really sorry you’ve invested so much in someone that has trapped themselves into being a sonsband but unless he’s got definite plans to move out and get therapy to untangle the toxic way in which he’s been made to patch the holes in his mothers life, this is never going to change, you will always be the other woman in her eyes and he’s going to be perpetually stuck trying to get you two to get along, often, if not always, to your detriment.
My advice would be to start seeing other people while keeping things going with the girl you are seeing. Let her bring up exclusivity and you keep doing your thing. If you find something better, it’s her loss.
At that stage, you have to distance or limit your visits to the house.
A caring and nice girl? LMAO More like a complete asshole. She’s nice to you for now until she starts treating you like this. If she’s already acting this way I suggest just dumping her before it’s too late.
I am blind in my right eye and got my driver’s license 41 years ago.
Look he is 19. You are asking him to accept a lack of sex for a potentially indefinite period of time; sure now you are saying it is just “1-2, maybe 3 months”, but who is to guarantee you will feel any different at the end of that time? Perhaps you will feel even stronger about not having sex. Or maybe you will stall for another three months. There is also a chance you become the world's biggest horndog in 3 months, though that is unlikely.
Just because sex isn't important to you, doesn't mean it is not important to him. Personally? I couldn't handle a sex free relationship. I need sex to feel connected to and intimate with my partner. Without it, the relationship feels more like a friendship to me. Sex is very much part of my love language. And those urges to have sex will not go away. I could never monogamously date someone who is ace, and I doubt I would ever engage in polyamory.
You are not wrong for being asexual, that is not what I am trying to say. But the simple fact is that sex is important to most people, and you can not reasonably expect someone to go an undefined amount of time without it. He is also not wrong for having urges that he needs to have met, and I at least give him some credit for being honest about it.
You two are fundamentally incompatible. Why try to make it work when you are 18 years old? You have a lifetime ahead of you, and so does he. Trapping each other in a situation where you are worried he will cheat if you express yourself, and he will worry that you will one day rob him of his intimacy needs, sounds incredibly unhealthy and disgusting.
Sorry, a lot of these comments have come whilst I was at work, I'm working my way through them
Because going to prison doesn't make you a bad person. Your choices that led you there may have been bad. But that doesn't define who you are.
So your fiancé literally told his boss to never give him an award (after he publicly rejected it) and is surprised/hurt that same boss didn't give him the expected promotion afterwards? Even if that shouldn't necessarily be so, a promotion is often seen as an award too (among other things) by people in the workforce. If his boss sees things that way (and the vast majority of bosses do) no wonder your fiancé didn't get the promotion. Your bf has some real problems if he doesn't get that basic thing. He also resorts to being passive aggressive when in conflic which is also a huge relationship problem. I hope he's going to mature some more, but I wouldn't hold my breath at your place. The only thing you did slightly wrong is talking about it to your parents. They gave you some solid advice, but getting one's parents in what's basically a relationship problem almost always is a quite bad idea. You could've got solid advices from other people (like a therapist for example) without adding the pressure of your parents getting into your relationship in a way.
Move on. Re-assess in January. Don't expect her to wait around for you, and don't wait around for her.
if this was the case, then why wouldn’t the mom assert that there’s no possible way that anyone else could be the father? Seems clear she did cheat based on her reaction
The only comment that OP needs to read
No set time.
I sent here a text at 1 am about me going home. I was very clear that it was just an FYI and that she could stay as long as she want.
No text at all during the evening. Further, nightlife in our city dies at 5 o’clock.
I've dated girls longer than this without knowing their names, names are overrated
I hope karma does get him to be honest
It’s kinda scary that he didn’t talk to you about this first. Now you’re put in an awkward situation with him coming to stay with you. Please be safe
I would say yes, but then actually separate finances because they defintiely aren't right now.
You’re 23, time to get your life together, work on yourself and move on.
