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Date: October 19, 2022
That’s not what he said
Why would she rather be single than be with you? Wouldn't she have more responsibility?
How long did you date before marriage?
Honestly, I don’t know how you get too clingy when you’re a long-distance relationship. Maybe you talk too much but it seems he calls you through the day. The minute somebody starts backing up like that in your long distance relationship where do you go with that? How do you make that work? I don’t know that you do. I would tell him to think about what he wants and you’ll do the same and get back to them and see what happens.
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It will suck when the coworker is living in your house.
I wouldn't buy my weird ex a starter sim card as it has to be registered to an ID. here you are having a hf who sulks because you don't want to buy him a gun. Please think about this for a long second…
People are very complex, the only thing you can do is ask your friend why and if they dont want to answer then thats it, you cant always get that 100%
I don't know, honestly. I was pretty clear about how I didn't really like marriage from the very start initially she was okay with it, but now she's done a 180 and saying she wants to get married. Not like now now, but like eventually, she wants that to be the end goal. I think she has some family pressure on the matter. We want kids but I think her parents are against kids before marriage kinda thing… really backwards ppl her family…
Some people see different events in different lights. My girlfriend and I aren’t huge about birthdays or valentines, but we take our anniversary seriously. But I’ve met other couples where they take birthday celebrations seriously and do nothing for their anniversary.
Like with anything in a relationship communication is key. If you leave the door closed to be surprised you also leave the door closed to be disappointed. So with my girlfriend we work most things out together (like what we will do or what I’m planning to get her), sure, there aren’t many surprises but there is also zero let downs.
That doesn’t mean it’s boring, it just means I can surprise her at random times through the year and because it’s not on a monumental event that’s regardless of how big or small the surprise is it’s well received.
An example would be that you are let down you got flowers on your 10th anniversary but if he bought you flowers home randomly after some random work day I’m sure it would be seen as actually very romantic (and maybe not understanding that context is why he is confused). If you wanted to work out something special for the anniversary you should work it out with him, especially if it is so important to you that a bad result with make you second guess the entire relationship.
Hey, it’s your time. If you want to wait and see how it goes, do that. I don’t think I’d keep dragging it out but I don’t like wasting time.
When I started dating again after my divorce at 39YO, I went on ~25 first dates, 10 second, and 1 third over the course of 2 mos. 3rd date guy is my partner of 5 years now. I usually knew right away if I felt chemistry or not. And then it was more about learning about their beliefs and goals and evaluating if there was alignment. I didn’t spend a lot of time messaging or talking on the phone beforehand or between dates as I feel like you can really like someone’s thoughts and feelings and invest a lot of time in that only to find that there’s just no chemistry and it was a waste of time. But for me, sex and chemistry are important.
That's not right. I wouldn't feel comfortable with this forceful behaviour.
I installed cameras through out the house and changed the locks within hours of the event. That much I certainly have covered, and absolutely agree with you on.
I still don’t understand the kill part people say. I really don’t see her doing that, except through the concept of ‘escalation’ which I’ve seen with her and seems to be pretty common with anger management cases.
But it’s hard to see. Because she is a sweet, and amazing person. This post is focuses on the 1% of abuse and it’s dark. There’s a 99% of an amazing person this post doesn’t do justice to. Not that I’m defending that person, I’m just trying to be honest about the full picture.
It wouldn’t be fair to size her down to this alone.
But generally I do agree. You’re right, she has woken me up at night angry a number of times, 2 of about 5 resulted in assault. So there’s a little more than those 2. But generally I feel most things beneath physical confrontation are normal to happen a few times in relationships. A handful of fights a year that result in more intense confrontation than what you might see in therapy type discussions feels normal.
But I did grow up in a in abusive home. So I’m more comfortable in those scenarios than most. My parents staid together. My dad changed. It took 20 years, my childhood. And it certainly was not all bad. Very similar here, 99% amazing guy. 1% something else.
As a result I’m unfortunately really good at calming people down in these scenarios. Which is why I’m the handful of times the anger came forth, I know not to engage. It’s why I withdraw.
You're being petty. These are the problems of someone 20 years younger than you.
You were right about him, but I'd have evidence a pic of the screen would be best, tell your mom, if she doesn't believe you tell the next closest woman to you. Lock your door.
you’re in emotional shock. book therapy asap.
the fact you’ve been his rock makes it even worse. talk to a trusted friend or family member that will give you honest advice , you need the support because at some point them feeling will come!
Has he clarified why he had something different on his profile? What did he say the reason was?
Okay, also based on what I said about my friend, do you think it is likely that they still care about me but just need to be alone for a bit, and then they’ll reach out?
fellas, is it gay to fuck women?
You are in a verbally abusive relationship. Being constantly criticized and emotionally beaten down is abuse.
Get rid of her and raise your standards to the point where you will only accept a partner who treats you with respect.
You need an attorney and a therapist, not a loser who cheats, abandons his kids, and blames you for it.
That usually means you are at the end of the relationship. It happens, the only cruel thing would be to string him along.