It will only get worse from here if you stay with him. His actions were jealous and controlling, and don't come from a place of caring, appreciation, or love.
If you stay, here's some experiences you should be prepared for:
He controls every outfit you wear, not just special occasion outfits, and withholds affection or says mean things if you ever attempt to deviate.
He controls who you spend time with, until you wake up and realize you haven't seen any other friends or family for months. He withholds affection or says mean things if you ever attempt to deviate.
He starts putting you down about you looks, makeup, weight… and if you attempt to stand up for yourself, he withhholds affection or says mean things. Maybe he throes out your makeup or skincare. Maybe he lays a hand on you because “you just make me so mad! If you'd just listen to me, I wouldn't have to hit you”
This will increase in frequency and ferocity until he beats you badly enough for an outsider to intervene and call the police (or gives him a taste of being hit by someone bigger and angrier). Maybe he'll kill you before that happens because intimate partner violence kills more women worldwide than any other cause.
Some people might tell you that he's young and still learning, but girl, it is not your responsibility to teach a grown man how to be a decent human. Anyone who claims they think this is the way relationships are meant to work is 100% the bad guy and has something key in their humanity and morality utterly polluted and broken. Get that cute outfit out of the trash, wash it, and look amazing as you cut his worthless ass out of your life.
OP, men have killed trans women over this exact scenario.
He needs to really learn that it isn't something you spring on someone in the moment.
It will only get worse from here if you stay with him. His actions were jealous and controlling, and don't come from a place of caring, appreciation, or love.
If you stay, here's some experiences you should be prepared for:
He controls every outfit you wear, not just special occasion outfits, and withholds affection or says mean things if you ever attempt to deviate.
He controls who you spend time with, until you wake up and realize you haven't seen any other friends or family for months. He withholds affection or says mean things if you ever attempt to deviate.
He starts putting you down about you looks, makeup, weight… and if you attempt to stand up for yourself, he withhholds affection or says mean things. Maybe he throes out your makeup or skincare. Maybe he lays a hand on you because “you just make me so mad! If you'd just listen to me, I wouldn't have to hit you”
This will increase in frequency and ferocity until he beats you badly enough for an outsider to intervene and call the police (or gives him a taste of being hit by someone bigger and angrier). Maybe he'll kill you before that happens because intimate partner violence kills more women worldwide than any other cause.
Some people might tell you that he's young and still learning, but girl, it is not your responsibility to teach a grown man how to be a decent human. Anyone who claims they think this is the way relationships are meant to work is 100% the bad guy and has something key in their humanity and morality utterly polluted and broken. Get that cute outfit out of the trash, wash it, and look amazing as you cut his worthless ass out of your life.