I stayed in a bad marriage for 11 years too long. I can tell you the day I should have left and the day I said I wanted a divorce. My youngest grew up seeing his father verbally and emotionally abuse me for his first 11 years. Leave for your kids.
Oof yeah I’m not a porn girl either. Not really because of the comparison with other women or anything but because of the ethics.
I also think men watching lesbian sex has a certain…gross aspect to it because you’re sexualizing a relationship that theoretically shouldn’t involve you. It kinda implies imo, that you see all women as sexually consumable, even the ones that don’t even like men. I get that most men don’t think that deeply about it; it’s just “2 women is better than 1 yay!” But from a woman’s perspective — it’s upsetting that you sexualize wlw relationships.
From your gf’s perspective, she can never be 2 women. She can never perform what you were watching. It’s easy to see how that would lead to insecurity/inadequacy.
The advice you need depends on what your goal is, so what is your goal?
What was the context of how he told you that?
What do you think about your weight gain?
This relationship is dead. Time to move on.
She's insecure. It's valid but it can't dictate your life. Let her know you're sorry to hear this is a deal breaker but you will not comply with this. You can check in every so often or call he ronce a day to help her feel secure but she needs to review her attachment style, maybe in therapy as her request is not reasonable long term.
Whiny little piss baby is the term I use.
Say, “Your complaining drains me,” just like that.
how do I talk to him about this?
“Hey get a job, I'm tired of carring you”
And the flirting part ?
Firstly, anytime you are not up for sex you should be able to decline and have that respected. That she’s pressuring you is not okay. Her proper course of action should be accepting and then leaving you alone about it. Go play with a toy if you need to.
Secondly, that is beyond the normal scope for a high sex drive. She should talk to her doctor, something is going wrong. Lady parts are not more durable than man parts, she should be hurting too. And this has to be interfering with getting anything else done in her life.
No one is wrong. He masturbates, just like most adults of all genders, and you don’t like what he masturbates to.
Attempts to make someone stop masturbating the way they like to never work; on this sub alone there are 10,000+ posts of people upset because they made their partner promise to never look at porn, and then they did and lied about it.
You’re allowed to not like it, but you need to either find somebody who shares your views or figure out how to get over whatever insecurities are making you want to control your partner’s masturbatory habits.
Because it isn’t going to work, and you’re only going to end up resentful that he continues to do it in secret.
I have never heard of a single relationship where one person banned porn because they’re insecure, and the other didn’t just do it secretly and lie about it.
I’m a married woman in my 40s. I watch porn, my husband watches porn, sometimes we watch together and sometimes on our own. It’s great! I can’t recommend enough just getting over this idea that your partner isn’t supposed to have a fantasy life unless it revolves solely around you.
I think an “ultimatum” on a ring is what makes this most distasteful. I will say, you will be getting a free wedding and home if their word is true and as another comment says, I think it’s a nice bargain in exchange for buying her an expensive ring. But it should never be about how expensive it is, there’s love behind most wedding rings given. You just have to decide if this is okay with you, and know that in the future she may want to splurge on other items as well. She will continue to live! her wealthy lifestyle, you have to decide if it’s achievable, affordable, and desirable for you. If neither of those three click, I think you should cut the reigns before you invest further, or have a true discussion on how she really feels about this and if she’s willing to actually lose you over the cost of the ring. If her answer is reassuring/satisfactory for you, I’d say make your choice to stay. But again, if you’re just not down with any of that I think you know what’s best. Good luck.
advice from someone who married too young. Go and enjoy your 20's. Travel, learn, be free. You will soon enough be tied down and that will last a very long time. Go find yourself.
This was totally a joke. You are being way too sensitive. My husband would totally make this joke and he wouldn't mean anything by it.
You still have your own life to online, therefore they were some extremely horrible remarks to say to you.
Scrolled too far to find this.
I’m not conservative in the slightest but if my partner went to a strip club, I’d break up with her. To me that’s cheating.