Sounds like you need a boyfriend who doesn’t have a kid by someone else, who you could get away with together. Or just be single so nobody bugs you on your weekends for alone time, because when you’re in a serious relationship usually things are done together on weekends since people work during the week. Should just be with a guy who doesn’t have kids, then have them once you’re both ready to give all your time to them.
I already know that he won’t stop, I think that ship sailed long ago. I’ve just been feeling angry and I want him to know that I’m angry. I want him to know exactly why he doesn’t have a daughter anymore
Reading back what I wrote paints a very bleak picture… I want to emphasise that the good times are the bestest ever, that's why I'm looking for a solution. I don't think he is inherently bad – it's the dynamic?
I asked a very specific question you couldn’t answer, my views don’t matter try again 🙂 I already stated to each their own and if both people are okay with it then it’s fine.
Your mom sucks. she is choosing this creep over you. also, he's probably been trying to groom you. Stay safe! try not to spend any time alone with him because I could see him trying something.
So firstly: “She texted me saying “I’m really trying to cheer you up but nothing works”” then you say the following: “I was hoping she’d comfort me. Invite me over hold me let me cry in her arms…”
So she can't do right either way??? And now she is giving you space because cheering you on obviously doesnt work and then you pull out this kind of BS.
OP stop this constant push-pulling, you suck as a partner and I dont blame her ghosting you.
Your girlfriends arent your therapists so you need to make an effort to find a real therapist and work on yourself. Or be alone with lots of broken relationships, your choice.
I don’t understand why he didn’t just get work the affair partner if he is still having an affair with her now? Like why date someone else just to carry on unless that’s their kink which is horrible to their significant others
Don't buy that “he was afraid to tell you” stuff either, he either only wanted this to be a fling and lied to you about having kids, or he led you on until you were invested and less likely to leave before revealing
I got my husband a cake that had drunken groomsmen on it and looked like a icebucket with beers around it. I kept it a surprise because he really loves fruitcake. And i absolutely hate it along with everyone in my family. So we mixed the flavors for our wedding cake vanilla/chocolate/carrot/red velvet.
Don’t marry or date for real a girl who talks to lots of guys or who’s friend circle is basically 1-3 females less attractive than herself and a bunch of dude orbiters and exes.
This is the way
This has to be bait.
I think she's referencing Manacled? Based on some trash booktok instas I follow it fits the bill
Sounds like you need a boyfriend who doesn’t have a kid by someone else, who you could get away with together. Or just be single so nobody bugs you on your weekends for alone time, because when you’re in a serious relationship usually things are done together on weekends since people work during the week. Should just be with a guy who doesn’t have kids, then have them once you’re both ready to give all your time to them.
Why do you need to be funny, just curious?
Positive. I checked Facebook, and shes def family
Is he going to go halves on the cost of birth control? your sanitary products?
I already know that he won’t stop, I think that ship sailed long ago. I’ve just been feeling angry and I want him to know that I’m angry. I want him to know exactly why he doesn’t have a daughter anymore
Please please please get out! He is controlling and violent. You deserve so much better.
thehotline.org
womenslaw.org/find-help/advocates-and-shelters
helpguide.org/articles/abuse/getting-out-of-an-abusive-relationship.htm
So he moved in with me – I'm home!
Reading back what I wrote paints a very bleak picture… I want to emphasise that the good times are the bestest ever, that's why I'm looking for a solution. I don't think he is inherently bad – it's the dynamic?
I asked a very specific question you couldn’t answer, my views don’t matter try again 🙂 I already stated to each their own and if both people are okay with it then it’s fine.
Vet but I would be confused by how the 2 cats are now interacting
I mean by the time you hit three years, it's a both parties issue.
Her sticking around unhappy and completely unfulfilled is enabling it to continue forever
“Gross! You changed my diapers…”
“So you've been trying for 'uncle bad touch'?
“Hey Mom! [Blank] just said he wants to fuck me. Thoughts??”
“Dude… You're 40, where are your manners?”
“…. Well that's disgusting”
Your mom sucks. she is choosing this creep over you. also, he's probably been trying to groom you. Stay safe! try not to spend any time alone with him because I could see him trying something.
I wouldn't date someone like that, because I have self respect.
Thank you, I’ll take it into consideration.
So firstly: “She texted me saying “I’m really trying to cheer you up but nothing works”” then you say the following: “I was hoping she’d comfort me. Invite me over hold me let me cry in her arms…”
So she can't do right either way??? And now she is giving you space because cheering you on obviously doesnt work and then you pull out this kind of BS.
OP stop this constant push-pulling, you suck as a partner and I dont blame her ghosting you.
Your girlfriends arent your therapists so you need to make an effort to find a real therapist and work on yourself. Or be alone with lots of broken relationships, your choice.
It’s possible you were invited because they need to you to monetarily contribute, contribute with your time or goods
This is what I'm thinking. They want something from her, or need more warm bodies to afford whatever it is.
Right, like she's the sweetest person when she's getting her way… but when she's not, she's telling you you don't deserve her love? Byeeeee Felicia.
Dip!
That's kind of one of our problems too. If I ask him to help me he'll always say yes but then never do it.
I don’t understand why he didn’t just get work the affair partner if he is still having an affair with her now? Like why date someone else just to carry on unless that’s their kink which is horrible to their significant others
I wonder… was she wearing her wedding ring?
DUDE! You got called out for your OWN online and RL behavior a few posts up…and you have NOTHING to say about your OWN hypocrisy??
Funny that…
BTW – Barftastic post history.
Don't buy that “he was afraid to tell you” stuff either, he either only wanted this to be a fling and lied to you about having kids, or he led you on until you were invested and less likely to leave before revealing
You literally have to ‘serve the public’ for a number of years before your debt is forgiven. He is exactly the right age
I think so ?. What do you suggest . Btw you are a great designer ?.
I got my husband a cake that had drunken groomsmen on it and looked like a icebucket with beers around it. I kept it a surprise because he really loves fruitcake. And i absolutely hate it along with everyone in my family. So we mixed the flavors for our wedding cake vanilla/chocolate/carrot/red velvet.
And he had his own and it came with beer!
Yeah it’s a normal response usually for people who have secrets to hide. Trust your gut. That is odd behavior and idk why that would be trustworthy
I was exhausted just reading all of that.
Don’t marry or date for real a girl who talks to lots of guys or who’s friend circle is basically 1-3 females less attractive than herself and a bunch of dude orbiters and exes.